Passionate kiss: how to learn it yourself, secrets and mistakes

Kisses are a wonderful start to the day and a worthy end to the evening, they are good on a hot afternoon and a frosty winter night, with them the life of a baby begins and old people go into eternity, they happen without love, but there is no love without them. Some kisses provoke quarrels, others serve for reconciliation. So everyday and unusual, passionate and cold. Just as in nature there are no two identical snowflakes, so there are no two absolutely identical kisses. Well, now about everything in more detail.

The story of a kiss

There are a great many versions about the origin of the kiss. It is absolutely impossible to choose just one. The kiss goes back so deep that no evidence of its origin has survived. But there are several plausible reasons for its appearance that are worth mentioning:

The reason for kissing is considered to be the mother's duty to feed her child. In the ancient world, when a child stopped suckling, the mother passed the already chewed food from mouth to mouth.
Many researchers are accustomed to correlating human behavior with the actions of animals. And there is something to compare with. Many animals living in different elements imitate a kiss, although they do it for different purposes.
In ancient times, people associated breathing with the spirits living inside a person. Therefore, they attributed healing powers to kisses, and kisses on the lips as a spiritual connection.

General rules and nuances

When thinking about how to learn to kiss passionately, you need to be consistent and careful. It is important to create a positive attitude. You can’t rush, try to hold your partner when he wants to leave:

Sincere intention. By acting sincerely, you can get a satisfactory result. You need to take tender care of your chosen one and try to be useful. Beautiful courtship will not be ignored, provided there is mutual attraction.
Building trust. A guy and a girl must learn to feel each other. The revelation of sensuality will occur naturally without the participation of additional stimuli.
Choosing the right moment. A kiss should happen when young people are ready for it. It is useful to pre-arrange a romantic dinner, take a pleasant walk or go to the cinema.
The desire to please. You can't think only about your own pleasure. The partner's condition should be a priority. If you put yourself first, your loved one will not experience dizzying impressions.

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Types of kisses2

The variety of kisses is so huge that for each situation you can choose your own type of kiss, which will be correctly accepted and interpreted. There are so many of them that many girls don’t know how to kiss a guy correctly. Kisses can be romantic, passionate, respectful, fleeting, friendly, social and even social.

For example, a kiss when meeting a mother will be completely different from a kiss when saying goodbye to a child, and kissing at a moment of intimacy has nothing in common with a greeting touch of lips to a friend’s cheek. All of them differ in the strength of feeling invested in this ritual, the location of the place for the kiss, the pressure and technique of execution.

The most interesting thing is that no one teaches the “science of kissing” anywhere. But all people, at some subconscious level, are able to decipher its meaning and draw conclusions for themselves: loves, barely tolerates, passionately desires, cares, respects, and so on.

Kissing is one of the types of non-verbal communication. Knowing how to kiss a girl or guy correctly is just as important as being able to teach yourself and maintain a conversation.

What is a passionate kiss

A passionate kiss is intimate; it differs from other types of touching with lips in its technique and actively encourages further action. This method of caress has a number of features:

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tightly compressed lips;
creating a feeling of vacuum;
you need to open your mouth wide;
complete lack of peace, tight hugs;
fast and confident movements.

There is no ideal duration for a hickey. A kiss can be very short, but then it will not be able to evoke the expected emotions, or, conversely, it can be too long and simply become boring. It is best to try to find a middle ground that will satisfy both.

Interesting fact: many people believe that it is impossible to interact with a partner without using language. Actually this is not true. When kissing passionately, the use of the tongue is not recommended, because all movements occur at a fast and dynamic pace. Such actions can lead to awkward situations or even injuries, which is unacceptable when caressing.

A passionate kiss is an incentive for sex. When a partner resorts to such an intimate form of caresses, most likely he is counting on a pleasant continuation of the evening. If this information turns out to be unfamiliar, you can use it in the future to hint to a guy or girl about sex. It happens that both partners do not know that most often this is how sexual intercourse begins, but they become so excited in the process that they can no longer control themselves.

Kissing with tongue4

For young and inexperienced people, this type of kissing may not be entirely pleasant, but it will be very useful when they have a partner whom they want to swallow without a trace.

When kissing, one of the partners inserts his tongue into the other’s mouth; this should be done without haste, after a series of simpler kisses. The mouth that has accepted someone else's tongue must carefully suck it, wrap it around it and caress it with its tongue. Next, partners can switch roles, in which case their tongues will travel from one mouth to the other.

