Good luck to you my dears. Today we are talking to you about the relationship between a man and a woman. BUT, from a man's point of view. A very popular question: I like a man, how should I behave with him so that I like him. This is what women ask each other and me. In terms of advice, so to speak, to the other, opposing side.
It’s always interesting to know what men will answer to a purely female question. I believe that this is exactly what you need to find out. The opinion of even your best and most experienced friend, even if she is a psychologist three times, will not be correct. To defeat an enemy, you need to know him from the inside. This is one of the tricks of war. But it is also relevant for life, and even more so for relationships.
A man dreams of an ideal wife. A woman dreams of an ideal husband. But they do not understand that the Lord created them so that they would complement each other.
I like a man how to behave with him so that I like him.
Well, if you want to know our opinion, get it. I don’t pretend to be a superman, and certainly don’t speak for everyone. It's my personal opinion. If interested, read it. No, then you should go to your best friend, or worse, a certified psychologist. They will give you “valuable” advice. I hope you don't embarrass yourself.
So, first of all , don’t act like a fool. What I mean. If you like a man, then you want to attract his attention and begin to behave accordingly. So, “like a fool” this means you don’t need to be annoying. It's too obvious to show that you like him. Intrusive. We regard this as very irritating and the “value” of such a woman drops significantly. In our country this behavior is called creeping. That is, it is humiliating.
Remember, we are hunters. And we don’t like it when the prey falls into our hands. Interest disappears. Well, for one sex it’s quite normal, but no more. Do you need this? Then go ahead. You will definitely achieve this. And if the goal is to take possession of a man for a long time. Here you need to behave differently.
Second , don't act like a bitch. This is the opposite of stupid. There is no need to pretend that you are cold and frigid, in addition to being unscrupulous, not balanced, but also a fool. Here I will not describe what a bitch is, you know this better than me. I’ll say one thing - we don’t like bitches even more than fools. They blow your mind.
Mark Levy
What kind of man would look at your dress if one glance from you can throw the entire male population at your feet?
The ostentatious behavior of supergirls with the false arrogance of “I’m a Star.” It will also not bring you dividends. You also don’t need to show yourself as touchy. Remember the first thing a man thinks about you is that he imagines you in bed with him. And if you show with all your behavior that you disdain sex. You won't see him. There is another “prey” that is simpler. Although there are hunters for such. I won’t lie, I saw it. But you are definitely not suitable for the role of a wife. Just sex, nothing personal.
How a man will like it.
What kind of people are we, men? We don't like these and those don't suit us. Where should poor girls go? Both in your society and in ours there is a similar opinion. “Ehhh, there are no normal women (men) left.” There are both. You just need to lower the bar a little, “sit down” a little. And here they are, walking around in shoals.
You just have to look around carefully. And suddenly you discover that a pretty decent guy is working next to you. Yes, not Alain Delon and not the jock. But decent, smart, caring. This is the kind of husbands we need. If you like this man, you must decide for yourself how to behave. Discard the first two options immediately.
Now I’ll tell you what most men like. There are others, as without them. But it’s up to you to decide who to clamp down on. What we like most is femininity . We should see you as a woman, not a man in a skirt. Or in pants. Therefore, dress appropriately. No trousers, jeans, trousers or other male attributes. This is written in more detail in this article.
How to look like something a man will like.
Dress in women's clothing. Dresses, skirts just above the knees, but not to the butt. Change your clothes, look different. Apply makeup in moderation; no need to wear Indian war paint. It looks vulgar. There must be a hairstyle. Of course, unless you have straight, long hair. However, they also need to be laid out beautifully.
It happens that men believe that a beautiful girl cannot be smart or talented. We must promptly eliminate their misconceptions.
