How does a woman's relationship with a young man develop?

Woman is zero, woman is minus, woman is plus.

There are zero women who extort your attention and approval and drain your vitality.
The longer you are around them, the more clearly you feel that there are fewer of you, and more of them. There are women - minus, who, with their fear of losing loved ones, slowly but surely drive them into the grave. And there are women - plus - those special women, next to whom you blossom and become the darling of fate, the lucky one, the favorite of fortune.

A woman's purpose is to be such a woman - a plus, whose environment blossoms and makes sure that she is satisfied and nourishes them with her wonderful energy for as long as possible. Of the thousands of women I've talked to, I've seen no more than 7-8% women - plus. Meeting them is always a holiday! And for every man. Basically, the modern world is inhabited by women - zero. They were taught to survive in a man's world and they believed that life is a struggle and everything comes through hard work. You need to snatch your piece from life, otherwise someone else will take it away. It is by faith that one is rewarded. And over the years, this Faith either strengthens, and a woman - zero becomes a woman - minus, or the soul begins to whisper to the mind: “You’re not a fool! Look, you're doing something wrong! There are other ways of development! Those whom you thought were fools live better than you. Stop going into the abyss, start learning to fly to the other side. Where happiness is, and not the eternal struggle for it! Take a closer look at truly successful women who have everything in order with their man, health and money. How do these Plus Women create a space where abundance, love, family and happiness thrive? Look at them through the eyes of the men who choose and provide for them.

What do we, men, see in a woman that makes us decide to get her at any cost? We see three main qualities: - Acceptance, expressed in respect for others. — Integrity, expressed in self-esteem and self-respect. - Naturalness, expressed in consistency at the level of mind, feelings and behavior and allowing her to express all her feelings, without worrying about whether she will be approved or not. A woman gives a man energy through her emotions. The one who is afraid to show her feelings, but who is eager to receive them from a man, is simply a vampire. Because she is a woman - zero or minus. Hiding her inner world under the mask of equanimity, she considers herself a mystery, but for a man she is a burden. A woman is the earth, a man is a tree that feeds from the earth. Woman - zero or minus - is the earth that sucks all its juices from the tree. And the tree first withers, and if such soil is present for a long time, it dries out. An unsatisfied need for approval and recognition forces a woman to unconsciously vampire energy from a man. To stop pumping energy from others, you need to find a source of energy within yourself that will give you a sense of integrity. Such a source for a woman (after accepting her mother) is the inner man. Union with your inner man and your shadows (repressed feelings) gives you the much-desired naturalness, self-sufficiency and energy to accept others. Unfortunately, reading instructions on how to merge with the inner man and shadows does not provide either understanding or, especially, the desired effect. The purpose of the article is to give direction to your development for the transition from a woman - zero to a woman - plus. Look for a way to awaken, nurture and strengthen your inner man that will protect your inner woman and attract/awaken your outer man. Again. A plus woman is a woman who has harmonized her inner man and woman.

Author: Mark Ifraimov.

The meaning and essence of a free union

There is a statement in psychology that men are inherently polygamous. This means that, being next to one woman, they stare at another, and then don’t mind being in the arms of a third. There is no point in lumping all men with the same brush. There are respectable family men who are satisfied with the affection and tenderness of their legal spouse, but other women do not arouse their sexual interest. Modern youth have picked up this statement and are trying to cover up their immorality with it.

The essence of an open relationship is the absence of obligations that normal love relationships involve. In other words, meetings occur for the sake of sex. Partners are not interested in each other’s problems or successes and maintain neutral positions. The girl does not introduce the guy to her parents, and the young man is not obliged to introduce her to his friends. There are no hints about marriage or restrictions on freedom of action.

Today a couple has a good time, has sex, and tomorrow everyone lives their own life, meets other people. This model of behavior of young people has a secret meaning, which is considered in two ways.

The emergence of open relationships is associated with several factors. These include:

spoiledness and lack of basic concepts of morality;
freedom from social stereotypes and challenge to society;
reluctance to fulfill the responsibilities dictated by marriage and joint housekeeping;
lack of free time, busy work schedule, dangerous activity;
the man’s reluctance to provide financially for the girl;
improper upbringing;
sexual liberation.

Independent relationships are played by both young people and mature women and men.

