How to attract a guy (man) with a simple look?
- Hold your gaze on the man you like for more than three seconds
This is necessary to enter his “secret zone” with your eyes. The man will feel a slight “chill” throughout his body and get to know you.
Don’t be surprised: he will say that it was he who took the first step, and that it was he who “hooked” you. Agree with this statement, smiling broadly, expecting a smile in return. If you don’t wait, then don’t retreat!
Make sure that your gazes (when they meet) are strictly at the same level. Try to “adjust” this yourself, because a man will not think and reflect on such trifles as the nuances of views. Don’t drop your gaze at his feet, otherwise he will understand this “throw” of yours completely wrong!
- Do not allow the slightest bitchiness in your gaze!
Tenderness - Yes! Bitchiness – categorical…. No! It is men who are accustomed to undressing women with their eyes. And when a woman looks at him in the same way, the man begins to become wildly embarrassed and indignant (albeit mentally). You will not attract a man with such a look! With his help, you will make him run away, appearing to you as a real coward!
- Play hide and seek with your eyes!
He will look at you - you will look back, smiling. Turn away right now. When “turning away,” do not use harshness or confusion. You need to turn away mysteriously, beautifully and carefully. Your correct movements will help your gaze to attract the attention of someone you really, really need.
By the way, you should not laugh during this game. The man (noticing this) will think that you are just mocking him.
- Forget about shyness!
At least for as long as you attract the attention of a man or guy. If a boy (man) notices a bit of shyness in your gaze, consider that you have lost! He will look for another girl. And he will play with her. Because he doesn’t need shyness! Men already have enough of it (even without female “participation”). Shyness - away!
- Your look should consist of a “drink”!
Its components: warmth, sensuality, femininity, sincerity, poignancy, passion, affection, promises, flirtation, tenderness. Mix these “components” correctly so that the guy is sure to end up in your “safe” captivity. A guy will be next to you if he tries a mixture of these ingredients!
Leave the sharpness
Guys do not accept her either in conversation, or in actions, or in emotionality. And even more so in the looks! Relax, dear “hunters”! If you want to win this or that young man! Can't handle the harshness? Then “lower” its level a little so as not to scare the poor thing! He will still get it from you (in a good way, of course)….
Mascara and eye shadow
Need to buy mascara and eye shadow! Make up your eyes well and carefully before you start attracting the attention of a guy or man.
How to attract a man during communication
Communication plays a big role in establishing contact.
This is the second factor after appearance that men pay attention to.
But in terms of impact it is the first. The outcome of the meeting may depend on the correctness of the conversation started. However, one successful acquaintance is not enough. The importance of communication skills cannot be overestimated. Failure to carry on a conversation can ruin a relationship. Read more: Resentment is
When you first meet a girl, you need to have time to show her education, culture and humor. Humor should probably come first. Nothing is more valued in communication between people than the ability to joke and understand jokes. A girl with humor is a godsend for a man. It's always fun with such a companion. Therefore, the first reaction when communicating should be with elements of a joke. It doesn't matter who initiates the dialogue. The girl who is the first to start a cheerful dialogue always looks advantageous in the eyes of a man. Often young men themselves do not dare to be the first to speak, so such a girl saves them with her perkiness.
In the first dialogue there should be some intrigue, reticence, hint. The young man should be puzzled and pleasantly surprised. Wanting to get answers to his questions, he himself will ask for a new meeting. By skillfully intriguing, you can maintain high interest in yourself.
When the first date is set, it's time for long dialogues. And here it is important not so much to continue to arouse interest in oneself, but to listen. All people love to be listened to. And men especially. This way they can brag about their achievements. A companion who listens attentively flatters their pride. But silence alone is not enough. It is necessary to confirm that the dialogue is not one-sided. You need to ask questions about the topic, clarify and respond to the emotions of the narrator. When your interlocutor has finished talking, you can talk about yourself, your plans, your merits.
But there is no need to get carried away with self-praise. Firstly, there is no need to post everything about yourself at once. The conversation should be light and relaxed. This is not an exchange of autobiographies. Secondly, a girl’s successes should not seem brighter than boys’. Otherwise, it will be very difficult to become attractive in the eyes of a guy. Guys are sensitive to female victories.
How to effectively attract the attention of a male friend with your gaze?
- Meet a man by choosing a great and pleasant place to meet. It is best to choose your favorite place (that is, both yours and his).
- Talk a little on abstract topics. Up to the topic of the weather or traffic incidents.
- Look at him with a “non-intense” gaze (to just look, without pursuing a single goal).
Analyze and act
Start catching looks. Take action and watch the man’s (or boy’s) reaction.
Here are the actions you need to take:
- Ask for a “hot” compliment
When he decides to say it, wait for that “spark.”
