How to charm a man on the first date?

What kind of men are there?

In general, men are very different, and there is no need to divide them into types or classify them. However, such classifications have already been created; all that remains is to list them and compare your man with one of these options. Every girl should choose her own classification of a man, by the way, from it you can understand what kind of woman is in front of you, find out her inner world, understand what kind of men she has met. (See also: How to figure out a man on the beach) Here is one such classification of men: Free, Conqueror, Helper, Spouse. In principle, each of the options for the characteristics of men is understandable. So a free man, like a free bird, loves freedom, lives by his own desires, rarely falls in love, often jokes and teases friends and girls, does not want to talk about family values and honor them (at least in words). As the opposite of a free man, he is a conqueror who builds his relationship on conquering a woman, as if she were a beautiful princess in need of proof of love. Easy “prey” immediately ceases to interest such men after victory. The conqueror often brags, is very smart and always shows it, is erudite and witty, he loves to joke and communicate, but does not take criticism at all. Such men most often play sports. A male assistant is a real hard worker, he works from morning to night, takes work home, never turns off the phone, waiting for an important call, etc. Such men are always busy with work and talk only about it. To attract the attention of such a man, you just need to help him and hint that you are ready to help further. (See also: How to seduce a man) And the last type of man is the spouse. This is a true keeper of family values and traditions. If you want to know how to marry a man of this type, remember that this is the easiest way. Such a man initially views girls as future wives, he is stable in everything, and does not like impromptu. Most often, such men love their mothers very much, but not everyone can be called “mama’s boys”; they can be firm and tough if patriarchy reigned in the family.

How to make him fall in love with a look. How to make someone fall in love with you with your gaze

Is there love at first sight? Some people believe that in order to love a person, you need to get to know him better. Others claim that just one glance at the stranger was enough for them. One way or another, loving eyes can attract the attention of a partner.

Instructions

Notice how the couples look at each other. They are easy to spot on the street among a rushing crowd or in a noisy company. Despite the fact that there are many people around, their gazes are fixed on each other, they follow every move of their loved one. If one of the lovers is called out by a friend, he will reluctantly turn away, trying to the last to keep his gaze on his beloved. Look at your loved one the same way: for a long time, with adoration, without noticing anyone around. When you turn away, first turn your head and only then look away.

If you are a girl, you probably know how to use makeup to make your eyes expressive. Highlight the upper eyelid - this will visually enlarge the eyes. Apply the same color to the inner corner of the eye, then apply eyelashes. At the same time, choose colors that are not too bright so that the makeup looks natural.

Each of us has had such a situation when you look into a person’s eyes and you feel bad because of the hypnotic gaze, full of emotions, feelings and information. You can learn to “speak” with your eyes.

It is customary to say about a person in love that he has sparkles in his eyes. Smile at the object of your feelings with a sincere childish smile, remember all the wonderful moments you had. The smile will disappear, but the light in the eyes will remain. And your lover will certainly be drawn to this warm glow.

From passion, the lovers' pupils dilate and their eyes darken. This kind of reaction will subconsciously tell your partner how excited you are to be with him and will certainly flatter him. These are the eyes that poets like to compare to the darkened night sky.

Let your gaze wander over your lover in a relaxed manner. Admire his face, curling strands of hair, collarbones, hands. You can move on to more piquant parts of the body. You should not feel shame or embarrassment, just enjoy the fact that you can admire the person dear to you. If the object of your adoration has similar feelings towards you, he will happily respond to your silent call.

How to “ensnare” a man?

