At all times, representatives of the female part of the population were interested in a question that will not lose its relevance at all times: “Does he love me...?” If your relationship is just beginning and you want to understand whether your man is serious, or is this just another “sports victory” for him? In other words, a man is in love with you or not, then you need to know three basic things that all men in love usually do!
How to understand that a man is in love
Claims his rights
Pay attention to how your man introduces you to his family, friends, and colleagues. If your man uses the words “my”, “baby” or other affectionate expressions with which he makes it clear to other men that you belong to him. In this case, this means that the man is in love or at least has serious plans for you.
Provides
A man who is in love now earns money for you too! Be sure that a man in love will want to provide for you in any case! After all, such a breadwinner instinct is inherent in him by nature, and this is the primary desire of a male to be a breadwinner for his beloved. We are not talking about specific material values; the concept “provides” cannot be measured. It doesn't matter how much he earns. You just have to understand that a loving man will always want to help and provide you with at least the most basic things. If a man constantly tells you about financial independence and that now all women are simply selfish, then you should know that this is a typical male trick. In this case, be prepared that with such a man you will constantly give your all, proving that you do not pursue any selfish goals. Of course, this behavior means that the man is not serious.
Or maybe so...))
Harpy
Well, at least someone honestly says what they think! Even if he pretends that this is affectionate, in fact, one cannot trust the “enemy”.
It seems that there is no need to explain anything here, your beloved has already said everything himself. On the other hand, if a man really loves you, then all these names don’t matter. He is gentle, loving, and without any hints. Maybe…
Baby or Tiny - for your man, only sex and sexual relationships are in the foreground. He is a restless experimenter in sex, loves fun and entertainment. Alas, it is unlikely that it will be possible to build serious ones with him.
Hare, bunny, bunny, hare, bunny, bunny - If a man compares you to a small rodent, then he is a born hunter, and, quite likely, he has such bunnies... Or he changes them often. To keep this free shooter, you must constantly pretend to be an uncaught animal, ready to escape at any moment. Recognize only legal marriage as a cage that can hold you back, and don’t forget to remind that “you’re chasing two hares... and you’ll get it from both!”
Gold, gold, gold. Are you sure that he is not with you for commercial reasons? After all, your loved one is a very mercantile type, even if he tries to see some benefit in his loved one. And then, this is again a subtle hint at your talkativeness, because “silence is golden.”
As psychologists say, by calling you “Golden or Precious,” a man subconsciously thinks about how he can make money or benefit from a close relationship with you.
In addition, gold is a metal, so you will have to become an “iron lady” and cope with all life and financial difficulties. Myself.
Kitty, pussy, kisulya, kitty, kysik Lovers of “cats” and “kittens” are usually slightly romantic, but very soft-bodied. Such an specimen is difficult to classify as the stronger sex, but they are easy to train. At the initial stage of dating, “cat people” can mimic quite well, hiding their spinelessness and masking it with romance.
It is best to show maternal instinct towards them, and at the same time practice before having a baby.
Sweetie
First of all, the question arises - whose? Maybe he's subtly hinting that you're the "rabbit's foot" that brings happiness? Or that your hand is so heavy that it is comparable only to a bear's paw?
Here it is better to immediately find out what he means and act according to the situation: either please your loved one with a happy smile every time he touches your hand, or... wean him from calling you that once and for all!
Darling.
It's just very nice to hear this.
If a man calls you Beloved, then he needs care, tenderness and affection. Perhaps he is very tired and exhausted at work, and at home he wants attention from the woman he loves. If you give such a man your warmth and care, he will be the most exemplary family man.
Darling - your boyfriend does not like gossip, scandals, intrigues and quarrels. He hates arguing with you and tries to avoid such moments.
Fish
— A fishing enthusiast can be expected to regularly “throw a fishing rod” into someone else’s garden. And this is also a direct hint at “shut up, dear!”
If you are not ready to remain silent all your life “like a fish on ice”, patiently enduring the next “fishing”, then you can safely turn into a sawfish or, even better, a barracuda.
Donut (Bun) For him you are a Bun, Candy and other food products. For men who call their woman these tender nicknames, the everyday aspect of the relationship is primarily important. Such men are convinced that the main thing is a lady’s thriftiness. In their opinion, you should cook well, wash, clean, and solve all household issues yourself. It’s worth thinking about, maybe he just needs a housekeeper and housekeeper?
Don’t forget that “the way to a man’s heart is through HIS stomach,” and not through yours.
Sun, sunshine. With such an affectionate name, you are ordered to get up early and shine longer. While your beloved egoist will chill in the shadows (quite likely of other women).
You will have to look your best, because “well, you are my Sun, everyone is looking at you,” that is, you are a calling card, the beauty of which should please a man’s vanity.
In general, the most important thing is that you feel and know that you are loved!
Ladies pay special attention to how their loved one affectionately calls them. Some men prefer the classic “sweetie” or “dear”, others try to be more original by using the names of animals or sweets. A word used incorrectly towards a woman can forever close the path to her heart. Psychologists have long discovered the fact that a man’s attitude can be recognized by the nickname he chose for his lady.