Shoes are at your discretion. Nowadays high heels are not fashionable. But a woman in them looks much more beautiful and attractive than in sneakers. You decide. The smell of perfume should be exciting. Something that smells like a woman. But not a floral or strong smell. It’s important here, smell sometimes plays a decisive role. Because of it, a man can like you and you don’t need to do anything at all. Or vice versa, push away. Then, no matter what you do, he won’t come close to you. So work with odors professionally.
How to get a guy to like you (scientific review)[edit | edit code]
This article describes scientifically proven ways to make a guy like you.
Computer simulated faces rated as the most and least sexy (left and right, respectively) Ideal female body Left; an example of an ideal female body according to women, on the right - according to men.
Smile[edit | edit code]
An expression of happiness and a smile are the most attractive female emotions for men. The scientific study "Happy Guys Finish Last: The Impact of Emotional Expressions on Sexual Attraction" found that guys find smiling women more attractive.[1]
Stupid behavior[edit | edit code]
A sociological experiment among students at the University of Texas–Austin, published in the journal Evolution and Human Behavior, showed that guys were more attracted to childish and stupid girls, including those who were intoxicated, but only for a short-term one-night stand. Witty, sensible and sensible girls, in turn, seemed less physically attractive. However, the situation takes the opposite direction if a man is looking for a partner for a long-term relationship.[2]
Red lipstick[edit | edit code]
Women's lips are known to be one of the most attractive parts of the body to men, especially when they are colored bright red, a Manchester University study reports. The experiment found that men kept their gaze on bright red lips for an average of about 7 seconds, while they looked at their eyes for only 0.95 seconds and at their hair for 0.85 seconds.[3]
High tone of voice[edit | edit code]
A study from University College London found that guys are more attracted to girls with a high-pitched voice, presumably because a high-pitched voice is associated with a slimmer figure.[4]
Figure[edit | edit code]
Examples of silhouettes shown to men in the study with different butt-to-back angles.
Men were more attracted to silhouettes with hyperlordosis (right). Devendra Singh's research[5] indicates that one feature of female attractiveness remains constant - the large difference between waist and hip circumferences. Guys prefer women of average weight with wide hips and a narrow waist.
Men are attracted to women whose back angle to their buttocks is 45 degrees. This tilt gives a woman an advantage during late pregnancy, as she still retains a fair amount of stamina. However, researchers have also discovered that the physical curvature of the back, known as vertebral wedging, makes a woman's figure even more visually attractive than a curvy buttock.[6]
The ratio of the length of the torso and legs[edit | edit code]
A research team led by Swami Viren surveyed British men and women and found that figures with longer legs (40% of body length) were considered more attractive.[7] The researcher concluded that this result may have been obtained due to the widespread use of American beauty standards.
Facial features[edit | edit code]
Most men believe that the facial features that make a woman sexually attractive are large eyes and a small nose.[8]
A group of scientists led by Bruno Laeng[9] made an interesting observation that, on average, blue-eyed men find blue-eyed women more attractive.