Advantages and disadvantages

Open connections are good when there are normal relationships. For example, a man is married, but his wife does not satisfy him in bed. He is looking for a woman who is in the same position. Nobody wants to ruin a family. Everyone is looking only for sexual satisfaction and emotional release. But meetings for intimacy cannot be long: partners quickly cross the line of what is permitted or become annoying to each other. Sex doesn't seem so fun anymore, and there's nothing to talk about.

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Advantages:

the freedom of action;
lack of obligations;
minimal financial expenses;
allowed to have sex with other partners;
no need to account for actions and actions;
meeting at a convenient time;
dating for pleasure, not psychological therapy.

Flaws:

Nothing binds except sex; if you get tired of intimacy, your paths will diverge;
no psychological, emotional intimacy;
they don’t care about their partner’s problems, they feel selfish;
there is no proper attention to which women and men are accustomed;
there is a possibility of contracting a sexually transmitted infection;
there is nothing to strive for, meetings stop when sexual fantasies are exhausted;
having to share a partner with others.

Open relationships are good as a temporary phenomenon. They help to unload mentally, physically, emotionally, but do not replace a full-fledged connection between a woman and a man. Over time, you need to “grow up,” take responsibility, and get married. The main purpose of representatives of both sexes is procreation and raising children in a prosperous family.

Rules for casual communication

To understand how to build relationships, people have come up with unique rules that must be followed. If a partner oversteps the bounds of what is permitted, the relationship ceases to be free and its meaning is lost. In this case, the couple either begins to build a normal relationship or breaks up.

Rules:

do not limit your partner’s freedom;
do not demand attention;
make no claims;
if you don’t like something, talk about it right away;
not be interested in your partner’s personal life;
don't be jealous.

The essence of free love should be clear to everyone: we met, had a good time, returned to normal life, if you liked it, agreed on a second date. The connection lasts as long as everyone enjoys it.

Is it possible to show jealousy?

Feelings of jealousy are akin to possessiveness. A person who loses something of his own is jealous. Since in an independent relationship there are no rights or responsibilities, one cannot be jealous. But this feeling occurs in all people and is considered normal, so we have to suppress it. There is no jealousy if a person is absolutely indifferent. Then another question arises: how to have sex and have fun with an indifferent partner?

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If you fall in love with someone else

Relationships based on freedom do not require the presence of love and do not prohibit having an affair at the same time. A girl and a guy can fall in love on the side and build meaningful connections. Everyone agrees to a certain role. Some people are content with sex without commitment, while others demand proper attitude and responsibility.

Woman-zero, woman-minus, woman-plus characteristics

There are zero women who extort your attention and approval and drain your vitality. The longer you are around them, the more clearly you feel that there are fewer of you, and more of them.

There are minus women who, with their fear of losing loved ones, slowly but surely drive them into the grave.

And there are plus women - those special women, next to whom you blossom and become the darling of fate, the lucky one, the favorite of fortune.

A woman’s purpose is to be the kind of plus woman whose people around her blossom and make sure that she is satisfied and nourishes them with her wonderful energy for as long as possible.

Of the thousands of women I've talked to, I've seen no more than 7-8% plus women. Meeting them is always a holiday! And for every man.

Basically, zero women live in the modern world. They were taught to survive in a man's world and they believed that life is a struggle and everything comes through hard work. You need to snatch your piece from life, otherwise someone else will take it away.

It is by faith that one is rewarded. And over the years, this faith either strengthens, and woman zero becomes woman minus, or the soul begins to whisper to the mind: “You’re not a fool! Look, you're doing something wrong! There are other ways of development! Those whom you thought were fools live better than you. Stop going into the abyss, start learning to fly to the other side. Where happiness is, and not the eternal struggle for it!”

Take a closer look at truly successful women who have everything in order with their man, health and money.

How do these plus-size women create a space where abundance, love, family and happiness thrive?

Look at them through the eyes of the men who choose and provide for them.

What do we, men, see in a woman that makes us decide to get her at any cost?

We see three main qualities:

— Acceptance expressed in respect for others.

— Integrity, expressed in self-esteem and self-respect.

- Naturalness, expressed in consistency at the level of mind, feelings and behavior and allowing her to express all her feelings, without worrying about whether she will be approved or not.

A woman gives a man energy through her emotions. The one who is afraid to show her feelings, but who is eager to receive them from a man, is simply a vampire. Because she is a zero or minus woman.

Hiding her inner world under the mask of equanimity, she considers herself a mystery, but for a man she is a burden.