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When a man is in love, he always protects
Protects and preserves
One way or another, by nature a man is programmed to protect and protect his woman. A man who is in love with you can never be indifferent when he learns that someone has offended you. Moreover, he will have a desire to immediately deal with your offender. Therefore, you, dear girls, don’t even want to talk about all the situations once again. After all, you probably know that this will unbalance your companion. If your chosen one, in response to your complaints, only pretends that this makes him angry, but does not even make any attempts to help you, then I would doubt his attitude towards you. Also, a man in love will never allow you to do something that he considers dangerous for you!
Take a closer look at your lover! And if your man does all these three things, then be sure of the sincerity of his feelings. And don’t even doubt that your man is in love with you!
Love nicknames
Many men prefer to use familiar affectionate words. And they are more pleasant for women because they do not cause ambiguous associations.
How to affectionately call a guy
Darling
This is what self-confident Don Juans call lovely representatives of the fair sex. This is an assertive heart conqueror who will stop at nothing to achieve his goal. He prefers to play, either attracting a woman or pushing her away, as if there was nothing between them.
“Beloved” is called a cunning man, capable of thinking through his actions and the actions of a woman several steps ahead. He can really truly fall in love with his chosen one and experience sincere feelings. But, realizing that the woman needs him, he will most likely leave.
How to affectionately call a girl
Expensive
Boring in everything and everywhere - this is how you can describe a guy who calls his significant other “darling.” Routine life awaits a woman who chooses such a person. It wouldn’t even occur to him to add something new to their life together. Very often he turns out to be boring not only at home, but also in bed. You shouldn’t expect any innovations or diversity from such a person. Very often he puts a taboo on everything that a woman offers.
- How to understand that this is your person
Darling
The partner’s feelings are so great that he is unable to express them in words. A man is ready to take care of his chosen one for days on end, delighting her with all kinds of gifts.
My love
Men who call their chosen one this way are very easy and relaxed in communication. This is a wonderful boyfriend who puts the interests of the lady above his own. But such partners have a small disadvantage - they are usually very difficult to command. At the very first attempts to start “training” he will feel this and leave.
My soul
A guy who uses this nickname is a wonderful lifelong companion. He becomes attached to a woman very slowly. Such a person is in no hurry to immediately bare his soul. He chooses a measured path, when rapprochement occurs slowly and comfortably. He is also in no hurry to get physically close. Men of this type very often remain faithful to their partners to the end.
My girl
When a guy calls his chosen one “my girl” or “baby,” this only means one thing: he really experiences tenderness and tremulous feelings. The young man treats her like a child, trying in every possible way to protect her from the evil outside world.
Babe
Perhaps such a person likes specifics and does not want to complicate anything in a relationship. He expects the same from his woman. In a couple, he is used to always being the first, and does not tolerate it when a woman tries to take his place.
Durynda
This nickname, which is not entirely pleasant at first glance, says the opposite: a man is ready to forgive a woman for any mistake and take control of the situation.
Doll
“Doll” is what men who are only superficially interested in their ladies call their ladies. They like easy, non-committal relationships.
My little one or baby
They say those guys who are ready to take care of their girlfriend give all of themselves for this relationship. These are devoted men who can become a reliable wall for their lady.
Miracle
By calling a woman a “miracle,” a man is trying to attract her attention to himself and thus show the significance of this relationship for him.
Willingly allows you into his life
In general, men are so conservative that the opportunity to let someone into their life, space, or bachelor pad is perceived as an attack on their precious freedom.
If he still persistently tries to attract you into his actual space, this is a clear sign of love.
But be on your guard: if he allows you to rearrange his apartment and clean up his scattered things, cook his food or wash his shirts, this does not mean that he loves you madly. Maybe he's just too lazy to do it all himself.
The fact of your presence in his life, your willingness to reveal some of your secrets, to make public your weaknesses in the form of unwashed socks or an unwashed plate speaks not only of his laziness, but also of his trust in you.
He asks you to stay, to stay with him longer, to live together. He doesn't run away early in the morning after barely taking a sip of coffee, and he doesn't look at his watch, recording the time he spent with you.
You become part of his life. It is stupid and selfish to hope that you will be his whole life.
But a man in love, of course, puts his beloved woman in the leading role.
He is sexually attracted
Since the primary impulse of our rapprochement is the attraction of the sexes, then...
The main sign of a man in love is desire, sexual attraction. If a man wants this woman, she has a chance to become loved. But this is not a guarantee that he is really in love with you.
After all, any man by nature is in a permanent desire for physical connection; the instinct of procreation is the strongest human energy.
Let’s be honest: when a man looks at a woman, he almost always scans her for possible intimacy.
In his brain, regardless of consciousness, a switch lights up: “Would she go to bed with me?” Chick!
And all his subsequent behavior can stem from this natural male interest in the opposite sex.
The hunter in a man awakens. Moreover, the more inaccessible the prey, the stronger and more sophisticated the desire for possession.
With the help of sex, a man asserts himself. This is proof of his masculinity.
But sometimes this is just a way to overcome self-doubt. So he achieved his goal. Interest wanes. This means that desire does not always indicate love.
But can we be satisfied with one point?
Right! We can’t, because with every fiber of our soul we crave not just an erection, but love and tenderness. Just like them, however.
