Horoscope of disadvantages: be careful, Sagittarius!

The influence of astrological signs on human life has long been known. People compare their actions and plans with zodiac charts, looking for compatibility between signs, especially when romantic relationships arise. Views, behavior, variability in the character of a particular zodiac sign can tell a lot, you just need to decipher them correctly.

For example, a Gemini man - how to understand that he is in love? To do this, you need to know the main traits of his character - inconstancy, duality, versatility.

How does a Gemini man behave?

The sign harmoniously connects masculine and feminine, material and spiritual, wisdom and enlightenment. Gemini's behavior is built on this versatility of qualities. This representative of the strong half of humanity is always at a crossroads, he is fickle, his two inner egos are constantly calling in directly opposite directions. And a Gemini man in love is especially contradictory; his behavior can change like the weather.

  1. Gemini is the soul of any company, he will entertain guests tirelessly, joke, tell unusual stories, attracting increased attention to himself in every possible way.
  2. He constantly needs to do something, sitting idle is not his lifestyle. True, activities can change at cosmic speed - representatives of the “air” sign cannot stand routine and monotony, this also applies to relationships with their partner.
  3. If you like a Gemini man, how to understand that he is in love is not difficult, but how to properly build a long-term relationship with him is sometimes a question.

By some signs it is easy for ladies to understand that a person is in love. He is rapidly changing, becoming different. First of all, its appearance changes.

Previously, he did not particularly follow fashion, but now he can be seen more and more often in new suits. Now a friend can change their hairstyle and appear with new accessories to attract attention.

Here are some tips on how to tell if a Gemini man is in love:

  1. The first sign is that he is always nearby, both at work, on the street, in a cafe, and in the most unexpected places.
  2. Under far-fetched pretexts, he will spend as much time as possible next to his chosen one. Moreover, his inherent sociability usually increases.
  3. The lover will not hang around, waiting for the lady to start a conversation; he will bombard her with jokes, stories, and plans for the future.

It becomes noticeable that an old acquaintance, who previously was not particularly interested in anything, develops new hobbies:

  • he starts playing sports;
  • there is a craving for travel, theater, cinema;
  • new unusual hobbies arise.

From these alone it is quite possible to understand that the Gemini man is in love, but is still hiding his feelings. Once he confesses his love, his behavior will constantly remind him of it.

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How to win a Sagittarius woman

Conquering a Sagittarius woman is not difficult. The demands of a representative of this zodiac sign in relation to a future partner cannot be called excessive. Having paid attention to one of the advantages of a man, a lady will easily ignore some of the shortcomings of his nature.

To arouse the interest of a Sagittarius woman, the gentleman must be active and positive. She can't stand bores and whiners. Boredom, banality and despondency will instantly repel the young lady. A lazy and passive man, “heavy to lift,” also has no place next to such a lady. A person with a sharp mind and a broad outlook will have every chance to win the heart of a representative of this zodiac sign.

The Sagittarius woman does not take well to any extremes. She needs a middle ground. Therefore, she is not looking for a gentleman of the “highest standard” for herself. For her, the most important thing is to have the most beautiful, smartest or most successful man. It is important for her that he is open, honest and sincere. She will appreciate the care shown and pleasant signs of attention: flowers, compliments, a beautiful gesture.

The Sagittarius woman reacts sharply to her partner’s attempts to limit her freedom. A man who is constantly jealous will not stay with her for long. You should not deprive a lady of the opportunity to choose and impose your opinion on her. In an atmosphere of mutual trust, a man’s relationship with a representative of this zodiac sign will develop in the best possible way. Provided there is harmony in the intimate sphere, the future with such a woman will be happy and cloudless.

Gemini in Love: Characteristic Behavior

The declaration of love has taken place, the masks have been dropped, and it becomes clear how a Gemini man in love behaves:

  • he reveals himself even more - both of his rich natures, interacting under the influence of new feelings, make him enchanting and light, witty and subtle;
  • he no longer hides his intentions, the lady will constantly hear declarations of love, the most passionate and ardent;
  • the gentleman will make plans for the future and passionately share them with his chosen one;
  • the lady will be bombarded with compliments, which he will give from the bottom of his heart;
  • generous gifts are also a manifestation of his feelings; the chosen one will not lack them.