To know how to kiss with your tongue correctly, you need to follow the 3 “don’t” rule: don’t stick your tongue out to be torn apart by your partner, don’t bite and don’t rape someone else’s mouth with your tongue.

Why is my lip swollen after anesthesia?

If your lip is swollen after anesthesia, then you should not worry about it. This phenomenon is quite normal. An injection into the gum or lips can lead to swelling. But do not confuse personal sensations with visual ones. The fact is that after anesthesia it seems to a person that he has a swelling, but there is none.

An injection into the lip does little damage. Therefore, the presence of swelling should not be surprising. It’s not for nothing that after surgery, swelling increases over the course of 3 days. An injection is a kind of “operation” that leads to a similar phenomenon. In this case, you don't need to do anything. You just have to wait until the swelling goes away on its own.

If swelling does not go away for a long time, you should seek help from a doctor. There are also cases when an infection is introduced through an injection. This phenomenon should not be excluded. It is advisable to use anti-edema agents. If your lip is swollen after the injection and this phenomenon does not go away over time, you need to start treatment.

Welcome kisses5

Kisses of greeting used to serve as a demonstration of belonging to high society. Today, this is how they demonstrate joy or politeness when meeting people they know well. In such situations, it is important to very accurately determine the limits of what is permitted. You can’t swoop in with kisses on strangers, smack celebrities in your own way, or ruin ladies’ makeup.

The skill of a public kiss lies in the ability to portray it as naturally as possible by touching the air with your lips, just a couple of centimeters from the cheek. It is best if the kiss falls on the area of the cheek located between the tip of the ear and the corner of the lips. In this case, a closer position of the kiss to the lips will indicate a desire for a close relationship.

When can you kiss passionately?

Kissing often occurs before romantic moments or sexual intercourse. It is important not only to understand how to actually kiss deeply, but also when it is best to resort to such actions. In the absence of emotions at the moment of interaction between lovers, the result may be regarded as something vulgar or inappropriate. It is recommended to resort to such caresses after frank, emotional conversations, watching a movie or reading a book with erotic overtones.

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Spontaneity is not necessary. You can deliberately create a romantic atmosphere and slowly excite the girl, leading her to the desired actions.

Such different air kisses6

With the help of air kisses you can express your emotions from a distance. Thus, a person can convey to his counterpart what he did not have time to do during the meeting, or maybe he was simply embarrassed.

A light and quick smack of fingers and a sharp message to the addressee, coupled with a friendly smile - this is how good friends, colleagues, and relatives behave easily and naturally when parting.

However, you can add passion to it if you kiss the middle of your fingers, and then lift your lip a little and send it to your recipient, while you can accelerate it by lightly blowing on the palm from which it supposedly flew off.

In Eastern countries, air kisses are made especially sensual by putting your fingers together and kissing their tips. This way you can indicate your delight or admiration, give the highest assessment to any event or situation.

Possible causes of lip swelling

Any swelling is the consequence of some kind of malfunction in the body, so the appearance of edema should definitely cause concern. Lips swell as a result of fluid accumulation in the soft tissues, which is a consequence of inflammation or mechanical damage. Factors that cause swelling of the upper or lower lip are:

Kisses among different nationalities and its meaning7

The ritual of kissing exists among almost all nations, however, it takes place in completely different ways; each nation has its own meaning for this action.

French Kiss. The world famous tongue kiss. Its peculiarity is light touches on the partner’s lips or tongue. One of the most intimate and sensual kisses. To learn it, you need to feel your partner and plunge into the depths of his mouth without hesitation.

Australian. You can't call it a kiss in the literal sense of the word. It looks like a long and gentle touch of foreheads. This is how the inhabitants of the continent imitate the kiwi birds. Having a close connection with nature, they strive to express their worship to it in every gesture.

Roman. In the sophistication of kisses, the Romans are not inferior even to the French. For them, kissing is a complex of rituals, each of which has its own meaning. Their kisses can express passion, recognition of high position, etc.

Russian. Traditional and unemotional, popularly called merchant. It involves kissing both cheeks three times. Previously, trade transactions were completed with them, and representatives of both sexes could kiss. Nowadays, they kiss like this at social events and parties, modestly and not provocatively.

Chinese. During a kiss, partners retract their nostrils and try to catch their partner's breath. If they smack their lips or roll their eyes at the same time, this means that they have practically achieved nirvana. In this state, it is better not to touch them, however, this will not work, they never kiss in public.

