In modern life, many women become victims of domestic violence. Unfortunately, when we meet a man, it is very difficult to understand at the very beginning that he is a tyrant. Such representatives of the stronger sex can create a very positive impression after the first meetings and make women fall head over heels in love with them. Bad qualities appear later, when a man realizes that he has power over his soul mate and can behave with her as he pleases and that all his actions will go unpunished.
How to understand that your boyfriend or husband is a tyrant?
He always suppresses those around him and tries to show that he is the best of them, imposes his opinion and too violently disputes the opinions of others when it does not coincide with his point of view. He limits the freedom of his other half, trying to control her, does not hesitate to ask her about every step and always wants to know where she is going and what she will do there. The despot husband never stops being jealous and tries to make sure that his wife meets less with her friends and acquaintances. He speaks very poorly and disrespectfully about his exes.
If you notice at least one of these signs in your new friend and know what zodiac sign he was born under, find out if he is on the list of potential domestic tyrants. If the signs are obvious and he is a representative of one of the 5 zodiac signs listed below, it is best to run away!
Aries: tyrant-aggressor and brawler
Shows aggression, is jealous, uses physical violence, demands unconditional obedience, is rude, and slanderes.
Characteristic behavior
For this type of man, there is only his opinion. He is sure that everything depends on him, he is used to making decisions himself. Over the years, he decides that he alone is the authority in the house, that no one has the right to express his opinion, because only he is right, and no one else.
Aries - This type of domestic tyrant can be very dangerous because it is capable of resorting to the use of physical force. The man is very aggressive and can flare up instantly, even without a serious reason. And in advanced cases, the situation can get out of control. The Aries tyrant makes a scandal, provoking a “fight”, trying to show what power he has. But he very rarely starts a battle with someone stronger than himself. Most often, its victims are weaker people: women and children.
Why does Aries the despot behave this way?
Most often, in childhood, men of this type faced cruelty and tyrannical behavior from other family members. Therefore, as they grow up, they accept this behavior and carry it into their lives. A domestic abuser, including the Aries zodiac sign, cannot solve problems by discussing them calmly. In his opinion, strength is everything. By force, he believes, even love can be won.
How to behave with Aries - a domestic tyrant?
As a rule, such men become very weak when faced with truly serious dangers and problems. They easily offend the weak, but give in to strong opponents. The moment women find a worthy protector, they tend to disappear because they are afraid of getting what they deserve through their actions.
The most cruel signs of the Zodiac in family life: how to recognize
ARIES: tyrant-aggressor and fighter
How to recognize? Shows aggression, is jealous, uses physical violence, demands unquestioning obedience, is rude, and swears.
Typical behavior: For such a man, only his opinion exists; he is confident that everyone depends only on him. He is used to making all decisions himself, and over the years he has become convinced that there is only one authority in the house and no one has any right to offer his opinion, because only he and no one else is right.
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At its worst, this type of domestic tyrant is the most dangerous, as it is capable of using physical force.
What to do? Usually such men are weak in the face of truly serious dangers and problems. They easily offend the weak, but give in to stronger opponents. As soon as a woman has a worthy defender, they usually simply disappear, afraid of getting what they deserve.
SCORPIO: Tyrant-manipulator
How to recognize? He is jealous, controls, instills a feeling of guilt, parasitizes and vampirizes on emotions.
Typical behavior: These men are very dangerous for women who decide to start a family with them. Usually they do everything to gain their power over a woman, and always and in everything control her actions.
Already at the very beginning of a relationship, a tyrant-manipulator knows all your weaknesses and knows how to put pressure on them and manipulate them for his own selfish interests. He rarely uses physical force, unlike the previous type, but this does not make him any less dangerous. Moral violence often drives women to madness.
What to do? If you are treated with disdain, manipulated or humiliated, you should first love yourself, because if you allow such behavior, it means you don’t have self-love!
VIRGO: Tyrant-bore and critic
How to recognize? Controls expenses, criticizes, dispenses moral lectures, compares with others.
Typical behavior: This type of tyrant is not very dangerous compared to the previous ones, but this does not make it any easier for those who live under the same roof with him. Usually his tyranny manifests itself in tediousness: he constantly bores, is rarely satisfied with anything, and demands perfect compliance with all his rules from his family.