— Ask a man to name his favorite drink
To do this, offer several options to choose from (kefir, whiskey, water). He will give you some immediate answer, which may (ninety-nine percent) turn out to be untrue. Ask another simple question: “do you always say this when you lie?” This question will attract the guy's attention because he (at that very moment) notices your gaze.
- Say just one phrase: “look into my eyes, please!”
The young man will definitely do it. Wink at him and smile as if you see the sun in the window.
What it is strongly recommended not to talk about on a first date
There is no need to start getting acquainted with personal problems. Even if a girl is going through a very difficult period, now is not the time to talk about it. The first impression can be spoiled by unpleasant conversations about sad events. The guy may think that his new acquaintance is a problematic and dysfunctional person. Later, when an opinion is formed and closer contact is established, a confidential conversation will not play such a fatal role.
You cannot ask a man about his income, property and bank accounts. Such questions may make him suspect selfish interest on the part of the lady. Men avoid such women in every possible way.
There is no need to share with a new acquaintance the dream of seven children and the role of a housewife. This can frighten the young man. On the first date, he dreams of an interesting girlfriend, and not of a big family. In addition, he may think that the girl urgently needs to get married. It doesn't matter who. After all, her goal is family and children, not a man.
Read more: Personal space
Don’t rush to tell your man about your passion for vegetarianism and diets. He may think that the woman is sick or prone to obesity. In addition, men love to eat well. Psychologists also say that men associate a woman's appetite with her sexuality. It's better to talk about your limitations later. In any case, you need to get ready to fry juicy pork cutlets.
A girl does not need to be told that she is not interested in sex. Trying to present herself as a decent lady in the eyes of a man, she can greatly upset him. After all, sex always comes first for a man. And the prospect of living with a partner who is indifferent to sex does not seem joyful to him.
How to attract a guy's attention (male gaze)
This article will discuss meeting and attracting a guy from a girl.
We will also touch upon some recommendations for girls, which are usually given in women's magazines and similar literature, and are also often given by some girls to others. With all this, someone will be more interested in the male view of attracting a guy’s attention, due to the fact that it is less common and is often aimed at the opposite situation. Let's start with an introduction and take standard advice that is usually used in this situation. Tip 1. “A girl should not approach herself, but she can attract attention in any way available to her, this could be a long look, coughing, gestures, creating a random situation or other Hidden sexual signals
" In most cases, this, unfortunately, does not work (due to the guys’ stiffness) or it works, but poorly and often not the way you wanted. Imagine a tennis or football match or maybe even a chess game. So, a man’s approach to a girl often resembles the beginning of such a match, without the participation of an opponent, i.e. there is only one player on the field, or one team, which is trying to immediately rush to the goal and score a goal or arrange the chess pieces in the way it needs. Naturally, when a girl gets involved in the game, she often builds her position from defense, trying to direct the game in the direction she wants.
Therefore, for a successful acquaintance, a girl can approach a guy. There are the following options: come up and ask how to get to the library or other place, questions about time, ask for matches, a cigarette, and the like. All this is good, but such approaches usually end with monosyllabic answers and at this point the conversation is interrupted. The question should be such that from it the guy could be turned into the channel of a good conversation.
Tip 2. There are guys who say that a girl shouldn’t approach a guy, and in general it’s wrong when a girl takes the initiative - run away from them. Their head is completely filled with templates, stereotypes and serial morality, and in life such guys turn out to be boring - home-work, work-home, rest on holidays, and, as a rule, never get out of ordinary life.
Tip 3. It should be said about a long look. Girls! don’t be afraid to look carefully and for a long time at the guy you like. You yourself like it, except in rare cases when guys look at you, the opposite is also true. The more you pay attention to a guy in this way, the more likely he is to come over and try to get to know you.
Now some of my personal advice The greatest bonuses go to those who are not afraid to come up and get to know each other. And if your appearance is not very good at the moment, you can compensate for this with initiative on your part. In my practice, 99% of the initiative was taken by myself. Let me tell you right away - it is extremely tiring when, without your movement and decisions, not a single process in dating occurs.
Naturally, in such cases, you give more preference to girls who willingly agree to your conditions than to those who immediately put forward their own, although some time ago there was no initiative on that side.
So, what kind of girls attract guys?
at the dating stage, proactive and easy to compromise, if you show initiative, then you can put forward your own conditions for further communication, if you compromise, then in the future you can easily demand this from the guy.
Okay, let’s say that approaching a guy is not acceptable for you in the current situation, how can you make him come over or pay attention to you? This is usually achieved during the preparatory work phase. What could it be? Working with appearance. Working with attention. Working directly with communication skills.
If you want a smart, strong, brave, independent guy, be worthy of him. Know how to carry on a conversation on any topic, know how to complement your partner favorably in terms of appearance. Know how to attract him to you again and again.
If you overprice yourself, there is a significant risk of being left with nothing, because no one wants to waste a lot of resources. Encourage people who want to communicate with you or show attention in some way, with the exception of boors and rednecks.