But how can you understand your man and achieve what you want? How can you marry the man you love and want to see next to you all your life? You can act based on the “type of man.” Let's look at the classification of men that we described. First of all, these are free men, freedom lovers. Here a woman must show her literacy. You cannot put pressure on such a man, “smother” him with love. Even if you are overwhelmed with feelings, take them out on your friends, and be calmer with your loved one. Talk more often and show your loved one that you understand that your relationship is not long-lasting and you don’t want to forcefully keep your loved one close, but this is enough for you just to be with him. If you want to win a conquering man, you will have to pretend to be an impregnable rock, even if you want to throw yourself into the arms of your loved one. But besides this, a woman should not be just anyone, she should also be “the very best”, otherwise why would the “very best” need a simple girl? It is important to learn to show interest in such a man so that he cannot understand whether you like him or not. If you are already a couple and want to become a wife, then the same tactics are needed here, put pressure on the fact that you don’t need to get married at all, that you doubt that your partner could become a good husband. If you want to become the wife of a man's assistant who helps everyone around, then become his secretary. In general, such men’s wives were personal secretaries, assistants, business partners, etc. In order for your man to appreciate you and understand that you are an ideal, offer him to modernize his work, introduce some innovations, even repeat the completed stages, up to taking a course in personal growth. The main thing is not to overtake a man, not to get in his way, but to stay a little further away from him in the work sphere. (See also: How to make a man live longer?) It’s quite easy to “trap” male spouses into marriage networks. The main thing is to please him and find out how his family was built, what he wants his family to be like. Next, become ideal for him, accept his rules of the game: wants a housewife, learn to take care of the house, wants a parent, learn to please children, etc. Be sure to take a few of his favorite recipes from his mother and never say bad things about his family, even if he started conversation first.

How to seduce a bachelor?

All your friends have been married for a long time and even have children, but you are all alone? Relatives and friends constantly ask you why you didn’t get married? But there are a lot of bachelors around, and some of them! It used to be that a bachelor was imagined as a hungry man with torn buttons and the presence of a week’s stubble. Many of today's bachelors are well-groomed, dressed to the nines, have a car and an apartment, and vacation abroad at least once a year. True, such guys are already accustomed to enjoying freedom and don’t really want to part with it. How to seduce a bachelor and marry him?

First, think: why do men want to remain single, who is to blame for this? And it’s us, women, who are to blame. We strive to dominate all the time: in work, relationships, family. By doing this we are simply pushing men out of our lives. Well, who wants to live with a boy-woman in whose presence you can’t even make a word - she decides everything herself? Rarely anyone. So our guys join the clan of bachelors. From a psychological point of view, there are several types of bachelors.

Lover Hero

If you come across a macho man who is used to breaking women's hearts, know that he is not easy to tame. Often such men did not have enough love and attention in childhood, which is why they behave this way. They are self-confident only externally. In fact, such bachelors suffer from that childish inferiority complex. They are accustomed to non-binding relationships, but if they still decide to get married, they are looking for a “home” bride who will look into their mouth and turn a blind eye to his adventures.

If you are interested in a hero-lover, do not show that you are interested in him - he will not appreciate either loyalty or openness. It’s better to play inaccessible - this is the only way you can get him to pay attention to you. Be unavailable both sexually and emotionally. Don’t even think about saying that you are going to marry him. And remember: he will always run after women. If this suits you, the flag is in your hands, if not, “blindfold” and go look for another man.

Ooty - paths

Have you met a mama's boy? Be prepared for the fact that he will never put you first - his mother is there. Most likely, he (and his dad) were always under the thumb of his authoritarian mother. Such bachelors are able to live with their mother until her death. Even if they have a separate home, they will come to their mother every day - to eat, do laundry, watch Let Them Talk together... Such guys often marry the brides their mothers have chosen for them. So you have a difficult task ahead of you - to please his mother. How? That's how:

• Wear a blue dress - in it you will look like a gentle Turgenev girl;

• Present yourself modestly, without harsh phrases or movements;

• Don’t chatter like a magpie, better listen to what his mother is telling him;

• Offer to help her wash the dishes, make coffee, etc.;

• Say that you have a good income that allows you to fully support yourself;

• Mention that you will do everything for her son so that he has a good life;

• Mention that you will visit his mother often.

Basically, show his mother that she can't see you as a threat to herself.

Bachelor to the core

Perhaps such a man once suffered a serious psychological trauma that turned him away from marriage: maybe his wife left him, robbing him completely, or the bride did not come to the registry office, or a friend gave birth to a child from him and does not allow him to see him. However, there are such convinced bachelors who are little boys at heart who simply do not need a wife - they are only happy with themselves. If you do decide to try to guide a convinced bachelor on the right path, take note of a few tips:

• Don't take away his freedom - this is his main value;

• Go with him or convince him to go alone to a psychologist (if possible);