A woman is the earth, a man is a tree that feeds from the earth.

The zero or minus woman is the earth that sucks all its juices from the tree. And the tree first withers, and if such soil is present for a long time, it dries out.

An unsatisfied need for approval and recognition forces a woman to unconsciously vampire energy from a man.

To stop pumping energy from others, you need to find a source of energy within yourself that will give you a sense of integrity.

Such a source for a woman (after accepting her mother) is the Inner Man.

Union with your Inner Man and your Shadows (repressed feelings) gives you the much-desired naturalness, self-sufficiency and energy to accept others.

Unfortunately, reading instructions on how to merge with the Inner Man and Shadows does not provide either understanding or, especially, the desired effect.

The purpose of the article is to give direction to your development for the transition from a zero woman to a plus woman.

Look for a way to awaken, nurture and strengthen your Inner Man, which will protect your Inner Woman and attract/awaken your Outer Man.

Again.

A Plus Woman is a woman who has harmonized her Inner Man and Woman. published

When beauty is a minus for a woman...

Since childhood, we have been convinced that there are many advantages to external attractiveness. Beautiful children receive more attention from adults, at school teachers (especially women) are more likely to make concessions to handsome children, pretty teenagers are more popular among their peers, etc. But this mostly applies to boys.

For girls, beauty is a double-edged sword. And envy from classmates is far from the worst of the problems they have to face. The external attractiveness of a girl and the bias towards her on the part of others almost always go side by side. Sometimes this bias has a positive effect, but often it has a negative effect.

Youth and beauty cause envy not only among teenagers. We often witness that beautiful girls, while still at school, experience envy on the part of the same female teachers, especially if the latter are well over thirty and their personal lives are not going well. Beautiful girls are often picked on, grades are unreasonably lowered, demands are made too high, etc. Of course, all this is done unconsciously, but this does not make it any easier for girls.

In addition, beautiful girls usually face one-sided perceptions from others. Few people think about the rich inner world and deep intelligence of beautiful girls: first of all, people see a beautiful doll in front of them and rarely look further. And, as you know, the first impression is very difficult to change.

In ordinary consciousness, the correlation between female beauty and stupidity tends to unity. Although there is no correlation between physical attractiveness and intelligence, women often suffer from this ingrained stereotype. This is not a problem when a woman is really not smart. But if she wants to be perceived as a person, and not just a table decoration, then she has less chance here than a “gray mouse”.

In personal life, too, not everything is clear. You probably know that the most common male compliment to a woman is “you’re so beautiful!” Very often this becomes a reason for a wedding. But when a man gets married only because his chosen one is “so beautiful,” the last thing he thinks about is how they will nurse their grandchildren together in old age. For him, such a marriage is like winning a prestigious cup at a competition: it can be placed under glass and proudly shown to friends/colleagues/rivals. Having satisfied your male vanity enough, you can forget about him until the next victory. A family built on such a foundation is doomed to failure.

And the biggest problems arise for beautiful girls if they build their future by relying only on external data. Only a few thousand pretty girls become fashion models or mannequins with substantial fees. To become a singer or actress without outstanding talent, you must first acquire a generous sponsor, which is also rarely possible. The number of elderly single oligarchs who dream of leaving an inheritance to their beautiful young widow is very limited. Therefore, the future of a woman who, by the age of twenty-five, has only learned to bat her eyelashes cutely and wear a bikini beautifully, does not seem so bright.

Minus girl

A minus girl will never ask her man for anything. It's much easier for her to do everything herself. She shifts both her and his worries onto herself.

What's the end result? The holy belief is that there are no real men left. Such a girl does not believe in her man, does not respect him, does not consider him a man, and thinks that everyone else is the same.

But stress and overload with care have a detrimental effect on both a woman’s appearance and well-being.

Very quickly, the minus girl turns into a workhorse: no health, no beauty, no youth. Universal fatigue and hatred for all humanity forever settles on her face.

No one will appreciate her suffering and perseverance. The only “reward” of a minus girl is an infantile, weak slacker.

The whole family is already sitting on her fragile female neck, why should a man once again strain and try to do something?

A strong woman always competes with a man, so most likely her companion is:

He will break down and fall into childhood;
Learn to solve all problems at her expense;
He will beat, proving with his fists that he is a man;
He will go away.

Well, which of you will be satisfied with this version of events?

Features of a girl. 3 types of women: zero, minus, plus. What type are you?