What can make a man confess his love: revelations of the stronger sex

The young people have been dating for quite a long time, they sympathize with each other, but the girl just can’t wait for that important moment when her chosen one confesses his feelings to her. Of course, any representative of the fair sex would like to hear such a confession from her boyfriend. There are already few hints that he is not indifferent and fortune telling about his beloved. The girl is simply perplexed why the young man does not say that he loves her. What should she do to get the guy to open up to her?

The most important thing: if a young man stubbornly does not admit his own feelings, the girl should not be persistent. Such behavior will only push a man away. First, the lady must be patient; she should not rush her beloved. In fact, it is not these cherished words that are most important, but the feelings that a person experiences and expresses.

Confession of feelings must be from the heart, so a girl cannot do without some effort. She must show the guy that she truly cares about him, supports him if necessary - she must show her feelings sincerely. But it’s worth remembering: you can’t become just a friend for a young man; a girl should always remain sensual and desirable. Spontaneity and some mystery often become the impetus for the chosen one to want to confess his love.

Many representatives of the stronger sex are afraid of declarations of love, because they believe that this step is quite serious, it can be compared to a marriage proposal. Therefore, from the consciousness of a young man it is necessary to displace the idea that immediately after confessing his tender feelings he will need to go to the registry office and submit an application. The girl must demonstrate with all her appearance that she does not at all claim the freedom of her chosen one, she completely trusts him. Then the young man confesses his feelings sincerely, and not just because it’s supposed to be so.

If a girl is strong and brave, she can be the first to start talking about her own feelings and spiritual impulses, then the young man will understand that if he confesses his love to her, he will not receive a cold reaction in return. If this step is quite difficult for a representative of the fair sex, she can send her chosen one a romantic SMS or email in which she will tell about her attitude towards her lover. But you don’t need to demand an urgent answer from your boyfriend; it’s important to give him time to weigh everything, think it over and make his own decision.

Why doesn't a guy confess his love?

In fact, there may be several reasons, ranging from the banal fear of rejection and indecision, to the lack of serious feelings and intentions. Why is your boyfriend still silent about his feelings? Maybe he just doesn’t like to talk about it, but tries to prove his attitude towards you with beautiful actions and attitude. Usually such young people are very secretive and it is quite difficult for them to confess their love. They would rather try with all their might to prove their love to you in practice, but it’s hard for them to say the cherished words. What to do in this case? Wait, show your tenderness more often, try to show him that words mean as much to you as actions, and you want to hear these words from him. And, of course, be patient. Your prince's heart will definitely thaw over time.

The second situation is when a guy doesn’t talk about love simply because he’s not sure of his feelings and perhaps he just likes you, but it still hasn’t come to the point of love. Of course, we hope that this is not your case at all. Whether you stay with such a person and wait for him to sort out his feelings or not is up to you. But you still need to check how he treats you. Try to talk to him about love, confess first and watch the guy’s reaction. If he looks away in embarrassment, then most likely he is simply shy and therefore remains silent about his feelings. If a young man does not particularly react to your words and continues to go about his business without even changing his face, then most likely he just likes you and is not thinking about anything serious yet. Waiting for a declaration of love in this case is pointless, at least in the near future.

Conspiracy to make a guy confess his love

A safe, but very powerful ritual will help you hear long-awaited words of love from someone dear to your heart. You need to take your photo and your chosen one, a bottle of holy water, red and black thread. Place the photographs together, tie them crosswise with black and red threads, and tie them in a single knot. After this, read a strong plot to make a guy confess his love:

“Hetro, the unstoppable hurricane sent to refute the present in the name of the future! I invoke your Great Power by the law of eternal Unity. Turn into a fiery wind for those who harm (name) - sweep away and destroy - all evil, black - will, desire and actions that are directed at (name) - Return to the source! Burn - leaving no life! By the power of Abraz - so be it!!!"

A strong love spell is repeated three times, after which you need to sprinkle holy water on the cross of the threads. This ritual guarantees you a quick result: your loved one will open his heart and be devoted to you with soul and body. White magic will connect the feminine and masculine principles without “side effects”, reliably, firmly and indestructibly.

How to push a guy to confess his love

To begin with, forget about the word “force”. You can't force anyone, especially a guy. And you don’t need this, you want sincere recognition, and not forced and squeezed out through force. But you can still gently push a guy to confess his love, especially if you are already tired of waiting.

1. Recognition in response to recognition. The easiest way. Confess your love to the guy yourself and look expectantly into his eyes. You can ask him if he wants to tell you something too. Usually guys realize that this is one of the best moments to confess their love and finally do it.

