Many guys and girls, having decided to pierce their ear or make a second hole in it, are faced with the problem of choosing this very ear. The choice doesn’t seem to be much: right and left, but only in some cases, your future fate, status and attitude of others towards you may depend on this choice. It is immediately clear that in our time this issue is gradually beginning to lose all its seriousness and relevance, and a piercing in the ear is just an opportunity to put on another stylish accessory and distinguish yourself in the fashion world. Nevertheless, some are very concerned about the issue of earrings in the right or left ear. Having rummaged through historical facts, scoured forums and customs of peoples, I tried to find out the reasons for the confusion of young people and girls, and to understand in which ear to wear the earring.
Why did men wear earrings before?
1. Pirates wore earrings in different ears, made of different metals. They did it not for reasons of glamor, but for health. Even then, these sea inhabitants knew that if you pierce your ear in a certain place, your vision can become sharper many times over. There is also an opinion that the number of earrings in the ears meant the number of victories on the pirate’s conscience.
2. Cossacks wore earrings in one or two ears. In the left ear - it meant that this Cossack was the only son in the family, and gave him the opportunity to be less at risk in battles and dangers. In the right ear - the last son in the family wore an earring. If earrings were in both ears, this indicated that the person was the only son of his mother.
3. Ancient tribes wore earrings because they believed that an earring warded off evil spirits and brought good luck.
4. Today, earrings for men often mean belonging to informal groups; earrings are worn by creative individuals, as well as metrosexuals, and simply stylish and fashionable guys.
5. The earring in the male ear became actively introduced into fashion during the hippie era. And in the USSR it was very “cool” to wear long hair, a leather jacket, an earring and a guitar :)
5. There is a well-established opinion that gays, in order to identify themselves, put an earring in one ear, and also in the right one. There is little direct evidence of this, but the unspoken stereotype is quite persistent. Some believe that he came from the rocker expression: “Left is right, right is wrong.” This means that only a man with an earring in his left ear is a “right man”!
In which ear should a man wear an earring? But in general, it doesn’t matter, the only thing that can influence the choice is the last statement :)
As for women, there are no rules at all. Choose the ear that seems more attractive to you. Most girls follow the same rule as men: if the second earring is in the right ear, it means they are gay. Although there are no warnings in this regard.
Piercing has its roots in incredibly ancient times. In those distant times, piercing the body was associated with the “registration” of mystical powers. For example, a ring threaded through the nose was considered handcuffs for evil demons... And even savages did not pierce the navel. What can the type of piercing tell about a person? It turns out quite a lot.
Are earrings the most dangerous type?
The ear, like, in fact, any “hole” of natural origin in the body, our distant ancestors called the gate for evil spirits. It was they, unlike the good ones, who sought to take possession of a person without his knowledge and took advantage of every opportunity to get inside. To scare them away, they inserted a “pier” made in the shape of a circle - a symbol of the supreme deities of many nations.
According to one version, we owe the custom of soldering precious stones into earrings to sailors. They firmly believed that pebbles maintained visual acuity during long sea voyages, protected them from illness, and most importantly, from the raging elements. In Tsarist Russia, an earring was inserted into the ear of a sailor who crossed the equator for the first time. Well, if the body of a sailor who died for various reasons was found washed up on the shore, then the jewelry from his ear served as payment for a decent burial...
The Romans believed that pierced ears brought good luck, while unpierced ears brought poverty. In modern history, female ear piercing, inherited from the distant past, was not an outstanding phenomenon. As for men's, its wide popularity began only in the 80s of the last century, thanks to singer-rappers. And not at all homosexuals, who with a pierced ear indicated their belonging to the “blue” caste, as is sometimes thought...
Meanwhile, this method of decoration is perhaps the most dangerous. The largest number of biologically active points is concentrated on the auricles, each of which is associated with a particular organ. And you can “just” pierce your ear, and doctors will soon diagnose a stomach ulcer. In turn, psychologists say that ear piercing is carried out by those people who perceive the world around them exclusively in its sound version. Musicians, of course. But they are also gossipers, as well as very gullible and naive.