Hair[edit | edit code]
The majority (70%) of men consider long hair more attractive than short hair (30%).[10][11] Evolutionary psychology explains this by saying that nutritional deficiencies and deficiencies of minerals and vitamins lead to hair loss or hair changes. Therefore, hair has been an indicator of health and nutrition for the last 2-3 years. Shiny hair is also attractive to men from different cultures.[12]
One study reported that European men preferred blondes and Asian men preferred brunettes.[13]
Skin color[edit | edit code]
Preference still remains for light skin. Anthropologist Peter Frost explained that superior men were allowed to marry attractive women, who tended to have fair skin. Members of the upper classes of society generally had a lighter complexion than people from the lower classes, and this determined the conditions of sexual selection.[14]
However, a healthy lifestyle and physical beauty of the body are currently being actively promoted. Since a tan emphasizes the contours of the figure, a light brown shade becomes more attractive than pale and dark brown skin.[15]
Gait[edit | edit code]
Body movements while walking can tell a lot about a woman’s health and mood. Thus, in one study it was found that men are more attracted to a “hip-up” gait than a stiff gait.[16]
Nonverbal signals[edit | edit code]
A study conducted by Monica Moore[17] notes that when a woman frequently used gestures such as raising her head abruptly, tossing her hair, baring her neck and smiling, she enjoyed higher success with men. Another gesture associated with attraction is looking into the eyes. Strangers of the opposite sex looking at each other for two minutes in a laboratory were more likely to report feelings of passion for their partner.[18]
Phase of the menstrual cycle[edit | edit code]
A study has been conducted showing that women who are ovulating appear more attractive to unmarried, single men. However, the reasons for this phenomenon remain unclear.[19] This is probably due to the fact that high estrogen levels, namely the peak that occurs during ovulation, change a woman's behavior. The nature of the mucus in the vagina changes, it becomes thicker. a clear physical feeling of “wet and slippery” appears. A woman is unconsciously more ready for sexual intercourse and her body language and mood changes. Ovulation is an opportunity to give new life. During this period, a woman is usually more beautiful than ever. There is a desire to take care of yourself, dress beautifully, put on makeup, change your hairstyle. She becomes more charming and attractive. At the same time, a woman has a stronger interest in men, and her sexual energy increases. During the period of ovulation, an incredible feeling of happiness and contentment sets in, as opposed to apathy, tears and hysterics during menstruation. Therefore, men subconsciously read these body signals and flock like bees to honey) A woman who is smiling and happy with life is much more attractive. This is how nature works.
Age category[edit | edit code]
Two groups of researchers[20][21], independently of each other, found that the choice of a chosen one among men depends on the age at which he is. Thus, older men are attracted to women younger than them, men 20 years and older are attracted to women of approximately the same age, and teenage boys are attracted to slightly older women. In other words, we can say that men, regardless of age, like women between the ages of 20 and 30.
Social status[edit | edit code]
Men assessing potential lovers place more importance on a woman's physical appearance than on a woman's social status.[22] They prefer a visually attractive woman regardless of her apparent social status.[23][24]
Research shows that when a man is seen with a physically attractive member of the opposite sex, it improves the man's social impression, but has no effect on the woman's impression.[25][26]
Behavior[edit | edit code]
A physically attractive woman does not show signs of dominance, only youth and the ability to reproduce are noticeable in her.[27][28][29]
Brigham Young University researchers found that active texting is perceived negatively by men because it creates the impression that the woman is trying to “strangle” her partner in the relationship.[30]
Mass media[edit | edit code]
According to a group of scientists from the University of Cambridge, it is likely that men choose attractive women in their 20s and 30s because of tendentious images presented in the media.[31] However, this research does not explain why age differences are found in cultures far removed from modern television and film images.
Who pays on the first date[edit | edit code]
American scientists found that out of 64% of men who wanted to split the bill in half, 44% admitted that they even lost interest in a woman if she did not make financial investments in their future relationship. But 76% of men were uncomfortable taking money from a woman. 84% of men and 58% of women reported that the man paid the lion's share of expenses on a date. This state of affairs continued even after some time had passed since the beginning of the relationship.[32]
Sense of humor[edit | edit code]
A sense of humor does not help women become more attractive in the eyes of men. However, a man who makes a woman laugh increases his chances of having an intimate relationship with her. [33]
Dance[edit | edit code]
Psychologists have found that hip swaying is the most attractive among women's dance movements. Also attractive are asymmetrical movements and the ability to sense rhythm. The results of the study were published in the journal Scientific Reports.[34]
Dream[edit | edit code]
Healthy sleep is not only vital, but also really makes a person more beautiful. Research has shown that a few sleepless nights can make a person seem less attractive.[35]
I like how a man behaves to attract attention.