2. Set up a game. Invite your friends and have a game of forfeits for wishes. When it’s your loved one’s turn, say that your desire is for him to confess his love to you.

3. Take the initiative, show that you sincerely love your boyfriend, do not hesitate to express your feelings. Perhaps the guy doesn’t confess his love because he’s afraid of being rejected or you’re being too cold towards him. Show him that you really need him and you truly love him. Most likely, he will answer you in kind.

4. Turn on indifference. The method is the opposite of the previous one. If you constantly express your feelings, are always gentle with him, and always confess your love to him, and the answer is silence, then try changing tactics. Become more indifferent for a while, stop constantly telling him about love, mind your own business and temporarily push your feelings into the background. This course of events will surprise the guy and perhaps make him reconsider his attitude towards you and understand how dear you are to him. When he asks you what is the reason for such changes, simply tell him that you do not feel enough love and warmth from him. Explain to him that you are a girl and it is important for you to feel loved and needed. This will make him think.

5. Have a romantic evening. Perhaps you simply lack romance, and the right moment for such a touching confession has not yet occurred. Well, you'll have to take the initiative into your own hands. Arrange a romantic evening, invite him to talk about your acquaintance, about feelings, about the future. Hint to the guy that the time has come for declarations of love.

It is unknown which method will help you push your boyfriend to confess, because all people are different. But since it won’t be possible to force a guy to confess his love, be patient and don’t be upset if you didn’t manage to hear these cherished words from him the first time. Be patient, because if he truly loves you, he will still say so sooner or later.

The article was prepared by Kristina Semenova.

How to attract men. 50 rules of a confident woman Sergeeva Oksana Mikhailovna

Rule No. 38. Help a man reveal his feelings

Many girls are interested in how to get recognition from a man? What needs to be done to make him talk about love? Do not seek a declaration of love, but create the necessary conditions for the man to reveal his feelings. Here we will talk about how not to act and what common mistakes girls make when they are desperate to hear words of love from their chosen one.

Some girls, in order to achieve recognition, try to pity a man: “Oh, I love you so much, but you don’t love me at all. I'm so unhappy." Believing that all methods are good in love, they begin to cry and become despondent. Sometimes girls use the “offense” technique: they become sad and pout to show how upset they are by the lack of attention. Now, if they were told how much they were loved, they would forgive everything in the world and would not be offended anymore.

A man, observing what is happening, can say the desired words. But the question is: how sincere is this recognition? How much of it was done in good faith? Do not try to manipulate a man and play on his feelings. This will not lead to anything good.

Another common mistake is to insist on the need for feedback and feedback. “I’m telling you about my love - and you do the same.” It won't work.

Well, a completely ridiculous way to provoke a man to make a confession is to leave, slamming the door. This, by the way, is one of the most common methods that girls resort to with the hope that they will be returned and said those very long-awaited words. It is quite possible that this will happen. However, a confession obtained in this way will turn out to be implausible and insincere. So think before you take such a step. Don't provoke a man. After all, he may not return you.

There is another common way of “fishing out” recognition. A woman tries to please a man in bed, and then asks about his feelings. Of course, sex is an important component of a relationship. However, if you want to hear the true voice of your lover’s heart, then you should not mix sexual pleasures and expression of feelings.

What to do if a man is dumb as a fish? Do not provoke or irritate a man with requests. Your task is to gently and unobtrusively win over recognition. First of all, you yourself must be honest and frank with him. Confess your love only if you are sure of your feelings. If you are doing this only to gain his recognition or to bring him into a frank conversation, then this is the wrong path.

It happens that a man simply cannot say about his feelings because he does not find the right moment. Routine and everyday life are not conducive to expressing feelings. Why express them if everything is going as usual? Create such a moment, add new impressions, do something unusual and unexpected.

It happens that a man needs distance in order to understand himself and his feelings. You can go somewhere for a while in order to give him the opportunity to think, reflect on what your relationship is for him and how much he values it.