The tongue will tell about misfortune
It was born from the Mayan civilization, and the pierced tongue was exclusively the privilege of the priests. It was believed that after this, the chance of receiving divine insight increased, and at the end of life, an easy path for the soul to heaven.
According to modern psychologists, a person who unconsciously tries to pierce his tongue is more likely to be unhappy than vice versa. He, like no one else around him, was given too acute sensitivity, including in relation to forces inaccessible to the perception of ordinary people.
Nose jewelry? This is narcissism
One of the oldest, originating more than 4000 years ago. Africans decorated their noses, believing that it would bring good luck and protection from higher powers. On the “dark continent”, nose rings were worn mainly by women, for whom it served as a wedding ring.
Europe was “infected” with the fashion for nose piercing by hippies, who brought it from India in the late 60s. Indians have long pierced the left nostril, connecting the earring in it to the ear with an intricate chain. Men pierced their left nostril for fear. Women - to protect themselves from tragic consequences during childbirth.
Judging by the latest research, a person who prefers nose piercing to all other types is very active in life. He achieves a lot, but, as a rule, does not have reliable and loyal friends. He is too arrogant and ambitious, and at the same time believes that he is skillfully camouflaging himself. And in the case when the right nostril is pierced, narcissism is not even hidden.
Even the savages didn’t touch the navel...
Ancient tribes never pierced their navels, believing that if this place on the body is disturbed, the soul will leave it. But the Egyptian pharaohs ignored the postulate and pierced their bellies as a sign of being marked by the gods. No one else could afford such freedom: anyone who was not a pharaoh who dared to insert a piece of gold into his navel would face a savage reprisal.
Speaking about navel piercing, experts on human nature claim that people with unrealized energy primarily seek to decorate their navel. Often these are restless individuals who can spend their whole lives in an eternal search for an activity that meets their abilities and potential. They can quickly get carried away and get excited, but soon succumb to doubts: is this what the soul asked for? If you don’t direct their really great energy in the right direction, then there is a high risk of becoming alcoholics or, even worse, suicides.
Taboo Breakers
Once upon a time it was worn by Roman centurions, convinced that a ring in the chest would protect them from death. But his greatest popularity was brought to him by his promiscuity. In the 15th century, ladies at the French court, in their competition for the place of the king’s favorite or, at worst, a noble nobleman, “armed themselves” with impossibly revealing cut-out dresses that exposed their breasts to the nipple. There were no boundaries of decency, and ostentatious luxury was cultivated. And the nipples, although they were not pierced, were encased in gold rings with diamonds. Soon the fashion of the nobility was picked up by Parisian prostitutes, who threaded the strings of transparent negligees through nipple rings. And since the priestesses of corrupt love remained such under all monarchs and ruling regimes, the custom of piercing the nipple remained throughout time.
Today, this type of piercing is tended to be viewed as a person’s subconscious desire to break social taboos. At the same time, it is believed that individuals who are overwhelmed by secret desires and are incapable of openly expressing their own views and feelings are inclined towards the “pierce” in the nipple. Very many of them are born virtuoso hypocrites.
Piercing in “this very place”
In the old days, geisha from the tea houses of the East and temple dancers inserted jewelry into the genitals to give more pleasure to the client and gain a reputation as the most passionate woman. And in the 19th century, the groom of the British Queen Victoria, Prince Albert, decorated his penis with a gold ring on the eve of the wedding in order to unbalance the extremely self-possessed bride, who somewhat tired him with her piety. Since then, the decoration in the most intimate male place has been called “Prince Albert”.
Some even today dare to try a similar trick. But if a person still wants to have a pier just “there” and nowhere else, then, according to psychologists, this does not mean that he is a great lover. Piercing fans, first of all, strive for a certain status, achieving it at any cost. Showing off, external brilliance and gloss - everything is used in order to be considered an important figure.