Perhaps he is hiding his feelings?

Despite the fact that people belonging to the same zodiac sign have common traits, they can behave differently. For example, for one reason or another, hide your feelings.

And then it is not easy to understand that this Gemini man is in love with you, however, as experience shows, some signs are usually present.

  1. He becomes incredibly shy, sometimes afraid to utter even one word in the presence of a lady.
  2. He begins to make a lot of chaotic movements - tugging at his already neat clothes, coughing, straightening his hair.
  3. He also becomes extremely punctual, if this has not been observed before. He appears everywhere on time and first, especially if his chosen one is soon to appear in this place.

The dual nature of Gemini is manifested in the fact that they can move from shyness to offensive actions and passionate confessions. And this will not be surprising, given the duality of their unusual characters.

How to behave with a Gemini man in love?

Having discovered signs of falling in love on the part of a representative of this zodiac constellation, there is no need to relax. If you want to save this relationship, follow some rules to prevent him from moving on to his next crush.

  1. Don't restrict your guy's freedom of movement, don't control his behavior and actions with regular phone calls and emails. He craves activity and communication with friends. Why force him to lie on?
  2. Take care of your appearance, even if you have him in your sharp claws. Dress with taste, don’t forget about the stylist and hairdresser, keep yourself in shape.
  3. Don't brush off a Gemini man in love. He loves to voice his thoughts and experiences. Seeing that you are not interested, he will go in search of a more grateful listener or listener.
  4. Develop together with your chosen one. Geminis are in an endless search, improving, learning something new. Keep up with his self-improvement. After all, only an erudite girl can support an intellectual debate.

How to make peace with a Pisces man

First of all, cooperate with people from his environment, explain the situation and ask for help. Let them talk to your chosen one about you. These should not be direct calls for a return - let his friends periodically sigh, what a good couple you were, how wonderful you are and how good you were together. Pisces is greatly influenced by the words of close people, and if the whole company unanimously repeats something to a man, then soon he will perceive their thoughts as his own.

If you still keep in touch with your partner, then unobtrusively hint to him that gentlemen are hovering around, giving flowers, inviting him to marry - but do you really need all this when there is already a loved one nearby! Let the guy know that he has won your heart in such a way that no one else can take it.

Come up with a problem that a man can help solve, and hint to him about it - not forgetting to mention that only he can cope with the difficulty that has arisen. Pisces are compassionate individuals, and when loved ones feel bad, they also feel sad. Therefore, most likely, your lover will not refuse to help you, which means he will make contact with you. However, your request should not concern finances: Pisces, although kind, are not exactly generous. On the contrary, demonstrate that you can perfectly support yourself financially, so you don’t need to live at the expense of a man.

And, of course, don’t forget to admire your partner’s qualities! If a Pisces man is offended, the most important thing to do is to start showering him with compliments. Your praise should be versatile: talk about the guy’s appearance, and about his character, strength, his actions and behavior.

How to achieve the long-awaited marriage proposal?

Becoming the wife of a Gemini man is either extremely simple or almost impossible - it all depends on who is in front of you: a young man or an adult. At an immature age, he often makes a decision about marriage without thinking at all about the likely consequences.

A fleeting infatuation, a hint from his partner - and he is ready to make her happy with his proposal. Moreover, the day before, his good friend wanted to create a social unit, so he does not want to be at the bottom of the list of bachelors.

An adult Gemini man behaves much more carefully.

He saw examples of unhappy family life, recorded in his head the significant shortcomings of marriage and begins to think about eternal freedom. In addition, he does not want to waste his nerves on a divorce, division of property and fight for the child. Official relations lose all value for him.

If you dream of marriage with him, convince him of the benefits of family relationships. Of course, emphasis should be placed on your positive qualities, including tolerance for his shortcomings.

It is likely that such tactics will bear fruit, and he will really believe that he can create an ideal social unit with a girl like you. Go for it.

It’s not easy with a Gemini man, but once you achieve his love, you will learn what true passion is.

Notice the signs of his sympathy, kindle warmer feelings in him and give yourself over to these emotions completely and completely. But even if you win his heart, don’t relax, because Geminis don’t like monotony. Be different, but you won’t be bored!