If you like a man, how to behave so that you like him. I have already described unacceptable behavior above. Although this is my opinion. Some people like both bitches and fools. I don't. Again, I will express the opinion of most men. You need to behave naturally. BUT, taking into account the recommendations in clothing and smell. No, you must shoot with your eyes. Otherwise, how will a man know that you like him? Try to meet your eyes more often, catch his gaze. Again, your gaze should not be provocative, lustful, or shameless. There is no need to wink or “play” with your eyes.
They just met their eyes and lowered their cute, modest, feminine, beautifully tinted eyes. There is no need to appear easily accessible. I agree with everything. Again, if your goal is not just one-time sex. If you choose a man for life. Or a long-term relationship. Meet your eyes and look away. You can smile sweetly. Modestly lower your eyes and blush.
We like these. Don't forget, we are hunters. We should be interested. Arouse our interest in yourself. Dose relationships. If you notice that you have hooked a guy. Develop relationships slowly but with progress. Agree to a date, but for the first time it’s enough. The man should have a desire to conquer you.
A man must command without rising to the level of a ruler, and a woman must obey without stooping to a slave.
Let him do it, but not quickly. But not for long. If you drag out the process, he will lose interest. Balance is important here. If your relationship has already reached the stage of regular meetings, perhaps sex. Then don't stop. A man’s interest in you should not fade. Still keep yourself fit. Clothes, makeup, smell. You should excite him as before. Plus, he has the added fear of losing such a gorgeous woman. There are plenty of competitors.
Let's start with the appearance: a few useful tricks
It is the appearance that men, both adults and middle-aged, pay attention to first of all. Everyone has their own concept of beauty and ideal type, but there are general recommendations.
Clothing should always emphasize the strengths of the figure and hide possible flaws. It is advisable to choose feminine style outfits for the meeting and remember about balance. If a girl prefers a neckline, then she will have to give up a miniskirt and vice versa.
Most men love it when a lady wears high-heeled shoes.
It must be remembered that the outfit must be appropriate. A girl in a dress and stilettos will look ridiculous and ugly at a picnic, which requires a comfortable outfit (jeans, sneakers). This article will help you decide on clothes, which describes in detail what color and length it should be, what decor is welcome, and how to combine it all.
The most suitable makeup during the day is natural (even tone, light blush, neatly shaped eyebrows, fluffy long eyelashes and shiny lips). In the evening, you can make a bright accent, but choose one thing - eyes or lips.
In this video you will find out the opinion of men:
What to do to please a man.
You like a man, I told you how to behave. What else needs to be done? Attention . Now I’ll say probably the most important thing . If you want not only to attract a man, but to make him stay with you. In addition to femininity, we like care and affection . Yes, that's how sentimental we are.
Believe it or not, we need this just as much as you do. And if a woman does not show this after the relationship has begun. He will go to the one who will give it to him. This also applies to married life. I’ll say right away, don’t be afraid, we are not children, we don’t need much. Just so that it comes from you and that’s all. Excessive care where it is necessary and where it is not necessary is annoying. They just praised him somewhere, gently stroked him somehow. Damn it! He's yours!
It is you who need to be constantly stroked and undead. Short-term attention is enough for us. But permanent. You won't get off just once. I seem to have answered your question: I like a man, how should I behave? Whether good or bad, I wrote my opinion. Believe me, it coincides with many others. I have a lot of experience. So feel free to contact me for advice. I will help with pleasure.
Good luck to you! See you soon!
How to know if your plan worked
It's very simple: the guy will start offering to meet more often, showing signs of attention, and paying compliments. More obvious signs are collected in a separate material. It will help you find out whether there is sympathy at a distance and in real life by behavior, poses, and words.
Guys know best how to please men. So let's listen to their opinion: a lot of attention is paid to the mind:
To make all the tricks work faster, you should use the tactics of half-hints. It is necessary to make it clear to the MCH that he has aroused interest, but at any moment he can become indifferent. To do this, smile and laugh at one moment, and be sad at another, suddenly become silent, as if you are bored. Who knows, perhaps very soon you will get a reliable boyfriend and meeting after meeting will follow.