Homosexuality as a phenomenon in Russia is associated in most cases with negative emotions. Some consider it a disease, others consider it a character flaw and moral failure. The idea that homosexuals wear an earring in a certain ear appeared during the Soviet era. In those days, homosexuality was not just condemned, but was subjected to all kinds of persecution and prosecuted by law.
As such, a system of identification marks for men of non-traditional sexual orientation has not yet developed. Most likely due to persecution in the past and present. It is absolutely not beneficial for gays to be in the public eye and give themselves away in every possible way. To date, the legalization of same-sex unions has occurred only in some European countries and in the United States.
In addition to the earring in the right ear, effeminate homosexual men can be recognized by their manners, gestures, gait, and conspicuous cosmetics. By the way, such feminized representatives of sexual minorities are not popular among homosexuals. They are given contemptuous nicknames and are not particularly appreciated.
Is an earring in the right ear always a sign of homosexuality?
Nowadays, determining sexual orientation by an earring in the ear is considered undignified. After all, earrings in a man’s ears often do not have a sexual connotation. Although they clearly declare the eccentricity of the stronger sex. But this does not mean that such a man is gay. It’s just that the stronger sex also loves jewelry and strives to express themselves with the help of them. A stylish and fashionable guy can correctly combine earrings with both sportswear and a business suit. It's just not that common.
Much more often, earrings on men indicate their membership in informal groups.
In the 80-90s, earrings in the ears were a symbol of freedom among youth parties. As well as the guitar, long hair and other attributes of a hippie.
Here we can draw a parallel with the Cossack community.
Indeed, among the Cossacks, earrings had a special meaning. Thus, an earring in the right ear indicated that the man was the only son of his parents. An earring in the man’s left ear served as a sign of the only son of a single mother. Pirates pierced their ears for health reasons. They knew how to improve vision simply by piercing their ears in a certain place. According to another version, the earrings in the ears could indicate the number of victories of the sea robber.
In Ancient Egypt and Assyria, an ornate earring in one ear was a sign of high status. And in Ancient Rome, slaves wore inconspicuous earrings. Greeks who were engaged in prostitution could also be identified by an earring in their ear.
Nowadays creative personalities wear earrings: singers, actors. They see the world through their own lens, so getting their ears pierced can mean something personal.
If you want to find out if a man is gay, you need to observe him for a while, being careful. However, you cannot be sure of your guesses until the person admits it to you himself.
Instructions
If you have a suspicion that a man you know is gay, do not try to find out from his friends. The worst thing you can do is ask his friends questions about a person's sexual orientation. Even if this is so, perhaps his friends are not aware of this. In any case, such questions will harm that person, whether he is gay or not. By such actions, you are either spreading unfounded rumors about a person or openly interfering in his personal life, which he may want to hide. Moreover, if a man finds out about your actions, he will never question you about it.
Don't judge a person by the style of his clothes. There is a common belief that if a man wears tight clothes with bright colors, he is most likely gay. This is not true, any man can dress like this, it has nothing to do with his orientation. Also, many athletes and metrosexuals wear this type of clothing, it is just a style that many people follow.
Pay attention to how the person reacts to conversations about gays. There is no specific reaction that indicates a gay person in this case, but some may still indicate it. If a man fiercely defends gay rights and speaks out in support of them, the likelihood that he is gay is high. However, many people who have something to hide about themselves probably won't show such concern for gay people. Try talking about this topic with someone in his presence and watch the reaction of the person you suspect. If he is gay, most likely he will listen carefully to the opinions of your interlocutor.
Reactions to the opposite sex can also provide some clues about a person's orientation. But there can be no certainty here either. If a man doesn't have any girlfriends or even acquaintances, we can assume that he is gay, although it is also possible that he is just a very shy person. It is also important to consider his age. If a guy is in school and has never had a girlfriend, the likelihood that he is gay is much lower than if a forty-year-old man is in this situation.
Finally, you can directly ask the person about their sexuality. However, you must have good reasons for this. For example, you are very close to a person and want to know everything about him, or this is your friend and you, as a woman, want a relationship with him. If you are driven only by curiosity, forget about this method. In addition, no matter what guides you in trying to find out from a person about his orientation, be prepared for a negative reaction on his part. This will only mean that he is not ready for open communication on this topic, you have absolutely nothing to do with it.