Hello, I am Nadezhda Plotnikova. Having successfully completed her studies at SUSU as a specialized psychologist, she devoted several years to working with children with developmental problems and consulting parents on issues of raising children. I use the experience gained, among other things, in creating articles of a psychological nature. Of course, I in no way claim to be the ultimate truth, but I hope that my articles will help dear readers deal with any difficulties.

If you decide to start a relationship with a representative of Gemini, then get ready for the fact that your chosen one will be changeable, like a two-faced Janus. His mood, views, interests, preferences will change throughout the day. This duality is the calling card of Gemini, which, however, drives others into a stupor.

But they also have many positive traits that make relationships with them interesting, not boring, varied and educational.

Characteristics of a Gemini man

The ruling planet of Gemini is Mercury. She endows this sign with many worthy characteristics. The influence of the planet is expressed in the desire to acquire new knowledge, perseverance, and scrupulousness. Geminis love to learn new things, they are meticulous, they can spend hours or days studying a question of interest.

Gemini men are characterized by inconstancy of mood, hobbies, places of residence, and can easily change their social group. They are sociable, witty, and have a great sense of humor. Gemini is the center and soul of the company, who sprinkles pearls.

Men of this sign seem easy, frivolous, superficial. And it is indeed part of their personality, but not dominant.

Geminis are intellectuals, many of them have a high level of mental intelligence, which they flaunt at every opportunity. Representatives of this sign “suffer” from attacks of arrogance and arrogance, which sometimes push even their friends away from them. However, not for long, since Gemini immediately turns from cold and arrogant into a “charmer” with whom it is impossible to be angry.

This is a general characteristic of Gemini men. What are they like in love, relationships, what can girls expect in an alliance with these “constantly fickle” guys?

Of course, there are as many characters as there are Geminis in this world, but in a state of love they behave approximately the same.

For an idea, even to the scaffold

There are many real fanatics among Sagittarius. If a representative of this sign is imbued with some idea, he cannot be stopped; in the name of what he sacredly believes in, he will go over his head, leave the blazing fires of the Inquisition in his path, sacrifice not only himself, but also a lot of other people. Fanaticism can be religious (and this is not always associated with official confessions; they also regularly get involved in sects), scientific, political, revolutionary, even philosophical. The main thing is that the goal is HIGH, and how many people will suffer while achieving it (one or two, tens, millions) is not the point.

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When Sagittarians strive for this highest goal or devote themselves to some kind of SERVICE, common sense refuses them, any arguments cease to work on them, and those who disagree with them and dare to contradict them, they simply destroy, at best morally. They don’t even feel sorry for like-minded people if it suddenly seems to them that they have deviated from their common path. History knows many examples of the fanaticism of representatives of this sign and its very sad consequences.

How to understand that a Gemini man is in love with you?

Every girl who dates a Gemini would like to understand his feelings. If he does not declare them yet, but behaves in a certain way, then he is already in love or close to it.

What in his behavior should “alert” you:

  • Gemini makes jokes in your presence, constantly “humors”, shoots you with a special look.
  • He is courteous, attentive, even intrusive.
  • You begin to regularly “intersect” with him in a variety of places, he pretends that it is by accident. This could be a store, a cafe, a yard near the house, a place at work. The fact is that Gemini learned in advance about your permanent habitats, perhaps through neighbors or colleagues.
  • Gemini men in love become overly confident, a little noisy and arrogant, for example, when addressing a waiter or salesperson.
  • Since Geminis are addicted by nature, at the first stages of falling in love the rest of life ceases to exist for them. Their mind and heart are filled with a girl, and work, hobbies, friends go to another plane.

Of course, after some time he will stop having his head in the clouds, but his energy will shift to building relationships. If they are serious, then Gemini knows how to compromise, negotiate, give in, help and support.

How to keep a Sagittarius man?