Indian. So humble at the beginning and so passionate at the end. It was probably said about him that “a spark will ignite a flame.” But could it be any different for the nation that wrote and illustrated the Kama Sutra?

Indian. Pleasant, but rather unusual. Indians always try to see a deep philosophical meaning in everything. The kiss was no exception for them; in it they tried to combine the most incompatible things: earth and sky, drought and water, man and woman, and embody this in the pressure of their lips on their partner’s cheek. If someone can understand the essence of this kiss, then it will not be difficult to understand why there is a “good day to die” and a bad day.

Eskimo. This ethnic group uses kisses in the form of touching the tips of their noses. They say that for them love is breathing deeply. Although this question could have a simpler background - kissing in harsh weather conditions threatened the partners to merge in a kiss and freeze to death to each other. Another reason could be lack of oral hygiene.

No matter how funny or strange representatives of different nations kiss, we should not forget that for all nations, kissing is not just a technical performance of a ritual, but an expression of feelings and emotions. You shouldn't laugh, you need to learn how to kiss properly.

Prevention

It is important to know not only how to relieve swelling, but also how to prevent this condition. To prevent swelling in the lips and mouth area, you need to be especially careful about your health:

Improve oral care, rinse, and clean.
After cosmetic procedures, follow all instructions and recommendations of the doctor.
Visit your dentist periodically to monitor your oral health.
Do not use low-quality, expired or untested cosmetics.
Consume more vitamins and microelements to boost your immune system.
Try to avoid stress, normalize sleep and rest.
Visit only experienced, highly qualified dentists and do not skimp on dental treatment.
Do not touch your face and mouth with dirty hands.

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If the tissues on the face are swollen, this can happen for a variety of reasons, but the problem always requires special attention and immediate treatment. If the lip is swollen from the inside, this fact should never be ignored - in most situations this indicates an infection.

When a tumor has formed on the lip, one can only assume that this is a consequence of herpes if the body is characterized by this disease. At the initial stage, before the bubbles appear, the lip is very swollen and painful.

Within a day, a bubble forms at the site of the swelling, containing a clear liquid inside. The bubble that appears cannot be broken or pressed. This should not be done because there is an infectious agent in the bladder.

Contact with healthy areas of the lip or skin nearby can lead to swelling of this area. It is best to use remedies at the swelling stage that will remove the swelling and avoid further development of the disease.

Very often lip swelling occurs:

from hypothermia;
weakened immune system;
overwork;
stress;
headache;
insomnia.

Swelling is characterized by sharp swelling of the tissues, which collides with fatty tissue on the skin. If herpes often appears in the same area of the lip, a lump may form on the skin.

Common mistakes when kissing8

It's okay if mistakes are made in the process of learning to kiss. They provide an opportunity to compare, analyze and draw conclusions. The following recommendations will help you avoid some particularly serious mistakes:

The tongue should never run ahead of its owner, unless he is a dog. Immediately sticking your tongue into your partner’s mouth at the beginning of a kiss is a cruel violation of his personal space.
At the moment of a kiss, you should not remember the manuals you have read or solve everyday issues in your mind. You need to trust your feelings; if you get distracted at such a moment, you can ruin everything in the bud.

The amount of saliva must be observed. Its excess or deficiency can cause discomfort.
If one of the partners does not know the preferences of the other, then you should not attack him with greedy kisses or use your entire arsenal of tricks.
Passion and temperament are good, but such pressure can frighten a partner. Don't overwhelm him with an avalanche of your feelings.
If there is a kiss that you have been waiting for so long, and you are on the verge of fainting, then you need to make every effort not to lose consciousness.
Girls usually kiss guys the way they would like to be kissed. This is something to take note of.
Not only the mouth is worthy of kisses, the human body is a map by which you can find erogenous zones and lips will help with this.
Don’t think that a passionate kiss hints at something more and tear off your partner’s clothes. He may still need it when, frightened by your intentions, he runs away without looking back.
Lack of hygiene, bad breath and the sight of yellow, rotten teeth are all you need to forget about kissing forever.

Why is my lower lip swollen?

If your lower lip is swollen, you should immediately identify the problem.
After all, it can be quite serious. So, the appearance can easily be ruined by inflammatory processes. Naturally, insect bites, allergic reactions, hepatitis virus, etc. make a huge contribution. The swelling can be caused by ordinary damage, in this case there is no reason to worry. It is enough to apply something cold and soothe the damaged area. The problem can also be caused by an insect bite. It is advisable to treat this area with anti-inflammatory ointment.

