Men's fantasies. What do men dream about?

Sexual fantasies and food

Bill Shifton works with food. He is a true connoisseur and knows better than anyone what is suitable for the client. But all the products that Bill uses are not used for nutrition, but are used for sexual fun. A person's sexual fantasies are limitless. And Bill is part of this business that makes these fantasies come true. Many people limit their sexual fantasies, but some do not want to stand still and go further, introducing eroticism into everyday situations and receiving sexual pleasure from everyday things.

-A fetish is any erotic object other than the genitals that cause desire. From childhood we are taught that playing with food and getting clothes dirty is bad. This deprives us, to some extent, of sensual pleasures, not allowing a person to feel relaxed and free. And all those who engage in dirty sexual fun, breaking all these small rules, feel free and uninhibited. (Catherine Gates, author of the book Kinky Sex Positions)

Such sexual predilections are quite common, so Bill Shifton opened the Dirty Studio in the suburbs of London and began publishing a magazine for lovers of this type of fetish. People read about it, buy the DVDs or rent his Dirty Studio, hire a model and have fun.

-They don’t have sex in our studio. It’s just that someone will smear you in the cake, and then, if you wish, you can also smear someone else and nothing more. Everything is done with humor, the actors clown around, make puns, and crude farce is used. The scenario can be anything, for example a clumsy waitress or a fight at a banquet. Everything is done very simply by coming up with a stupid script, and then making a film based on it. For example, in the morning I might come up with an idea about a flight attendant who, due to her clumsiness, splashed a client and we go and film this scenario. Or clients can come to us with their ideas and sexual fantasies. (Bill Shifton owner of Dirty Studio)

According to Bill Shifton, his clients do not always want sexual relations with his models. Farce is more important to them than sex, but it must be sensual and here everything depends on food. Food may be different. People are picky about both their food and what they pour on themselves. A popular technique is to pour food into clothes to feel how it flows and stains the body. They are always experimenting. Some people like their food to be smooth and slippery, such as sweet cream or chocolate syrup.

-I love maple syrup. In it I look so beautiful, golden and shiny. (Helen model from Dirty Studio)

Others prefer something lumpy and heavier, like porridge, rice pudding, or something sweet like rice pudding, brownie, or cake batter.

-The most important thing to remember is that there are products that you should not use. Some products contain very strong dyes, for example, blackcurrant jam is blue in color and people who cover themselves with it then wonder why they are all blue and cannot wash off. Therefore, I try to warn my clients and ask them not to bring such products. (Bill Shifton owner of Dirty Studio)

Bill Shifton believes that people have always liked to get dirty, some just stopped hiding it.

-Many of our clients did not even suspect that someone else was doing this. They thought that these were their personal sexual fantasies and perversions and that no one else could like it. I think thanks to me and my studio these people can feel less weird. (Bill Shifton owner of Dirty Studio)

The only drawback of this business, according to Shifton, is cleaning up after clients.

-We use the studio 2-3 times a week. We could rent it out more often, since there are a lot of people who want it. Many people want us to make a private video for them, but I'm afraid that I'm too selfish. I don't want to spend 2/3 of my life cleaning. (Bill Shifton owner of Dirty Studio)

Sexual fantasies and balloons

But not everyone likes to pull beans or rice pudding out of their body folds. Most people associate fetishism with shoes, leather or food, but not with balloons. But there is a category of people who prefer them.

-This is an absolutely innocent and harmless hobby. Balloons can also serve as a fetish and this should not in any way affect the attitude towards this person, since everyone’s sexual fantasies are different. Yes, this may seem strange and unusual. And what? Am I a moral monster now? No! I just have different interests and I can explain them. (Miki fetishist balloon lover)

Everything is very simple. Thousands of men and women around the world experience sexual addiction. They enjoy collecting, deflating, inflating and in some cases popping balloons.