The most popular type of piercing is ear piercing. It turns out that for a long time pirates could determine the character and behavior of a person by the way his ear was pierced. When they took a new person onto the ship, they paid special attention to this.
Cuffs
In the 2020 season, designers decided to breathe new life into ear cuffs - stylish and creative ear armor. If you welcome originality in your image and conceptual style, such an accessory in a luxurious gold design can be a real find for you. Designers set a trend for asymmetry, which affected almost all accessories. So, cuffs can also be worn in this style and placed only on one ear.
Our photo selection introduced you to the most fashionable gold earrings of 2020. What is closer to you – respectable and sophisticated classics or bright and original design? This season, every fashionista will be able to choose the perfect jewelry to suit her taste!
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Is men's jewelry appropriate?
In terms of jewelry, there is now no division between men and women; not only earrings, but also chains, bracelets and rings are produced for both women and men in almost equal volumes. You can tell a lot about a person by the number of punctures. Piercing in men and the location of holes in the ear have a different meaning than the designations adopted to describe the character of women.
If recently preference was given to classic piercings (that is, one hole in one ear, or a piercing in only one ear), now young people make several holes in one ear, and not only in the lobes, but also in the cartilage of the outer rim of the ears.
Once upon a time there were even opinions that wearing earrings on men was nothing more than a sign of homosexuality. However, men's jewelry and earrings are a normal phenomenon, but not everyone, of course, shares this point of view. Men also like to decorate themselves, which is still unusual. Don’t immediately jump to the wrong conclusion and label a man. Many people pierce their ears for the sake of fashion and do not put any other meaning into it. Having an earring does not deprive a man of his masculinity.
Unusual shapes
Large earrings of unusual shapes turned out to be incredibly fashionable in the 2020 season. Among these models there are both original youth jewelry and discreet accessories close to the classic style. Whichever option you choose, you will easily create a stylish look and will not be left without attention.
Ear piercings and character
They say that men who have earrings in their ears have such character traits as: - romanticism; — impressionability; — intelligence; - daydreaming.
It is also believed that such men have a lot of interesting hobbies and, perhaps, are spoiled and narcissistic. Psychologists believe that the place where an earring is worn can tell quite accurately about the character and inclinations of boys, young adults and men. So, for example, if the left ear is pierced, there is creativity. And when a young man wants to have his lobes exactly in the center, it means that he is kind and sociable. A man with several holes in his ear is quite decisive and freedom-loving, loves to argue and is not used to taking other people’s opinions into account.
Sometimes men pierce their ears on their own, which indicates a strong character and the ability to concentrate to achieve their goals.
No matter how many ear piercings you have, and no matter how many more are planned, you still shouldn’t do them yourself. It is better to consult a specialist, as health and safety remain the main concerns with this type of piercing.
First, let's look at the classic version, with one hole in each ear.
If the punctures are made in both lobes exactly in the middle, the holes are located at the same level with each other, this means that the girl is balanced, responsible and intelligent, and in addition, has a strong will. You can rely on such a friend, but she is quite difficult to get along with.
When the piercing in one ear is higher than in the other, this is a bad sign.
Probably, such a person has a poor understanding of people, is unbalanced, and does not know what she wants. Most likely, this is a dual nature, sometimes the girl is cheerful, witty, sociable, and at times cynical, irritable, envious.
Holes located at the same level, but above the middle of the lobe, indicate a strong and decisive personality. Very often such people suffer from arrogance, have a poor understanding of people, and are very concerned about their appearance.
Girls who have piercings below the middle of the lobe most often do not make a great impression from the first meeting. In fact, they are very smart, sensitive and charming, although they are somewhat shy and embarrassed in front of strangers. Sometimes such punctures are evidence of slowness.