Tyrant virgins criticize everything and everyone: their wife is always dressed, combed and made up incorrectly, she cooks incorrectly and speaks incorrectly. Children always behave incorrectly and are always insufficiently educated. Often criticism extends to other relatives.
What to do? First, figure out how fair criticism and nitpicking is. If you understand that it is not, figure it out: perhaps this is not the case, but the reason is some more serious dissatisfaction. In order not to provoke scandals, you should not react to criticism too aggressively and calmly accept it, expressing in response what exactly you do not like.
LEO: tyrant-egocentric
How to recognize? Jealous, puts moral pressure, imposes his opinion, controls, shows egocentrism and authority, commands
Typical behavior: Leo tyrants love themselves very much and prefer to be extolled and idolized by others. They usually achieve this through moral pressure, demonstration of their superiority and power. It is precisely these men who are often against a woman having her own business or going to work, because then she will no longer be in his complete power.
Since they are the biggest egocentrics of the entire Zodiac, they should always have the best. Their interests are always more important than the interests of the family, even if they claim that family means everything to them!
What to do? Egocentric tyrants use their egoism when their wives allow them to, while forgetting about themselves. Too much worship of such a man from the very beginning of the relationship kindles regal habits in him, which are difficult to eradicate in the future. Try to reduce his importance to you, make him think that he is not the center of the Universe.
CANCER: Tyrant Jailer
How to recognize? Controls, limits, sets limits, exercises power, manipulates, instills feelings of guilt
Typical behavior: No matter how much this zodiac sign is an example of a good and caring family man, this does not exclude the possibility that a Cancer family man can turn into a domestic tyrant.
Typically, Cancers are typical homebodies; they don’t particularly need to go out and be visible. If a woman shares this character trait, then she is in a more advantageous position. Otherwise, the tyrant will do his best to protect her from the team, forcing her to spend as much time as possible at home.
What to do? Cancers are not always stubborn; it is quite possible to convince them of something, to make them understand that everything you do is completely safe for the family. Here you need to learn to talk.
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Scorpio: tyrant-manipulator
He is jealous, controls, instills a feeling of guilt, “sucks out” emotions.
Characteristic behavior
Such men are dangerous for women who decide to start a family with them. As a rule, they do everything to gain power over their significant other, to control their actions always and in everything. Even at the very beginning of the union, Scorpio the tyrant-manipulator recognizes the weaknesses of his partner and knows how to use them for his own selfish purposes.
The domestic tyrant Scorpio rarely uses physical force, but this does not make him any less dangerous. The moral violence he practices often drives the victim to madness. The woman next to him constantly feels guilty, does not feel complete and doubts her mental and other abilities. When the partner begins to get too nervous, Scorpio tries to convince her that it is time to get treatment, and makes attempts to “protect” the children from her.
Such husbands often take away their common children, convincing their partner that she cannot be a normal mother. And she, in turn, begins to believe in it so much that she ends up becoming a regular client of the psychotherapist - if, of course, she can afford it financially. If a woman finds the strength to free herself from this connection, then for a long time she will continue to be tormented by the feeling of guilt that she allowed such a relationship in her life.
Why does Scorpio the despot behave this way?
This man has many fears, which he skillfully hides. He is insecure and tries to hide it through jealousy and manipulation. Most likely, the man received little love and attention in childhood, and now subconsciously takes revenge on the whole world for this.
How to behave with Scorpio - a domestic tyrant?
If your partner treats you with contempt, manipulates you, or demeans you, you must first learn to love yourself. If you allow such an attitude towards yourself, it means that you do not love yourself. If you start loving yourself more than your other half, you will no longer have problems in the form of a manipulative and tyrant husband.
Virgo: tyrant-critic
Controls expenses, criticizes, lectures, and constantly compares with others.
Characteristic behavior
Virgo - the tyrant is not so dangerous compared to the previous most despotic signs of the Zodiac, but this will not make it any easier for you if you live with him under the same roof. As a rule, his domestic violence manifests itself in the form of endless discontent. It very rarely happens that this man is happy with something, and family members must strictly follow all his rules.