From the book Remedy for Fatigue by the author From the book Laws of Eminent People by Roman Kalugin

You are responsible for your feelings Is it possible to find peace in our rapidly changing world, full of pleasures and pains, obstacles and temptations? “Nothing can bring you peace except yourself” (R. Emerson). Peace of mind does not depend on where you live and even with

From the book Myths and Dead Ends of Pop Psychology the author Stepanov Sergey Sergeevich

Myth 2. Holding back your feelings is wrong and harmful. Driven into the depths of the soul, they lead to emotional overstrain, fraught with breakdown. Therefore, any feelings, both positive and negative, must be openly expressed. If you express your frustration or anger

From the book How to Avoid Cheating. 50 simple rules author Korchagina Irina

Rule 26 Find a middle ground by giving a man freedom Let's continue the topic of personal space. We talked about how the phone relates to it, and if a woman wants to control its contents, then she should think carefully about this. To the personal

From the book How to make a man earn money. 50 simple rules author Korchagina Irina

Rule 19 Help him understand himself. Who knows, maybe a woman’s highest purpose is to help a man with this. How the Muses helped poets. There is something so mysterious about a woman that allows her to be a Great Inspirer. I don't want to figure it out

From the book How to Beat Stress and Depression by Matthew McKay

Step #5: Reevaluate Your Feelings Now it's time to figure out what you've achieved through the work you've done. In the Thought Journal from Chapter 2, you, among other things, identified your painful feelings and rated their intensity on a scale from 0 to 100. Now you should

From the book 7 unique recipes to defeat fatigue author Kurpatov Andrey Vladimirovich

How to control your thoughts and feelings? The appearance of “sore points,” of course, would be good to control. But how to do that? The whole secret here lies in the system of subordination. It is important who obeys whom - you to your thoughts and feelings or your thoughts and feelings to you. Question

From the book The Psychology of Achievement [How to Achieve Your Goals] by Halvorson Heidi Grant

When you need to unleash your creativity What types of goals are best when you need inspiration to brainstorm, come up with fresh ideas, think outside the box? It should come as no surprise that a promotion-oriented goal can

From the book How to Attract Men. 50 rules of a confident woman author Sergeeva Oksana Mikhailovna

Rule No. 14. Compliment your man. Why not? Do not think that compliments are pleasant only to the fair sex. This is wrong. Men are also partial to praise and kind words. However, a compliment to a man is based on a different principle. We say it

From the book Why We Make Mistakes. Thinking Traps in Action by Hallinan Joseph

How We Predict Our (and Others') Feelings “It seems like everyone should feel happier in California, right?” – asks David Shkade, who himself recently moved to the “golden state” from his native Texas; he is now a professor at the University of California

From the book What Men Want and How to Give It to Them by Yulia Shchedrova

Rule 16 Do the man a favor! It is not necessary to be helpless in all cases in life, sometimes it makes sense to take care of a man yourself. Svetlana told us her story. Story No. 1 She was introduced to her future boyfriend by mutual friends, but both were dating other people then...

From the book Angels Among Us by Virce Dorin

Express Your Feelings Honestly Once your consciousness returns to your body, it will be easier for you to get in touch with what you are truly in touch with emotionally and physically. This allows you to pay attention to your reactions to others. You will notice, for example, that in

From the book Positive Psychology. What makes us happy, optimistic and motivated by Style Charlotte

How to Capture Your Feelings In any situation, you can pause and examine your emotions. You can, for example, stop and count to ten - this is a great opportunity to pay attention to your feelings or the emotions of another person. Catch your emotions before

From the book Quick Decisions Don't Lead to Success [Understand What Your Brain Wants and Do the Opposite] by Salvo David Dee

Can I predict my feelings? “If I were in that situation, I would...” It's a tired old saying, but we've all said it more than once in one situation or another. And we really mean it: we are convinced that in exactly the same situation we would act

From the book 90 days on the path to happiness author Vasyukova Yulia

Day 54. Analyzing my feelings. Positive Feelings Morning PagesRefer to chapter nine of the course to begin exploring your emotional state and answer the questions: – How do I generally feel during the day? – How long do they last?

Romantic dinner

Before dropping hints, ask him for a romantic dinner.

Tell him that you really miss romance, the feeling that you are special to him. When you sit in a cozy cafe or restaurant, or maybe outdoors or at home, tell him that he means a lot to you. If you don’t hear something like that in response, it means it’s too early.

If you are sure that a guy has feelings for you, but persistently does not talk about it, he simply does not have enough confidence in your own devotion for this. After all, men are very vulnerable, they are afraid of being a laughing stock in the eyes of their loved one.

Therefore,
your frankness and reverent attitude towards him can make him open his heart
. Just wait a little and show with all your appearance that you really appreciate everything he does for you.

Men themselves don’t like to talk about love and don’t know how, so it’s not surprising that one of the most common questions from a woman is: “Do you love me?”