If in one ear the piercing is made very close to the inner edge of the earlobe, and in the other very close to the outer edge (this does not happen often), this is a sign of a well-developed imagination. Girls with such piercings are independent, practical, and not without optimism and humor. They are characterized by a love of life, sincerity and clarity, and are pleasant interlocutors.
Quite rarely there are punctures located at different levels, one higher, the other lower, and also very close to the outer edges of the earlobes. Such girls sometimes strive for loneliness, some of them are prone to mysticism and love secrets. In some cases, they are distinguished by a rare understanding of people, sometimes they are easily vulnerable and give the impression of dreamy natures.
If the punctures are located exactly the same as in the previous example, but very close to the inner edges of the lobes, this in most cases indicates that the girl is very susceptible to the mood of others, is overly cautious, but can be a good friend and is not prone to adventures.
Sometimes punctures made in this way indicate that the girl is often disappointed in people due to high living standards and increased criticism.
Now let's talk in detail about those charming girls who have several piercings in their ears.
Those girls who have two piercings in each ear or only one, in almost all cases have a cheerful disposition, are sociable, but at the same time are far from frivolous. These are responsible people, although they can be a little lazy. Almost all girls with two ear piercings attach a lot of importance to their appearance.
If a fashionista has two piercings in one ear and three or more in the other, this indicates her imbalance. She is most likely inclined to make casual acquaintances, rarely listens to advice, and is able to maintain her individuality, despite outside influence.
It is very difficult to judge extravagant cuties who have three piercings in one or both ears, but in most cases they understand people well, although they themselves remain not fully understood. The presence of so many holes in the ears speaks of an extraordinary, often strange nature.
Girls who have more than three holes in one or both ears may or may not be loved by those around them, but it is difficult to be indifferent to them. Such persons have passion and intelligence at the same time. They can be very responsible, striving for knowledge, but they like to get into arguments and do not tolerate defeat. In most cases, such girls are very proud and at the same time can commit rash acts for the sake of others. Almost all representatives of the fair sex with such ears are very sociable, characterized by a cheerful disposition and optimism.
The character traits mentioned in the previous case are especially clearly manifested when the girl has, in one way or another, not only the lobe, but also the cartilage of the outer rim.
However, be careful and do not rush to conclusions. Ear piercings are not an innate appearance characteristic. So, when analyzing your observations, compare them with the characteristics of a person that are inherent to him by nature.
Which ear should I pierce a girl for the second time? A pressing question among the fair half of humanity. Piercing is in great demand today, and you can safely decorate your ears with original types of holes without fear of condemnation from the people around you. When the classic version gets boring and you want an update, multiple punctures in different parts of the ear are used.
How to decide whether to pierce a second time
Fashion trends often contradict common sense. When it comes to piercings, health concerns often balance with the beauty of jewelry. If we talk about multiple ear piercings, doctors have long been debating their harm. Some advise limiting yourself to earlobe punctures, others do not dissuade you, but advise caution. Decide for yourself which side to take, but study the nuances and aspects.
Auricular piercing is an ancient tradition that has undergone many changes and has had different meanings at different times. Today, every girl and woman wears a pair of jewelry in her ears.
Doctors claim that the human ear serves as an organ of hearing and nothing more. In turn, reflexologists study this part of the human body as a guide to the inner world, where biologically active points and energy centers directly related to the functioning of the brain are concentrated. Numerous studies have shown that irritation of certain areas causes changes in the functioning of the whole organism.
Is it dangerous to have more than two ear piercings? If you have a desire, we advise you to implement it at a fairly mature age. A girl in adolescence does not yet have a formed physiology and consciousness, and her way of self-expression may be unacceptable to her in a few years. It is undesirable to make holes in the cartilage; it threatens to deform the auricle if complications develop. If you are afraid of damaging your hotspot, find a practicing reflexologist.
With pearls
In the 2020 season, designers decided to rely on an exquisite combination of a noble image and sophisticated pearls. The result is incredibly beautiful jewelry that has already won the hearts of many fashionistas.
