What woman has not dreamed of winning hearts with one look, a gait, or a fleeting gesture? What envy arouses women who master this art perfectly. However, everyone can learn this. It is enough to develop the right attitude, learn the signal system and practice a little.
Thoughts shape reality
The process of seduction is an action, the success of which largely depends on the right attitude. How often it happens that a woman who does not shine with beauty at all attracts men, and a delightful beauty is used only as a work of art - it’s nice to look at, but you don’t want to approach her. There are two “big secrets” at work here.
First, a woman should simply radiate confidence in her feminine attractiveness. This can be achieved by simple self-hypnosis: “I am attractive”, “I drive men crazy”, “All the men I meet want me”, etc. There can be a lot of options. The main thing is to find the appropriate wording.
The second secret is that an unapproachable appearance seriously reduces the chances of successful seduction. To seduce, a woman must exude desire herself. To do this, it is not at all necessary to hang yourself on all men, the attitude is enough: “I agree to meet you, I am ready to continue communication” and everything in the same spirit.
Appearance care
The very first factor to attract a man’s attention is a well-groomed, feminine appearance, which is why you need to constantly monitor your appearance. Any man, including rich ones, loves well-groomed, feminine and beautiful girls. Men especially like it when a woman smells very tasty and appetizing. That’s why if your goal is to please a rich and married man, you need to try to always be in good shape, use good perfumes, creams and remember that there should be no intimidating little things in your appearance. You must pay attention to everything and under no circumstances leave the house without makeup. A woman should always have:
- healthy, fresh look;
- even skin tone;
- beautiful makeup with a light blush;
- beautiful hairstyle, etc.
Pedicures and manicures never take last place, so you need to pay close attention to them too. After all, many men consider well-groomed, velvety and beautiful hands a sign of sophistication and femininity. Try to dress stylishly and fashionably, but this does not mean that you will have to spend a lot of money on it. The main thing is that the clothes suit you, just create your own unique image. Hair and face masks play an important role, as rich men like women with beautiful, clean and well-groomed hair. If your main target is a married man, then you should look more beautiful and attractive than his wife, even if you don't know her. You need to be able to always stand out from the crowd and use good, fragrant perfumes in reasonable doses. Choose the scent so that you also feel comfortable and pleasant. Your shoes, bag and clothes should also look ideal.
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Gymnastics, dancing and yoga: how these activities help seduce2
When the necessary mood has been developed, you can move on to “physical” preparation. This is not about going to the gym and working on the inches of your waist and hips. It is much more important to awaken natural grace, plasticity of movements, the ability to feel and control one’s own body.
For women, dancing, yoga, and gymnastics can be called indispensable helpers in this matter. You can study at home on your own, you can go to special classes - it’s not so important. Another important thing is the desire to “make friends” with your own body. In addition, all these activities give self-confidence and a good mood, give a feeling of happiness and harmony. This is much more important for seduction than a good figure and ability to dress.
Responsiveness
Individual postures and body position of a man will tell about his interest in you. For example, representatives of the opposite sexes met in the office corridor to say a few phrases. The position a man is in will allow his attitude to be calculated. A tilt of the head towards the interlocutor, legs spread wider than usual and thumbs tucked into the waistband of trousers are sure signs of sympathy. Arms hanging along the body, toes of shoes directed in the direction opposite to the woman, indicate the man’s indifference.
"Erotic" look6
A lot has been said and written about how to seduce a man with your gaze. “In a corner, on your nose, at an object,” look closely from under your eyelashes, etc. However, such techniques usually do not cause anything other than suspicion of female strabismus in men. It is much more important to use physiological signals that indicate sexual arousal.
Usually the secret of a “magical” look lies in dilated pupils. This is a direct signal to the male libido - dilated pupils are a clear sign of sexual arousal. Achieving dilation of the pupils is simple: you need to look at an object that is located far behind the man’s back, and then quickly move your gaze to the object of desire.
Let your body speak for you!