Have you found yourself captivated by the charm of an optimistic, energetic and unique Sagittarius man?
Decided to strengthen your relationship? Try to take into account all the nuances of your loved one’s character. Remember his tastes, study his interests, strive for transcendental distances with him. This man is surprisingly active, dreamy and loves to shoot his arrows into the unknown, suspecting that it is there, at an unattainable height, that his ideal is located. With Sagittarius, you will have to be tactful, and sometimes endure insults from him. He is spontaneous and sometimes unbearable. But you definitely won’t be bored with him, and his sensitivity and ability to support you in difficult times inspire respect. Some qualities of your chosen one will seem like shortcomings to you at first. Take a closer look - you will understand that these are also unique advantages. And they will also help you keep a Sagittarius man by your side for life. Sagittarius man: honest and elusive optimist.
How to behave correctly with him Do you really want to live harmoniously and happily with Sagittarius for many years? Make your relationship enjoyable, attract this man and not let him go? Then you need to understand the main traits of his character and begin to build the right strategy of behavior.

  1. Frank and naive.
    Have you already become seriously offended by a Sagittarius man after hearing an indelicate remark from him? Try to get used to your loved one's manners. He is sincere and natural, and considers it quite normal to immediately say what comes to his mind. The last thing he thinks about is decency. This Sagittarius trait should not come between you. He doesn't want to upset you at all.
  2. Straightforward.
    The Sagittarius man is used to saying everything directly. Do you still remember how on the first day you met, he asked you to become his mistress, shocking you? Not so long ago he innocently told you about a new acquaintance who is “very good”? Do not worry. Calmly develop your strategy and think about how best to keep a Sagittarius man.
  3. Honest and open.
    Your loved one not only calmly shares his thoughts, but also answers questions honestly. If you have any suspicions of treason, you want to find out something or achieve certainty, you will not have any problems with Sagittarius. He will tell you everything. As a result, you will be able to correctly structure your behavior - because you will rely on truthful information.
  4. Emotional and amorous.
    It's quite easy to fall in love with a Sagittarius man. If you are an attractive and stylish woman, take care of yourself; in a certain environment, Sagittarius can quickly become passionate. However, his impressions are fleeting. Some time will pass, and in the same way his attention will be attracted by another woman. Remember this. The relationship with your chosen one must be strengthened, even if it seemed to you that he was completely subdued.
  5. Elusive.
    Yes, you have already decided that the Sagittarius man has fallen into your network forever. However, everything can be decided in a couple of moments. The word “marriage” has a particularly hard effect on Sagittarius. One combination of these sounds causes a reaction in him that resembles a severe allergy. Eliminate this definition from your vocabulary, otherwise your chosen one will flee.
  6. Master of flirting.
    Your loved one values ​​light, superficial relationships most of all. He can be gentle, affectionate, shower with compliments and wonderful flattery. But this does not mean that you are a contender for the place of his wife, and not one of his mistresses. You will have to convince your chosen one that you are the best match for him in order to keep the Sagittarius man close. Otherwise, he will again embark on a search for another muse.
  7. Shocking.
    Sometimes Sagittarius' behavior becomes unpredictable, and it may seem downright indecent to you. Get used to it. Shockingness is characteristic of this man; at times he will shock you.
  8. Dreamer.
    It is typical for a Sagittarius man to look for obviously unattainable goals and try to get closer to them. He is an idealist and a dreamer, he loves to play this game with mirages. Like a little child. Imagine that this is just his hobby. You shouldn’t clip Sagittarius’ wings – you won’t succeed anyway. It will just fly away from you.
  9. Free.
    Any pressure, aggression, methods of manipulation are perceived very acutely by the Sagittarius man. He will not tolerate a woman next to him who always wants to lead the pair. Give him first place.
  10. Outgoing.
    If you quarrel with your loved one, it will be easier for you to restore contact with him. The Sagittarius man attracts with his good nature and easygoing nature. He will immediately repent when he sees your grief and tears. But still, try not to test his patience for long. Just in case.
  11. Active.
    A distinctive feature of Sagittarius is its amazing activity. He plays sports, goes hiking, creates new routes and conquers peaks. You won’t have to sit in the same place with such a loved one. Share his interests with him and accompany Sagittarius everywhere. He will appreciate it and see a kindred spirit in you.
  12. Optimist.
    You should not be embarrassed if, in a difficult situation, a Sagittarius man starts joking with you, and instead of decline and sadness, you will see an expression of confidence on his face. He is an incorrigible optimist. And why change it? Your loved one simply shines with positive energy - take his example. He really will overcome everything.