Virgo tyrants criticize everyone and everything. The woman next to him will never dress the right way, never look the right way, never cook the right way, and never speak the right way. Children are always poorly behaved and behave badly. Often the criticism of these men extends to other relatives.
With such a life partner, life usually becomes not very fun, since he controls everything, especially expenses. If a woman does not work, her life with her Virgo husband turns into real hell, because she is forced to account for all expenses. And if he wants to buy something, he faces a tough selection and, as a rule, often does not buy what he wants - for a variety of reasons put forward by the tyrant Virgo.
Despite all this, such men are sure that they really care about their loved ones and family. But happiness and moral comfort, alas, are not with them! These Virgo men often compare their significant other to someone else, such as their ex or their mother. This lowers a woman's self-esteem and she tries her best to please him.
Why does Virgo the despot behave this way?
Such men are great idealists and do not want to see beyond their own nose. They believe that an ideal world, in which everything is in its place, is the most comfortable, and chaos makes them feel terrible. As a result, Virgos want everything around them to be perfect, including their family members. Such a man may fail, go bankrupt, or experience some other crisis. Then he will begin to blame himself: they say, all this happened because he is not ideal and not effective. In the end, Virgo is trying to convey a unique message to her family: be perfect - then you won’t disappoint either me or yourself!
How to behave with Virgo - a domestic tyrant?
First, try to understand how justified his criticism is. If you think that he is wrong, try to figure it out: perhaps the reason lies in some more serious dissatisfaction. To avoid causing scandals, do not respond to criticism overly aggressively. Take everything calmly and be sure to note what you don’t like. With this type of tyrant, everything can be sorted out and everything can be resolved peacefully through negotiations.
The optimal choice of profession for Scorpio
It is the representatives of this sign who are most likely to have difficulty choosing a profession. As children, they alternately see themselves as programmers and linguists. Today they can dream of a career as a doctor, and tomorrow they will decide that their destiny is the theater.
However, all of the above does not mean at all that contradictory Scorpios, sometimes rushing from one extreme to another, are not able to realize themselves in any particular field of activity. But an indispensable condition for this is independent choice. In other words, Scorpios will be able to achieve success only in the professional field where they begin to work in accordance with their personal choice, without the slightest pressure or even advice from others. And no matter how long the doubts last, in the end, they make the right choice. In this they are helped by natural intuition, the “sixth sense”, which is well developed among representatives of this sign.
Scorpio's choice of profession lies in the field of creativity. For most Scorpios, professional activity is not conceivable outside of creativity in the broadest sense of the word. Representatives of this sign can engage in theater directing, writing, design, sculpture, or be carpenters. That is, the main thing for them is the very idea of creating beauty, the implementation of their own ideas and views. As a rule, works created by Scorpios bear the imprint of a unique style and usually become recognizable over time.
A good choice for representatives of this sign may be to become a lawyer. Here Scorpios are most attracted to the legal profession, where they often achieve great success. The business they conduct is largely perceived by Scorpios themselves as a creative process, which they manage with great pleasure. They devote all their energy and all their mental reserves to the task. For them, not only the result itself is important, but also the way in which they achieved it. The more complex the process, the more enthusiasm Scorpio shows, always giving preference to difficult tasks in which he will be able to demonstrate all his abilities.
Requirements of the Scorpio sign for character and working conditions
The absence of strict control is the main condition for a representative of this sign to be able to fully realize all his professional abilities, knowledge and skills. This does not mean that Scorpio should be allowed to do absolutely whatever he wants in his workplace. But you should always listen to his opinion and rely more often on his intuition. The choice of Scorpio's profession is sometimes predetermined. Representatives of this sign are creative people, and creativity, as is known, presupposes a certain freedom of choice, so the leader needs to create at least the appearance that Scorpio, as they say, is “his own boss.” It is necessary to direct his activities as tactfully as possible, and all possible objections must be argued clearly and reasonably.
The prestige of the position held or the reputability of the company in which Scorpio will work is not of decisive importance for him. But authority among his colleagues is extremely important to him. This is one of the main labor incentives for Scorpio. A representative of this sign can do his job, even receiving a fairly modest salary, if, as already mentioned, he is given the freedom to work as he sees fit.
