How to make a wish for the New Year: only proven methods

Secrets of correct formulations

New Year's Eve is not just a date on the calendar and not an ordinary holiday. This is a time filled with a huge amount of energy that you can use to fulfill your desires. It's a shame to miss such a moment, isn't it?

There are certain rules that are important to follow in order for your wishes to come true. And the most important thing is to use competent and correct wording. What is important:

All wishes must be made only in a positive way, without denials and negative formulations. Don't use the particle "not". Instead of “I don’t want to get sick,” formulate “I want to be healthy.”
Keep your focus on what you want to get, not on what you want to get rid of. Example: “I want to get rid of excess weight” is wrong; with this wording, you can, on the contrary, attract a couple more kilograms. But “I want to be healthy in a beautiful and slender body, weighing N kilograms” is already the correct formulation.
Your desire should be as clear, specific, and measurable as possible. “I want to be rich” is the wrong wording. But “I want an income of 300,000 rubles a month” - great.
Do not forget to determine the deadline for fulfilling your desire. It shouldn't be too close so that you can "let go" of your dream and not get hung up on it. A dream that has a clear deadline is already a goal, and the Universe will give you maximum opportunities so that you can achieve this goal.
It is advisable to describe in the wording your state that you will experience after the wish is fulfilled. For example, if you want a happy relationship, then try to imagine how it would feel. “03/26/1019 I am walking with my man in the park, holding hands. Passers-by look at us and are touched. I feel tenderness and see how he looks at me with loving eyes.” The more detailed you describe your state “in the moment,” the better.
And, most importantly, make wishes only for yourself. They should not touch other people. “I want my mother to be healthy” - such a formulation is useless. Moreover, by making such wishes, you interfere with the intention of another person. Therefore, the maximum you can formulate is: “I want to be the daughter of a healthy woman.”

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Try to write down 10 of your desires and formulate them according to the rules that I described. And then read on.

How to voice your dream on New Year's Eve

The key to a fulfilled desire is the correct wording. Follow the recommendations:

make a wish in the present tense, not in the past. “I want me to be happy” is a bad option;
do not use “not”, denial, phrases “at any cost, nosebleed”;
do not order higher powers;
add the phrase “I achieve this quickly and easily”, “this benefits my family.” So protect yourself from negative consequences;
have a clear vision of your dream;
do not demand the impossible;
do not wish harm or losses to other people;
Don't use the phrase "at least." For example: “At least a little money.” Make a tiny profit; the higher powers will not appreciate modesty;
do not use names in requests (for example: I want to marry Peter. The wording will not work).

Why don't wishes come true?

It also happens: a person has formulated everything correctly, made effective techniques for fulfilling desires, but for some reason he just can’t get them in real life. For what reasons does this happen?

They are as follows:

You make not your true wishes, but those that are imposed on you by society and your environment. Or these are the goals of your mother, partner, employer. But not yours at all. Think, maybe it’s not you who want a promotion? And your mother. Or society promotes being successful and you want to fit in. In fact, you may wish not to work at all, for example.
Your energy levels are low. Energy is the engine that drives external intention. If it is not there, then there can be no talk of quick fulfillment of desires. Therefore, the energy level must be constantly raised.
You are focusing on what you want to get rid of, rather than what you want to get. For example, if you wish to get rid of debts and loans, you will further aggravate the situation. And you need to think about financial freedom, major purchases, the life of your dreams - abundant and fulfilling.

And it is very important to check how united your soul and mind are in the desire to get what you want. To do this, I suggest you do one very simple exercise.

Imagine that tomorrow you will have the opportunity to fulfill your dream. All that remains is to get up from the couch and take what you want. For example, if you want to travel, you can pack your bags and buy a plane ticket tomorrow. If you want a relationship, then you will meet the man of your dreams, and all you have to do is say “I do” at the altar.

Feel it and carefully monitor your inner sensations. Is there 100% readiness? Do you feel complete comfort and confidence? Or there are some doubts, fears, a lot of “excuses” arise in your head.

In the second case, you are not yet ready to accept your dream and make it come true.

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What wishes should you make for the New Year?

I think everyone makes wishes for the New Year: someone voices it, and someone is silent out of superstitious fear that it won’t come true. New Year is the beginning of a new period, it is like Monday, from which many people want to start a new life, or like the 1st of a new month, or a birthday. The New Year is a starting point, because you have to count from somewhere.

But do you think about WHAT you want? And why? Why even ask such questions?

I answer: what you want and how you want it has a direct bearing on whether you get it or not. Here we, of course, believe that what you want is not just “to make a wish for something and suddenly it will work out,” but if you are at least somewhat interested in what you want and REALLY want it to come into your life.