Abrasions and wounds can cause significant swelling of the lower lip. The skin in this area is very delicate and any damage leads to the manifestation of negative factors

Swelling also occurs in the presence of a cold. It can be provoked by stomatitis and diseases associated with the lips. These include macrocheilitis. It is possible that Crohn's disease may develop, which is characterized by persistent pain. In any case, if your lip is swollen, you need to consult a specialist, because the cause is not always harmless.

How to initiate a kiss9

Love, as they say, is evil, and if one person likes another, this does not mean that he is ready to merge with him in a hot kiss. But you can prepare him, direct him, and even set his lips. But this needs to be done unobtrusively.

First you need to create an intimate atmosphere. When talking, you should often lower your eyes to the lips of your interlocutor. You need to position yourself closer to him and relax your lips, under no circumstances closing them or straining them. To make your lips look more appetizing, you can use gloss (for girls), your breath should be fresh, and there should be no unnecessary objects in your mouth (chewing gum, candy or seeds).

The conversation should be light, on a pleasant topic. During it, you can inadvertently kiss the guy on the cheek, and the girl’s hand. This should not be done abruptly or convulsively.
Men, like girls, love compliments. Take advantage of this. But they should not be banal; it is better to emphasize the masculinity of a guy or the femininity of a girl.
If the object of desire still does not understand the hints, you can ask permission to kiss, but it is better to do this in a romantic way.

If your partner still has doubts, you can take the initiative. You just need to get close to him and kiss him on the lips.

Why is my lip swollen after a blow?

If the lip is swollen after a blow, then in this case we are talking about the formation of a hematoma. This is a very common phenomenon that is not so easy to eliminate. The fact is that after a bruise the tissues are severely damaged and a certain period is needed for their restoration. The skin on the lips is delicate and therefore the healing process takes a long time.

You can try using special ointments for bruises. But you should understand that remedies for treating bumps on the legs, arms and other parts of the body are not suitable for eliminating a hematoma on the lip. A delicate remedy is needed here. Therefore, it is not recommended to start treatment on your own.

The swelling may grow over time, depending on the severity of the injury. Therefore, within a few days the situation can change for the worse. It is recommended to immediately apply something cold to the damaged lip, this will avoid severe swelling. But still, you need to see a doctor. If your lip is swollen after a strong blow, you should resort to high-quality measures to eliminate the problem.

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World Kissing Day10

The so-called World Kissing Day has been celebrated for more than the first century. It is especially popular in America and European countries. More than 60 countries celebrate this holiday on July 6 as international kissing day. The interesting thing is that it was invented in Britain, and we even know who its initiator was. And he turned out to be a dentist who promotes oral hygiene and a healthy lifestyle.

In his opinion, kissers take better care of the condition of their mouth and teeth, which allows them to reduce oral diseases several times. It is unknown what effect he was counting on, but this loving holiday spread across the globe.

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Why does my lip swell after kissing?

If your lip is swollen after kissing, your partner most likely has inflammatory processes in the oral cavity or herpes. Many problems are transmitted after such close contact. This shouldn't be surprising. Naturally, asking a person about the presence of any inflammation is not correct. But ignoring this issue can lead to serious problems.

If a person has stomatitis or herpes, which has not reached the stage of “complete disappearance,” then the risk of infection is high. These diseases become especially dangerous when there are ulcers and blisters with fluid. They are the source of infection.

If a problem occurs, it can be eliminated, but if a person “caught” herpes, then it is almost impossible to eliminate the virus from the body. Therefore, no matter how correct it may be, it is worth asking a person about the presence of any inflammatory processes in the oral cavity. After all, one uncomfortable question can save you from unpleasant diseases.

If your lips are swollen after a kiss, then most likely there is a problem in someone’s mouth. This phenomenon does not just happen. Surely your partner has some problems. This could be stomatitis or an inflammatory process in the mouth. Often this problem occurs due to the presence of herpes.

Naturally, it is somewhat ugly to ask a person about the presence of this inflammatory process. But I don’t want to receive it as “compensation” either. Therefore, it is best to find out whether a person has problems or not.

The thing is that detecting the presence of herpes is not so easy. After all, it can be inside the oral cavity. Therefore, there is no way to notice it. Naturally, herpes is easily transmitted through kissing. Therefore, this fact needs to be controlled. There is no need to be shy; it is better to immediately ask the person about the problem, so that unexpected and interesting situations do not arise in the future. But if your lip is still swollen, it is recommended to use special ointments.