There are women who always look and act seductively. Many people think that this is given to them by nature, and that it is impossible to learn such an art. But that's not true. You can learn the art of seducing a man without using words or flashy cleavage. You can skillfully flirt with your object of desire. But when it comes to the point where the words “You're so fucking sexy, I want you!” are already literally escaping your lips, is there anything stopping you? Perhaps shame or fear of rejection, or maybe just a reluctance to speak directly. The reasons can be very different, but the point is that in such a matter it is better to let the body speak! After all, in fact, in any communication, body language, tone come first, and only then words. Sexy Confidence has compiled a list of techniques that will tell a man a lot and make him want you!
Smile
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We all know the power of a smile. But in temptation it is important how you smile. Make sure you smile with a sincere smile that extends not only to your lips but also to your eyes. Such a smile will make it clear that you are pleased to be around him. You can also give him a sexy smile that seems to say, “I’m thinking about what you’re like in bed.”
Point your navel at him
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No, we were not mistaken - it’s the navel. This will say a lot for you. Chris Ulrich of the Body Language Institute says that pointing your belly button toward someone you're talking to shows that you like and trust them. Even if your head is turned the other way, point your stomach directly towards the other person.
Touch it
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But the main thing here is not to overdo it. How to seduce a man with touch? You shouldn't stroke the hair on his chest, just touch his hand a couple of times. You can also piquantly and completely “accidentally” touch his leg with your knee under the table. This will subtly convey your intentions to your partner and warm up their interest in you.
Don't cross your arms
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This signal indicates that the interlocutor is not interesting to you.
Try to avoid him when communicating with the man you like. Sometimes, crossing your arms over your chest can also indicate that you are feeling unsafe. Even if you find yourself crossing your arms just out of habit or because you feel comfortable, lower them and move slightly towards the other person.
Hip-based gait7
It is this hip sway that attracts attention and drives men crazy. The secret is simple - down with sneakers, ballet flats and loafers. A confident “yes” to the stiletto heel. Even if only for a short time, until this gait becomes normal and the habit of running headlong disappears completely.
Emphasis on lips 4
Opening the mouth, licking and biting - all these manipulations give emphasis to one of the erogenous zones, which remains visible almost always. If you use them during a conversation with a man you like, his level of sexual arousal will gradually begin to increase.
For some reason, this simple technique is often forgotten, but scientists have long proven that a smiling person looks more attractive. Therefore, sometimes a fleeting glance and a smile are enough to start the seduction process.
Stroke and touch9
Touching yourself is a failsafe technique. It consists of stroking the arms, neck, shoulders, knees as if it were the touch of a lover. Such a simple technique shows a man that a woman is comfortable with him, and she doesn’t mind him moving from talking to stroking.
This same group of seductive gestures includes touching a man. Lightly stroking your hand, brushing away an invisible speck of dust, straightening a strand of hair. All touches should not be intrusive. Their goal is to show the object of seduction that the woman has a desire to touch him and perhaps move on to more daring caresses.
Find your approach to a man
Every woman has her own tools to seduce a man with her body language. Maybe your friend is great at seducing men with her moves on the dance floor, but if you are not good at dancing, this method will not suit you. Maybe you have such charm that no man can resist. Whatever it is, use your methods! After all, the most important thing is your individuality! This is what made the man ask you out on a date! To get the best results, be confident and….yourself!
Before you seduce a man, be sure to decide what result you want to get. Many of these techniques will not only attract attention, but will also indicate that you are ready to get as close as possible to a man.
AQUARIUS
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Aquarius men more often dream about the women they are attracted to than try to actually get to know them. Having decided to ask your familiar couples, in which the representative of the stronger sex is Aquarius, about how their relationship began, you will be convinced that the statistics here are monotonous and men born under this zodiac sign are quite indecisive. Of all the men belonging to the element of air, Aquarians are the only ones who are not prone to betrayal. Uranus, which rules their motives, always promotes a fresh look at their partner. Aquarians are able to spend hours trying different types of caresses on the woman they love, always finding new sensations in it. However, most women do not like such actions - they are too monotonous. If you are tired of hours of massage or prolonged oral stimulation, don’t be shy, tell Aquarius about it. Representatives of this sign will definitely take into account your comments and take into account your wishes. They easily agree to suggestions to use this or that position, an intimate toy, or change the environment.
