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“How will our word respond...” This topic has already been spoken and discussed. Our words tend to have a reciprocal, reactive effect, and therefore it is necessary to choose words, to weigh them is necessary, and to use them in special cases in a completely special way. Men who hear these phrases will amaze you with their response to them, and yet the effect will be very real and deep, and therefore for a long time. This is a kind of “love potion”, but it only needs to be used skillfully with words.
For example, “I love you” and “I miss you” cannot be said often, otherwise the words will lose their power and become like a broken record, even if they are sincere.
Each word is a kind of code that carries information. Here are the most common phrases to which he will certainly react. And you will see how much reciprocal warmth you will receive simply by saying them sincerely and from the heart. Sometimes he won’t show it, sometimes he will melt, and sometimes he will support the topic he has started - one way or another - the phrases hit the target. Try:
1. My Beloved (IMPORTANT: do not use the word - Dear, this word no longer contains the necessary information. On the contrary, this word in relation to a man has a glamorous and mannered connotation); 2. Strong 3. You are the best (awesome phrase, it works for almost all types of men of any age) 4. I don’t have enough words to express how much I love you (A fire starter phrase in a relationship, just don’t say it often) 6. Smart (amazing effect - the word bomb!)
7. Smart, well done (don’t be shy: use these words generously and often, and you will be happy!) 8. Unsurpassed (in a specific matter) 9. Amazing (this word can also be used to describe his actions) 10. I feel the same way about you good (you can just say that, an excellent phrase that never happens enough!); 11. You turn me on (and also “insert” - this is a treasure for close relationships, a hook phrase); 12. I miss you so much (a good phrase if you are apart); 13. I admire you (no comments!) 14. You know how to make me laugh (his sense of humor is top notch, which means a lot!) 15. You know me inside and out (A wonderful phrase that generates trust, the main thing is - don’t do the opposite, otherwise it won’t work) 16. I adore your touch (Useful phrase) 17. Behind you, I’m like behind a stone wall (Even if this is not the case, it will be!) 18. I breathe with you (this is how you can end a quarrel) 19. I can’t imagine what I would do without you (Even in small things, instead of “thank you”, and with tenderness in my eyes.) 20. Next to you I am so calm (the same effect as in the phrase with “stone wall”) 21. I'm so happy with you (Great phrase) 22. I miss your hugs (Great phrase that works 100% when you're apart) 23. You're so insatiable (All men dream of being like that, so let's tell him this , and he will!)
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24. I feel so lonely without you (Good energy, tell him this often on the phone, in letters, SMS) 25. I can’t wait to see you (similar, worth a try) 26. I don’t need anything but your love (This means that you love him not for something, but at the behest of your heart) 27. I trust you in everything (Good phrase, it works) 28. I will follow you to the ends of the earth (Loyalty of a beloved woman and devotion is not that is it his dream?) 29. You changed my life (and tell me that this is not so?) 30. I am so grateful to you for everything you have done for me (works well, proven phrase, works 100 percent) 31. I I want to be with you forever (Oddly enough, despite some pathos, many men like this phrase. Try it.) 32. I want to wake up next to you every morning (Chic magnet, go for it, girls!) 33 . I have never loved anyone so much! (Would you be pleased to hear that? He would too!) 34. You know how to be so gentle (great phrase!) 35. I go crazy when you look at me like that (Let him look more often and more intently, this will only benefit us)
Of course, if you feel that you cannot say such a phrase from the heart, it is better not to try, it can also have the opposite effect. But if next to you is a worthy man who has not heard such openly warm phrases for a long time, this is a win-win option! In your family, where household chores and everyday life crowd out feelings, this cannot be allowed! And these phrases will definitely re-ignite feelings.
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How to seduce a man: tips from a pickup artist
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New Year is the time of fulfillment of desires. And many single women have only one wish when the chimes strike - to meet their one and only. Meanwhile, psychologists are sure that for this dream to become a reality, it is not enough for a woman to simply wait for a prince on a white horse - she must be active herself.
But what exactly can be done in this direction was told to us by the capital psychologist Elena Gamayun, who visited Yaroslavl and has been teaching girls the art of pickup for several years. Especially for KP readers, she revealed several secrets on how to properly seduce the man you like and then marry him.
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A woman’s pickup differs from a man’s in that its goal is not quick sex, but the beginning of a long and strong relationship. In a word, what every woman dreams of.
According to Elena Gamayun, one of the main secrets of successful dating is the ability to make a pleasant impression on a man so that he himself wants to get to know you. And, no matter how trivial it may sound, a woman should take care of her appearance, because it is she who, first of all, pays attention to the stronger sex.