-Among fans of balloons on the Internet on forums there are endless debates about whether it is good to pierce them. Those who don't like it protect their ball. He is like a sex partner for them. They love their ball; they like to hug it, cuddle it, rub it, smell it, and love it. And people who like to pierce balloons don’t understand why others don’t like it. They get an orgasm from it and that's the whole point for them. (Catherine Gates, author of Perverted Desires)

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-This is amazing, because all your life you believed that only you were doing this. And suddenly it turns out that your passion and sexual fantasies are shared by thousands of people around the world. It's simply stunning. (Miki fetishist balloon lover)

Having legalized his air fetish, Miki gradually became addicted to it and his girlfriend.

- Of course, he didn’t admit right away, not on the first date, that he had a fetish. (Sheri Mika's girlfriend)

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-I really like it when my friend participates in my fun with balloons. That doesn't mean I don't get turned on by other women who aren't tinkering with balls, but I take that energy out on my friend Sheri. (Miki fetishist balloon lover)

Balloons play a huge role in Mike's sexual fantasies and life, but for him it's also a business. He creates websites and produces full-length videos.

-I create video films about what I like. Mainly about women blowing up balloons until they burst. Just about this. A girl inflates a balloon until it bursts and that’s what all our videos are about. We pierce them in different ways. Sitting and inflating balloons is tiring. That's why we use different variations: girls trample the balls, sit on them, try to crush them, and so on. (Miki fetishist balloon lover)

If you like popping balloons, the main shot is when the balloon pops, but there's more to it than that. Fetishists revere balloons not only because of their shape, but because of how they feel. Depending on how they are used, the balls can be fed like a breast, filled like a penis, or taken like a woman's vagina. But Mike's sites and videos focus on them getting popped, reflecting Mike's own passion.

-A good video should have a lot of balloons, a lot of gorgeous women who will inflate them until they burst and have fun. And the more the merrier, the more the merrier and the more perfect the video. (Miki fetishist balloon lover)

Although Mike makes a living filming girls with balloons and them popping them, he doesn't like the noise. He prefers the clap to be silent, so when he films, he puts on headphones and leaves the room before the climax. His empire may be intimidating to those who don't like piercing, but he knows his market, as does his friend Sheri, who directs and shoots videos to study demand and establish consumer feedback.

-Most customers prefer pear-shaped balls. Some ask for long ones. Believe it or not, balloons come in a wide variety of sizes and the bigger the better. Viewers love how girls with puffy cheeks inflate balloons and then pierce them. (Sheri is Mika's friend)

-Most often, when people hear the word fetish, they imagine something dirty and perverted. But in fact, everything is quite innocent and harmless. By doing this you get a huge boost of energy and I am proud to take part in this. (Miki fetishist balloon lover)

A sense of community and belonging to a group is quite natural, but in the world of fetishism it is not bad to have your own guide, especially if your guide produces a bible of fetishists who live in this world.

Excites and turns on: women's erotic fantasies

Ideal sex for a woman is simple: candles, champagne, strawberries and cream, rose petals and a prince on a white horse, and all this in a jacuzzi with foam, right with the horse. Boring! What do girls dream about in their fantasies? What can really start you up with half a turn? We interviewed girls we knew, and the entire editorial staff opened up and collected a real treasure for you - erotic fantasies and what really excites girls.

Among all the responses, several common trends could be identified. Firstly, almost all girls fantasized much more often in their youth: this is understandable, young hormones are at play not only in boys. Secondly, fantasies are most often directed at a specific man, i.e., first you see an object that excites desire, and then all the erotic pandemonium in your thoughts starts from it.

We changed the names, it’s still a personal matter, but the main meaning is conveyed in detail:

Lukerya, 25. I often fantasize about us having sex in a public place. The fear of being caught is exhilarating. The places in my fantasies are very diverse: a fitting room booth, an entrance, a dark alley, a cinema. Sometimes I even masturbate in the shower and deliberately leave the door open to give myself the feeling that I could be caught at any moment.

Kira, 29. I am always very inspired by the upcoming vacation. I imagine us on a deserted beach or right in the sea. Sex in the sea is something I really enjoy and in my fantasies I often imagine making love on the waves.