Scorpio is capable of doing even monotonous, monotonous work if his actions ultimately lead to the result that he intended. Although, as a rule, the profession chosen by representatives of this sign does not imply monotony. Scorpios are ready to work seven days a week, especially if the work they started is nearing completion. A great incentive to work is the praise of superiors and kind reviews from colleagues. The more complex the work, the more willingly Scorpio takes on it, and the more freedom of activity he is given, the higher the result of his work will be.
Leo: egocentric tyrant
Jealous, exerts moral pressure, imposes his own opinion, controls, shows egocentrism and authority, commands
Characteristic behavior
Leo the tyrant loves himself very much and prefers to be extolled and idolized by those around him. As a rule, this is achieved through moral pressure and a demonstration of superiority and power. It is precisely such people who are often against their halves doing something and working, because because of this, women are not in their full power.
Leos are considered the most self-centered of all the zodiac signs and are bound to have the best of everything. Their interests are always more important than the interests of their loved ones, even if they claim that family is everything to them. A man is always right, but loved ones have no right to their opinion. And if they try to express it, Leo the tyrant will not listen to them. As a rule, a woman for him is not a person, but an addition to his royal person, obliged to serve him or agree with him in everything. Leos - domestic tyrants do not care too much about the health of their half and never think about the consequences, for example, they can force their wife to go to the doctor in order to get rid of an unwanted pregnancy for them, Leos.
Why does Leo the despot behave this way?
Often egocentric tyrants grow up in completely normal families where they are allowed everything. They are the only children of their parents, but they appeared late, and therefore mothers and fathers, grandmothers and grandfathers treated them like a deity. However, it is possible that in childhood they were constantly humiliated and “put in their place” by their parents, who made the Lion Cubs feel that they were nothing special. Therefore, when they become adults, such children try to be first in everything and transfer the behavior of their parents onto their own children and wives.
How to behave with Leo - a domestic tyrant?
Egocentric tyrants cultivate their egoism when their other halves allow them to do so. If you idolize your life partner too much, you will “inflame” his royalty, which will be very difficult to eradicate in the future. Induce him to think that he is far from the center of the Universe. If, with years and effort, you are not able to win his respect and attention, you will have to look elsewhere because you are no longer able to change the situation.
Scorpio's abilities and further choice of work
Efficiency and responsibility of Scorpio
The performance of representatives of this zodiac sign is simply fantastic. Scorpios are passionate people, and in order to bring their plans to life, they are ready to work for days. Among them there are many who, unlike the rest, simply hate weekends, and consider Monday to be their favorite day of the week. At home, you can often catch them finishing things they didn’t have time to do at work instead of watching TV or reading the newspaper. They can stay up at night thinking about their projects, and come to work long before the start of the working day. And even high temperature, blood pressure and other health problems that would force a representative of another zodiac sign to simply take sick leave are not able to keep them at home.
However, all this is possible only if the choice of Scorpio’s profession allows one to fully realize their creative potential. If creativity is not expected, Scorpio is capable of behaving in a completely opposite way. He may often be late for work, coming up with endless and completely incredible reasons for this; barely sneezing, he will run to the clinic to take a sick leave for at least a couple of days.
Unlike those who would not behave in this way, if only because of the risk of losing their job or losing their bonus, Scorpio cannot help himself if he feels that at work he is only a mechanical executor of someone’s ideas. His performance disappears without a trace.
Scorpio, unlike representatives of other signs of the Zodiac, is fascinated not so much by the process of work itself, no matter how much he likes it, but by its result, and precisely the expected result obtained in a certain way. Therefore, the closer the completion of a project or a certain stage of work, the more efforts he will make to speed up the completion. And at the final stages of work, Scorpios very often become real tyrants who haunt not only themselves, but also their colleagues. For example, they quite sincerely do not understand how it is possible to go to the beach on a hot Saturday summer day when there are only a couple of drawings left before the completion of, say, an architectural project. Of course, Scorpio will spend this hot summer day drawing drawings. And if necessary, not only during the day, but also in the evening, and not only on Saturday, but also on Sunday.