A classic option for every day is studs with pearls and gold. You definitely won't go wrong if you treat yourself to such decoration - this is a traditional form that will probably never go out of fashion. If you want to choose an accessory that matches the latest fashion trends, choose slightly oversized stud earrings. The trend for larger parts is invariably at the peak of popularity.
Of particular relevance are unevenly shaped pearls, which act as an original accent on laconic earrings.
Geometric shapes, complemented with stylish pearls, will become a fun solution for an office or everyday look.
A creative idea from the Chanel brand were heart-shaped earrings, which are presented in a magnificent combination of gold and pearls. Many brands have adopted a similar idea, and now fashionistas are presented with various versions of such an accessory - from laconic to extraordinary.
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Which ear should I get the second piercing in?
In ancient times, people attached special importance to all openings on the body, but now everything has changed dramatically. Rarely does a piercer or client know what an earring means in a particular place; usually it is a way of self-expression, showing character or disguising scars or emphasizing special beauty. It is impossible to say for sure on which ear it is better to pierce the second hole for a girl, and what secret meaning it will carry.
Several years ago, there were prejudices in society that the right piercing was worn by people of traditional orientation, and the left piercing was worn by people who wanted to show their preference for same-sex relationships. Nowadays, few people begin to give piercing a special meaning. A man and a woman can safely place earrings on any side that is convenient for them. Rely on your own imagination and taste.
If you have health problems, consult your doctor before visiting a specialist. The doctor will advise on which ear it is safe to pierce the second hole in order to avoid complications.
In the form of hearts
A new product that literally hits the heart are heart-shaped earrings. Why is it worth having at least one pair of these in your fashionable jewelry arsenal?
Firstly, heart-shaped earrings are surprisingly easy to fit into any look. Secondly, they look feminine and charming. And finally, thirdly, such an accessory instantly creates a romantic and playful mood and preserves it for a long time!
Types of punctures and their meaning
If you study photos of the work of piercers, you can see how varied and interesting the placement of earrings around the perimeter of the ear can be. It is difficult to immediately determine the location of the future hole; we recommend that you familiarize yourself with their features.
Popular options and their meaning:
- classic piercing of the lobes - popular with both sexes; one puncture or a pair can be performed. Conducted with a pistol, it heals easily.
- Helix - a hole is made in the upper half of the ear. A small needle is used, the area is painful and can heal within 12 months.
- Tragus is a hole formed in the cartilage above the ear canal. Wearing is uncomfortable, recovery occurs quickly. It is important to have this part of the ear pierced by a professional who has knowledge of the anatomical features of the organ.
- Industrial is an interesting option that combines two holes. One is done on the side close to the face, the other a little lower on the opposite side. Long-term rehabilitation, which is often accompanied by pain and inflammation.
- Deis is a healing way of placing jewelry. If the hole is made correctly, the earring will cure headaches, depression and frequent migraines. The master decides which side to pierce a girl’s ear after studying the structure. In this case, all the details are important: side, location and overgrowth period. If a mistake is made, the desired therapeutic effect will not be achieved. Traditional medicine does not recognize this method.
- A tunnel is a large hole in the lobe or cartilage. It is performed only by professionals, by cutting out the skin of the required diameter or gradually stretching it. Popular with informal youth.
There are other types of piercings that can be safely combined with each other.
Contraindications and care
Before piercing your ear, you need to familiarize yourself with the contraindications for this minor surgical intervention:
- traumatic brain injuries;
- blood diseases;
- allergic reactions to metal alloys;
- acute and chronic ear diseases;
- severe diabetes mellitus;
- cold, high temperature;
- rheumatism;
- skin diseases;
- mental, neurological disorders.
After the puncture, the following care procedures must be performed:
- Treat with antiseptic or alcohol several times a day;
- protect from water and dirt;
- twist the earring in the hole.
It’s hard to say in which ear it’s better to pierce the second hole for a girl. Everyone must decide for themselves depending on their preferences and wishes. You can pierce cartilage or soft tissue, insert a barbell or ring into them, there are many options. When choosing the type of piercing, evaluate your physical ability to tolerate pain during the long healing period.