No less important, according to Elena Gamayun, is a woman’s inner sense of self, her energy, which is felt by the people around her. Speaking figuratively, a woman should bloom. This is what attracts men. Therefore, your attitudes that “all men are assholes” and “all the good ones have already been taken apart” need to be changed. Otherwise, everything in your life will be like this. Instead, it is better to repeat to yourself more often that you are self-sufficient and brave, that you choose men for yourself and that now you will communicate with the most worthy of them.
For some, favorite music will help them tune into a positive mood; for others, meditation, yoga, sports, dancing, or attending special women’s trainings.
In addition, we must remember that the feminine energy that men fall for is taken away by negative emotions - fears, resentments, worries. So drive them away!
And one more important rule: a woman must clearly understand what kind of man she wants to meet.
— Many girls themselves don’t know who they want to meet. They say: at least someone! You can not do it this way. Thinking about this, the woman sends this request to the universe and it fulfills it. Therefore, a woman must clearly decide what her chosen one should be like in order to get a truly worthy man next to her!
Sexy hooks
Elena Gamayun is sure that a skilled pick-up artist will not need to meet men herself. Men will take the first step themselves. Your task is to provoke this.
She does not recommend that girls meet in nightclubs and bars, since people there are usually inclined towards “easy” relationships.
There are better places to meet the man of your dreams - at car shows, gyms, high-end swimming pools and good restaurants, shopping centers, men's clothing stores, hunting and fishing departments, building materials stores and other places where there are usually a lot of representatives of the stronger sex.
One of the ways to attract attention and encourage the man you like to meet you is to ask him for help. For example, in a shopping center, ask where the cafe or cinema is located. In a men's clothing store, you can ask permission to put something on a man and explain that you are buying a gift for, say, your brother, and he has exactly the same build. At the same time, you need to be polite, friendly and always smile. This conversation could very well be a great way to start a conversation, which will then develop into a date.
In addition, you can use sexual “hooks” - special gestures that will make you more desirable in the eyes of a man. For example, straighten your hair in a sexy way, run your hand along the neckline of a blouse, etc.
If you see that the man you like has paid attention to you, do not turn away, as he will think that he is not interested in you and therefore will never approach you. It's better to make it clear that you liked him. There is a special technique for this: look into his eyes, smile, lower your eyes and look at him again. By doing this, you will simultaneously demonstrate your modesty and make it clear that you are ready to communicate.
Provoke the hunter!
Of course, any woman wants to meet love for life. Elena Gamayun revealed several secrets on how to make sure that your chosen one does not disappear after the first date. You need to be cheerful, sociable, and be able to relax him through conversation and distract him from his worries.
At the same time, we must remember three more things that make a woman more attractive to a man - her success in her career, her luck and interest in her from other men. Therefore, according to Elena Gamayun, it is important for a lady to be able to advantageously present herself, her family, her work, and show what an enviable bride she is. For example, instead of the phrase “my mother was a doctor, and is now retired,” you can say that “she was a doctor, and everyone still goes to her for consultations.” And ordinary names of professions can be replaced with spectacular synonyms: instead of “economist,” say “head of a department of a large corporation.” It seems to be the same thing, but is perceived completely differently.
A sore subject is personal life. Speaking about it, you can make a lot of mistakes. Elena Gamayun advises girls not to bring up the conversation on this topic at all. But if a man himself inquires about your situation, then it is impossible to say that you have been alone for several years or, conversely, that you have another man. The first will scare him (he might think that something is wrong with you), and the second will confuse him (he will wonder what she is doing here then). The best option is to make it clear that you have fans, but it is he who is interested in you now. In general, the presence of fans and a certain excitement around a woman can provoke a man as a hunter, he will have an incentive to woo you, to prove that he is the best.
When asked “Are you married,” it is better to answer “I don’t want to yet” or “I feel good about myself.”
And if you had a marriage, then you can say that it happened out of stupidity. But at the same time, there is no need to insult your former partner.
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Who to avoid
There are men that every self-respecting woman needs to avoid. These are gigolos, drunkards, drug addicts, psychopaths, pick-up artists. It is sometimes difficult to recognize them. But there are certain signs that will help to carry out a competent “selection”. For example, nervous twitching of limbs, shifting eyes, bruises under the eyes, requests for a loan of money can reveal people with bad habits. Reluctance to pay for yourself and for you in a cafe, to delve into your problems is typical of gigolos and pick-up artists. The latter can also be recognized by the fact that they often look at the girl as a sexual object, despite the fact that she herself has not yet given any hints that she likes him, they impose their communication and opinion, etc.