As already mentioned, an important incentive for Scorpio to work is recognition of his merits. If he does not find recognition, each time his performance fades away and, finally, may disappear completely. He works not for himself, but for those around him, not for the sake of the process itself, but for the sake of its result. In order for Scorpios to show maximum diligence in the workplace, they should never forget to praise the results of their activities when the opportunity arises. It is always better to praise Scorpio once again than to scold him. Morals and instructions are a “negative” stimulus for him.
If all the above conditions are present, Scorpios usually approach their work responsibly, and they demand the same responsibility from others.
Scorpio's ability to control and obey
In principle, Scorpio's choice of profession is not always associated with a leadership position. Scorpio doesn't have to be a leader. It is important for him that the work that fascinates him so much is carried out directly by him. Walking around and giving directions is not for him. Although there are nuances here too. For example, Scorpio most likely will not become a good leader of a large enterprise. However, he will be an excellent director of a theatrical production, director of a feature film, chief architect or designer of a project. That is, in order to be a good leader, Scorpio must, with the help of other people, as well as with his direct participation, bring to life his idea, the product of an individual creative consciousness.
In principle, Scorpio can become a good subordinate, but only with a good boss who will show him the maximum possible trust and listen to his opinion. If there is a dictatorship at the enterprise or company in which Scorpio will work, then he will be a bad subordinate. A manager prone to authoritarian management methods will face many scandals with such an employee. The finale of such a symbiosis, as a rule, is Scorpio’s dismissal from work, sometimes of his own free will, and sometimes for more severe reasons. Here everything will depend on whose patience is stronger.
So, if a manager wants to retain a talented and efficient employee for his enterprise, which is often a representative of this zodiac sign, he better reconsider his methods of working with subordinates or at least make a small exception for Scorpio. Believe me, Scorpio behaves this way not at all because he does not want to recognize your authority or does not respect you as a person, but simply because he is used to enjoying the work done, not only if he himself is directly involved in its implementation, but also if he acts in accordance with his principles and views on the implementation of a particular project.
What to do if the manager, not wanting to leave the enterprise without a capable employee, still cannot overcome himself and give the initiative into the hands of Scorpio? Well, this happens quite often. In this case, try to express your opinion as delicately as possible, without imposing it just because you are the boss. You only need to object to Scorpio if you see an obvious flaw or mistake. Believe me, if your opinion is sufficiently reasoned, you will not have to go into constant conflicts with your employee.
Cancer: tyrant overseer
Controls, limits, sets strict limits, exercises power, manipulates, instills feelings of guilt
Characteristic behavior
Cancer in astrology is an example of a kind and caring husband. How then did he end up among the most oppressive signs of the Zodiac? Alas, positive qualities do not exclude the possibility that the head of the Cancer family is capable of turning into a domestic tyrant.
Usually people of this sign are homebodies and do not feel the need to show themselves to the world. If a woman is tuned in to the same wavelength, she will be in a more advantageous position. Otherwise, the tyrant Cancer will try with all his might to tear her away from her environment, forcing her to spend as much time as possible at home. The walls of her home will gradually turn into a prison for her, and even a completely innocent going out somewhere with her friends once a year can become a reason for a stormy scandal and claims on his part.
As a rule, such Cancer husbands try in every possible way to impose a feeling of guilt: “How can this be? She left, left the children, didn’t feed her, didn’t put her to bed... What kind of mother do you have?!” The words may be different, but the meaning is always approximately the same.
Why does Cancer the despot behave this way?
This behavior is based not only on self-doubt and the fact that one can truly be loved, but also on serious fears, including fear of loss. Perhaps such a person grew up in a single-parent family or, while young, lost someone very valuable. Therefore, it is very important for him to have a healthy family - at any cost, even using despoticism.
How to behave with Cancer - a domestic tyrant?
It is quite possible to dissuade and re-educate the domestic tyrants of Cancer if you make them understand that everything you do is absolutely safe for the family and its integrity. Here you need to learn to talk. Of course, if the situation has gone too far, it will be very difficult to force the tyrant Cancer to lead adequately. However, you must do everything to make him trust you. Only trust and honest communication can turn a husband who belongs to the most oppressive signs of the Zodiac into a normal person. You must eradicate his fear of loss and replace it with feelings of security, peace of mind and confidence in the future.
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