Prepare for an active and eventful life if you decide to share it with a Sagittarius man. Sparkling, purposeful and dreamy, he is able to spin you in a real whirlpool. Don't lose your head and control the situation yourself. With this man, you can feel that he threw you high, high, to the very stars, but... forgot to catch you. Don't be upset. Indulge in his hobbies, share passions and complement his poise and ability to reason soundly. Then you will be able to hold the Sagittarius man and create a harmonious union with him. How to keep a Sagittarius man?
Your successful tactics Act carefully when building a relationship with your loved one, and follow simple advice. You will succeed.

  1. Like-minded person and reliable partner.
    You need to carefully study all the tastes and preferences of Sagittarius, and sincerely immerse yourself in his hobbies. At the same time, you should demonstrate ingenuity and the ability to quickly resolve emerging issues.
  2. Don't apply pressure.
    The Sagittarius man will definitely not like the persistent desire to “direct in the right direction.” He does not accept any pressure. Avoid such practices. If you want to advise something, do it as diplomatically as possible, only in the form of a proposal. You can imagine everything as if you were consulting with him. Don't forget about arguments.
  3. Softness.
    You have to show maximum femininity and tenderness when communicating with Sagittarius. He does not tolerate discussions and conflicts. Under no circumstances should you sort things out with him. Even if some dispute has already arisen, demonstrate your ability to compromise.
  4. Femininity.
    If you dream of leading in a couple, you will not succeed with a Sagittarius man. Change. He will be happy to take care of you and look after you. Become fragile, affectionate, obedient.
  5. Showcase your personality.
    You will need to achieve the ideal combination of Sagittarius's willingness to obey and independence. You should not completely submit to a Sagittarius man. Then you will lose the charm of the moment, and your complaisance will be perceived as inertia. Keep your individuality. By the way, completely harmless flirting with another man is also welcome. But like poison - in minimal quantities.

With a Sagittarius man, it is important to be tactful and patient, optimistic and erudite. Your loved one will be happy to note your intelligence, relevance, activity and cheerfulness. Forgive him for minor shortcomings and constantly make unnoticeable efforts to keep the Sagittarius man. Don't talk directly about marriage, but find the right moment to talk about your desire to have a child. Sagittarius loves children and, if he is positive, he will probably like your proposal. And then marriage is not far away. The main thing is to always maintain the Sagittarius man’s love for you. He is elusive, he cannot be chained to himself by force. Be a harmonious couple with him and fly kites together.

Behavior of a Gemini man in love

However, you won’t have to wonder for long whether a Gemini man is in love with you or not. They are the kind of men who do not hide their feelings for long. When they realize that they are in love, they talk about it “head-on”. This happens even a little unceremoniously, but effectively.

So you've got his confession. What to expect from this relationship? Firstly, the Gemini man will try to spend all his free time with you. And he will do this with great desire.

Secondly, he will happily share with his beloved girl her passion and hobby, no matter what. If it’s painting, he’ll go to an art studio or an exhibition; if it’s flower growing, he’ll get a couple of pots himself. In a word, Geminis do everything to be “on the same wavelength” with their beloved. And this trait distinguishes them from other men.

Geminis are generous natures, so they do not spare any expense for their lady love. They may well spend a fortune on it and not regret it.

Geminis are romantic and sentimental men, so they are capable of “actions”: buying a huge bouquet, taking them on an expensive vacation, cooking scrambled eggs in the morning and drawing a smiley face on it with ketchup. In general, the girl becomes the center of life for Gemini, and he is interested in getting to know her.

If a Gemini man really fell in love, then very soon he may offer to live together or even go to the registry office. At this moment, he will not think about all the ensuing consequences of marriage, since the most important thing for him is to be with his beloved. He will not accept the protests of his parents trying to dissuade him from a hasty marriage. By the way, if a Gemini man does not marry by the age of 30, then after that he may become an inveterate bachelor.

It is almost impossible to resist the pressure of a Gemini man in love, so it is easy for him to conquer almost any girl.

