Each man is special in his own way, each has his own hobbies and preferences in various areas, including sexual relations. Some men rule and dominate, while others prefer to create a romantic atmosphere and only then get down to business, without rushing anywhere. Despite this, women like both one and the other type of behavior from men. Meanwhile, psychologists have found that the position that a man uses more often during adult relationships can indicate the qualities of his character. Behavior in love relationships is also influenced by a man’s type of activity and hobbies, the so-called hobby.
Bridge
The girl stands on the bridge, spreading her legs wide. The guy is positioned between her thighs.
I sincerely don’t understand what girls find in this position, but guys just get balls in their rollers at the thought that their passions will curl into an intricate pretzel during sex. The position is not as difficult as it seems (if you have a good stretch, of course). However, all her thoughts are occupied with balance, because the man constantly rocks his partner. For greater stability, ask your partner to hold you by the waist and do not rise on your tiptoes too often, otherwise you will quickly get tired.
Rainbow of Wishes
The partner lies on his side between the girl’s thighs. The partner lies on her back, making a half turn towards her partner and throwing one leg over his buttocks.
It seems like a simple position, but in reality it is not. Lying in this position for a long time is not particularly comfortable: your back gets stiff, your leg hurts. However, this option will be an excellent addition to “spoons” for lovers of morning sex. An unusually sensual position allows a man to caress his beloved. The main thing is not to do this for too long.
Execution options
The erotic position on the side, when the woman is facing her partner, has few variations when compared to the position when a man hugs a woman lying on her side from behind. One of the variants of this position is when a man slightly lifts a woman behind her back. This way the man can help the girl move at the right rhythm. In order for lovemaking to bring pleasure in this position, and not be focused on how to get comfortable, you don’t need to try to throw your leg over your partner. It is considered more comfortable when the woman’s legs are between her partner’s legs. Or, the woman should lie as high as possible to achieve stronger penetration.
Treatment option
The partners repeat the previous position, but the girl bends her knees slightly, throwing her legs over her partner’s shoulders.
If position #5 is too difficult for you, you can prepare for it by occasionally having sex in a more simplified position. Thanks to the bending of the knees, there is no strong tension in the muscles. Because the man moves, transferring his weight to his partner’s body, this helps to quickly improve her stretching.
The pose, when the girl’s leg lies on her partner’s shoulder, is applicable for some inflammatory processes, for example, for painful sensations in the ovaries. A woman should raise her right leg if she has pain on the left, and vice versa. The tension is transferred from the painful side, making the discomfort less noticeable. Of course, you shouldn’t let any disease progress and put off visiting a doctor.
Why men love the position from behind: 7 real experiences
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Sex is a delicate and individual matter. Everyone has the right to decide for themselves which pose they like and which is categorically unacceptable. Well, men decided that they were quite comfortable having sex in the spirit of animals, so they adopted the position from behind, which many women do not like. The debate around this position continues to this day, but in the meantime, we decided to find out what exactly attracts men in the rear position.
Experience of Kirill from Chernomorsk:
“What do I like about this “animal” pose? It’s elementary - I can completely control the process, I gain power over a woman and feel like a real male!” My girlfriend is not happy with the position from behind - she considers it humiliating, so I resort to the animal position when she has done something wrong. At the same time, I can take her by the hair, spank her butt and whisper all sorts of dirty vulgarities in her ear. What could be better?
Experience of Oleg from Volgograd:
“Both my wife and I like the rear position. Firstly, this position allows me to satisfy my other half 100%. Secondly, I can reach all the erogenous zones of my beloved, which will only enhance the excitement and effect. Thirdly, we can fully concentrate on sensations, especially when the room is dim. My wife doesn’t mind - and that’s the main thing, but for me it’s double pleasure.”
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Andrey's experience from Odessa:
“Like many men, I like to have complete power over a woman. This position allows you to dominate and dominate. But this is not the most important thing. The main thing is that my girlfriend and I can feel each other as much as possible. She feels deep penetration, and I enjoy her orgasm and see that she feels good with me. This increases our attraction to each other."
Gregory's experience from Astana:
“I love the pose from behind for several reasons. The first of which, this position is strategically convenient for a man, since it is the easiest way to switch from it to anal sex (unless, of course, the girl is against it, and even if she is against it, you can easily look like a fool and say that you accidentally missed the mark. There is, however, a scandal You won’t be able to avoid it, but you can satisfy your desire and sexual curiosity). In addition, the rear position is the least energy-consuming - you don’t have to strain and sweat, but at the same time you get amazing pleasure.”
Experience of Ivan from Blagoveshchensk:
“The posture used by animals is quite acceptable for humans, especially if you know how to use it correctly. My wife and I use the rear position when we have the opportunity to have sex in the most unexpected places. Not long ago, we resorted to this pose when we were stuck in an elevator. Very comfortable, unusual and sharp. And it suits the car very well. In addition, the rear position is ideal for the summer, when it’s hot, you sweat quickly, and with this position you don’t have to be in close contact with your partner’s body.”