The difference in the ease with which a man and a woman pronounce declarations of love is determined not only socially, but also physiologically. In men, in principle, the need to speak is weakly expressed. Among them there are not as many linguistically gifted people as among women. And although women are better at translating thoughts and images into words, there are fewer of them among writers and poets only because historically women's writing has not been encouraged. While dealing with the three “Cs” - the kitchen, kinders and bed - the woman tried not to go against public opinion and if she wrote, she wrote on the table. There are many cases in the history of literature when the manuscripts of a great writer or scientist were corrected and completed by his woman, secretary or housekeeper.

The male brain for the most part is designed in such a way that the connection between the hemispheres is much less developed than in women. A special “jumper” between them, called the corpus callosum, is responsible for transmitting signals between the hemispheres. In women, this jumper is more massive and has more developed nerve pathways. This is why a woman can constantly chatter about what she sees and feels. It is more difficult for a man to do this. For him, a situation like “I feel something, but I don’t know how to say or express it in words” is completely typical. So most of them do not know how to talk about love in a complex and ornate way due to physiological limitations in the functioning of the brain.

A person's speech ability usually depends on the type of dominance of the cerebral hemispheres. In women, the left hemisphere is often dominant, which is responsible for the ability to speak. Men are better oriented in space, understand mathematics and physics, and can build complex spatial architectural models in their minds. They achieve all this thanks to the dominance of the right hemisphere. It is estimated that a woman wants to say 7,000 words a day. For men, the daily speaking limit is 2000 words. If they have to talk more, they become stressed and panic. Women, on the contrary, become nervous and irritable if their need to talk is not fulfilled. Typically, psychologists recommend that women not bother their husbands unnecessarily, but rather spend the steam of unspent desires in conversations with female friends. Nowadays, various blogs and communities also contribute well to this.

So, what should you do to make him confess his love? First, be patient. If your loved one is not Cicero in terms of oratory skills, give him the opportunity to formulate feelings in the words that he finds for each situation. Secondly, if you are just burning with impatience, wait until the moment when the most enchanting sex happens in your relationship. In men, the areas of the brain responsible for love have not been found at all. So when he says “I love”, the areas of the brain responsible for sex are activated at this time. Women have two different areas of the brain for this, and there are quite strong neural connections between them. Moreover, experiments in the field of brain research have shown that in many women the area of the brain responsible for the desire for sex is not activated until the love area is activated. A woman first falls in love, then begins to really want a man. A man can live for years with a woman with whom he has great sex, and he doesn’t always even want to experience the feeling of love. And if you put pressure on him and ask him every day if he loves you, he will most likely say words of love at the moment of a testosterone explosion. That is, this is that short period of time between the moment when he begins to want you and the moment when this desire has already resulted in an erection.

It turns out that there is one answer to the question of what to do to make him confess his love, but from a woman’s point of view it is quite cynical. You need to seduce a man, warm him up to the point where he is almost ready for sex, and then provoke him into declarations of love. Dynamic women are very good at using this feature of the male perception of love. You've probably met at least one lady in your life who inflames an unlucky admirer to an incredible desire for sex, flirts with him, flirts with him. And when it comes down to it, she backs down. But a man is ready to lavish praises, confessions and gifts on such a lady, not noticing that everyone around her considers her an ordinary bitch.

So what happens that men don’t want to confess their love at all? Of course, none of this is true. The difficulties described above indicate why it is more difficult for them than women to talk about their feelings. But this doesn’t mean that they don’t talk about them. A woman just shouldn’t be upset if she can’t get him to confess his love. You need to focus on your feminine intuition, and if she says that in reality he loves you, it doesn’t matter what he says in words.

Let's talk about the real effectiveness of love spells, about how, by reading the text of a white magic spell, you can bewitch a guy yourself. In the arsenal of Russian white magic, not only love rituals performed through Christian Forces, there is a huge layer of ancient conspiracies with appeal to nature, its phenomena and powerful life-giving force.

There are completely different independent conspiracies, both for the love of someone you like, and for attracting the love of guys in general - for beauty, attractiveness and charm. There are real conspiracies in every magical tradition, and, undoubtedly, they bring positivity and fulfillment of desire to the performer.

If you already have a beloved man, but he doubts his feelings and the relationship is not developing in any way, he can be pushed by the power of love witchcraft. I, the magician Sergei Artgrom, will give examples of such a strong love spell for a guy’s love.

Ultimatum

This measure is very radical, but still in some cases it can help you

.
Give your significant other an ultimatum: either the guy confesses his love to you, or you break up with him
. I repeat that this method of extracting a declaration of love is radical, and therefore think ten times before using it. If the guy chooses the second option (breaking up), then you can safely let him go, because he clearly made it known that he does not love you.