Multiple marriages

It is difficult to say whether the “habit of getting married” should be considered a disadvantage, but this certainly does not please those who, by tying their fate with a representative of this sign, count on eternal love and an unbreakable family union. Sagittarians are rarely limited to one marriage. As a rule, they get married at least three times. They quickly get tired of living with someone whom they recently loved madly, and they begin to look for shortcomings in him, which, of course, they don’t even try to put up with.

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SL pendant in rose gold with pearls and diamonds (to order)

In addition, representatives of this sign are incredibly amorous and immediately want their loved ones for undivided use, but at the same time they are usually honest with themselves and with amorous partners. So the algorithm of their behavior is as follows: fell in love - got married, fell out of love - left on his own or kicked out the one who no longer evokes the old feelings; fell in love while married to someone else, and immediately divorced, even if the new object of desire does not yet reciprocate.

However, this does not prevent Sagittarius from periodically “having everything that moves,” without regard for attachments and marriage obligations, and in old age they are often left alone, since over the years the charm becomes less, without it their wandering nature and authoritarianism can be tolerated and other excesses are very difficult.

How to please a Gemini

Geminis are the kind of men who don’t like “typical” girls. It is unlikely that they can be lured by appearance alone, although it is also important for them.

Their attention will be attracted by something non-standard and unusual, far from the canons of beauty. In a girl, what is primarily valued is intelligence and intelligence, not a beautiful figure.

How to make a Gemini man fall in love with you? Be natural, relaxed, cheerful. Geminis do not like young ladies who are uptight, have a lot of complexes and have old-fashioned views. They like modern, purposeful and socially active girls. Their versatile nature will be happy to learn something new from you, and this will add points to you.

In addition, he values ​​tact, good manners, delicacy, and intelligence in young ladies. He will never get along with a rude, boorish, poorly educated and unrestrained girl.

A kind of homebody mother hen is not suitable for Gemini; they need a girl with whom they can talk (not only about what to buy in the store), and ride bicycles, and cook dinner.

Despite his light and cheerful disposition, the Gemini man is distinguished by vulnerability and touchiness, as well as developed egocentrism. Don’t hurt his feelings, don’t laugh at his actions, even as a joke, otherwise, instead of the sweet Gemini, you will see the cold and inaccessible side of his personality. And to “return” it, you will have to try hard.

Geminis are also big owners and jealous people. They will not allow a competitor near them, and if they find out about the betrayal, they will break off the relationship. It is very important for this man that his lady belongs only to him, and any flirting and even a smile towards a competitor can be considered as betrayal and treason. Therefore, many Gemini men value fidelity and chastity in girls, and are very jealous of their previous admirers.

Compatibility in love with other signs

When choosing a partner, a guy first of all pays attention to external beauty, and only then to the intellectual level of development. But the ideal companion should combine these two qualities, since uneducated and plain-looking personalities will not interest a demanding young man at all. The stars say that women born under the sign are best suited for a Gemini man:

  1. Aries. Passion and mutual attraction instantly appear between like-minded people. The reason for the breakup could be mutual infidelity.
  2. A lion. A wonderful union if she plays the main role in the relationship, not forgetting his love of freedom, and he takes on part of the responsibility.
  3. Scales. In such a couple, complete idyll reigns.

Poor compatibility in love is observed in couples where the girl belongs to the sign:

  1. Calf. A rare union, since she cannot come to terms with the frivolity and lack of commitment of a fan, and he reacts poorly to female stubbornness and practicality.
  2. Virgo. A man will quickly get bored with the company of a predictable and cold-blooded woman, and she will not like his changeability.
  3. Scorpion. A complex, confusing, conflictual union.

Average compatibility with the signs of Aquarius, Capricorn, Cancer, Pisces, Sagittarius.

The alliance with the Gemini woman is ambiguous. During the period of falling in love, complete mutual understanding reigns in the couple, but everyday problems destroy a happy relationship. If a man and woman of the same sign are ready to overcome difficulties together, then their union will be long and strong.

Understanding a Gemini man and his feelings is quite simple, since all emotions are written on his face. You just need to take a close look at his behavior, look into his eyes and everything will become clear.

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