Some especially gullible people sometimes suffer from superstition associated with champagne and wishes written down on a piece of paper. They suffer - because, if you haven’t heard about it yet, a piece of paper with a wish is supposed to be burned during the chime of the Kremlin chimes and the ashes are washed down with champagne. Yes, it's creepy. Brrr... Ash, or rather burnt paper, sticks to the tongue, gets stuck in the throat, black coals settle on the teeth, lips... Oh, how nice it is to then kiss loved ones with bits of paper in the mouth!.. I remembered my experience, once I succumbed to this profanation.

No matter how tempting the method of eating a wish to make it come true may be, it does not work. (I apologize in advance to those who have eaten “desired ashes” for many years in a row.) To make your cherished wishes come true in the New Year, follow a practical path, be realistic.

1. Determine your deepest and priority desires. In general, these are two different subparagraphs. There are cherished desires, things that you really want and have been wanting for a long time, and there are desires that you can’t wait to realize and you can’t wait any longer. Combine these 2 groups, leave the current desires to which your heart lies.

2. Translate desires into goals. How is one different from the other? Desires are abstract, although they can relate to specific things, goals are specific in any case: they are measurable, they have deadlines and criteria for achievement. If you want a salary increase in the new year, determine to what extent and in what form you want to receive it. This may not be money, but social or medical insurance, payment of some of your personal expenses, etc. If you want to improve relationships with loved ones, determine with whom exactly, how (to what extent) you want to establish them, put criteria for a good relationship (that is, by what signs will you understand that you have achieved what you want), the deadline will also be useful.

3. As the chimes strike, voice/say to yourself your goals and commit to doing everything possible to achieve your goals. Speaking about realism, which we mentioned above: it means that your goals are realistically achievable under the given conditions within the specified time frame.

4. Become a “realizer of your dreams.” Become a magician in your life. The Lord has no other hands than ours... Have you thought about how desires come true? If you want something, go and get it.

Here's a simple plan.

Welcoming 2008, I made a wish to restore my vision (I had severe myopia since school) and finish my first fiction book. And here are the results, because the end of the year is also a time to take stock: I organized a course on vision restoration myself to study in a group, and began to improve my vision. The first goal has not been fully realized, but a start has been made. The second goal with the book was also half achieved: I finished the book, but was slow with the editorial changes, as a result I contacted the publishing house late - now I’ll wait for news in the new year 2009.

What conclusions did I draw? It’s good that I set specific goals, but I didn’t set the deadlines well - as a result, my vision began to “sway” in May, and I only started studying in October, and there were a lot of delays with the book. Therefore, friends, set specific goals and do everything in your power to get what you want.

And one last thing. Fifth.

5. Desire in addition. This, one might say, is a gift from Santa Claus: if you have set yourself one, two, three real goals and are going to work on them, then you are entitled to a bonus from the world - something nice for dessert.

After you have formulated your desires-goals as the chimes strike, add another desire, something you would really like, but which you cannot directly influence. If you work well in the New Year, then this dream wish of yours will come true. Tested in practice! On the eve of 2008, I decided to get married - to the man I dated that year. And what do you think? Came out. Look at the name...

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Methods and rituals

Well, now about the most interesting thing - rituals aimed at fulfilling desires. In fact, what is important is not how to make a wish, but everything that I described above. Then any action will work.

So, read and choose:

Write your wish on a piece of paper, and while the chimes are ringing, burn it, pour the ashes into a glass and drink the champagne to the bottom.
When preparing holiday dishes, keep your focus on your desire. Think about it as if it has already come true. And don’t forget to try everything you prepared later. The food will already be “charged” with your energy, and all you have to do is wait for your dreams to come true.
Write a letter to Santa Claus. Who said that only children can do this? Describe what you want as emotionally as possible, with feeling. Thank the good wizard for what he has already accomplished. Tie a piece of paper with wishes to a balloon and send it into the sky.
Buy a beautiful postcard and write all your wishes in it. Put it in a secluded place and read it next year, 12 months later. At the same time, check how many list items have been implemented.
Make a wish card. But it’s better to compile it not on the traditional Russian New Year, but on the Chinese New Year, which begins on February 5th. Then the likelihood of all your dreams coming true will be much higher.

To summarize:

Correct formulation is the key to success.
Mark the lines and feel the state when your dream has come true.
Check whether your wish may not come true using the list from the second section of the article.
Choose any ritual you like and get ready for magic on New Year's Eve.

The best way to make a wish on a piece of paper

This is the ritual that has remained popular for many years. You need to prepare in advance a pencil or pen, a candle of the color that best matches the content of the wish, and a piece of paper. As soon as the chimes start striking, you need to quickly write a wish, set the paper on fire and hold it over a glass of champagne. The ashes should fall into the sparkling wine. Champagne must be drunk before the chimes stop striking.

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