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Experience of Valery from Arkhangelsk:
“Yes, our smaller brothers know a lot about cool sex positions. For example, I often use the rear position when the partner does not come out with her face for lovemaking. Rude - yes, cynical - I don’t think so! So what if you want to satisfy your sexual needs, you don’t have a permanent partner, and some crocodile agrees to sex? Naturally, I try to persuade her to an animal position, missing the point that I don’t want to look at her crooked face. Yes, that's how rude I am! During sex in the rear position, I can easily imagine a really nice person and get maximum pleasure.”
Experience of Artem from Nikolaev:
“I just love the rear position, but due to the impressive size of my penis, my girlfriend and I rarely resort to it. But sometimes she gives in to me, and I’m happy! Firstly, I really like the way Olesya arches her back; secondly, I can vary the pace and enter her as deeply as possible; thirdly, my hands are free, which allows me to caress my beloved wherever I want. My girlfriend especially likes it when I squeeze her breasts - and it pleases her, and I get excited to the limit.”
Birch tree with a slope
The girl does a “birch” with an inclination, lowering her legs at a right angle.
A difficult position to achieve, but worth it. Maintaining a stance while experiencing dizzying pleasure - oh, how difficult it is! In this position, it is much easier for a man to act, caressing a girl with his mouth, tongue and fingers. All important areas in front of him are in full view. The orgasm will also intensify due to the blood flow to the head.
If it’s completely unbearable, it’s better to ask the guy to sit up straight and move forward so that you can lean on his stomach and chest. Remember how we made a birch tree against the wall as children? There will be a guy in the role of “wall”. And to make it completely comfortable, it is better for a man to hug his girlfriend’s stomach with one hand - this will give greater stability.
Helicopter
Partners go down on all fours, facing in opposite directions (man on top). The partner enters, then lifts his legs, placing his weight on his hands.
Having learned about this pose, I showed illustrations of it to many shy friends, asking how... well, how is this possible?! They just shrugged their shoulders in bewilderment. One friend admitted that he had seen the position in an “adult” category film. Moreover, the actor also spun while doing so, moving with his hands (his whole body resembled a slowed-down propeller).
Probably, my partner’s feelings were simply enchanting. However, according to a friend, the actor was either tied to the ceiling with a transparent fishing line, or he had the ability to levitate. The pose is definitely exciting and suits our top. Perhaps acrobats really can do this, but I’m scared to try something like this... What if something breaks?
A man's favorite pose can speak volumes about his character.
So, if in his preferences:
"Man from behind" pose. This pose can characterize him as a confident man who likes to be in control. But at the same time, he can be too patronizing and self-confident. Due to the lack of eye contact, this pose also indicates a certain isolation and reluctance to show one’s feelings and emotions.
Woman on top pose. If this is his preferred position, then it indicates that he has a possible egoistic tendency. Or such a man may be too compliant and soft. Pose “on the side, face to face.” It can speak of his openness and the purest and most sincere intentions towards you. There is a possibility that he can be quite vulnerable, but at the same time quite gentle and romantic in bed.
Pose "on the side from behind." This preference indicates warm feelings towards you and the most trusting relationship. Such a man is self-confident, however, this is not excessive self-confidence. In life, he can be difficult to rise to or slightly passive.
Man on top or missionary position. Such a man is principled in everything. This also speaks of his sincerity and devotion. In life, he is your support, a stone wall and a vest in which you can cry, and you can confidently rely on him. There may be a tendency in his character not to show emotions and to be a little boring.
Amazon
The man lies on his back, spreads his legs and bends them at the knees. The girl sits on top.
The man will again have to show miracles of flexibility. Pros for a partner: deep penetration (if the partner lowers herself completely), a marvelous view of a woman’s breasts, swaying seductively right in front of his nose. Pros for the partner: 100% dominance, the ability to change the depth of entry at your discretion.
Winged cupid
Both partners sit facing each other (the girl on top). The partner throws her legs over the man's shoulders.
This pose may seem difficult for girls, but it's actually a challenge for guys (again). In this position, it is the man who is responsible for the movements: leaning on his palms and heels, he must rhythmically lift his buttocks with sharp jerks, as if trying to throw the girl on top of him. Only physically strong guys can do this. It will be most comfortable if the girl is petite and weighs little, and the guy is tall with an athletic build.
"Missionary position
A position that is familiar to almost every person who is sexually active. However, don't underestimate her. In this position, the man lies on top of the woman, and she bends her legs at the knees, leaves them straight, or throws them over his shoulders. In this position, partners touch each other with their whole bodies, which makes sex sensual and exciting. Getting used to seeing her chosen one as a provider and support, a woman sometimes forgets that he needs her warmth and care. In the missionary position, the partner's hands are completely free, which allows her to stroke and hug her lover. As you know, the positions that men like do not always have to be based on passion. Sometimes you need to show tenderness and warmth of feelings.
Squats
The partner lies on his back. The partner sits on top, squatting down.
Does everything seem simple? Yes, just... the first minute. Physically unprepared women may experience back and knee pain. You can start this position only if the girl often does squats: she has strong buttocks and legs and she knows how to keep her balance perfectly. In this case, the partner will receive true pleasure, completely sliding off her chosen one and slowly lowering herself again, independently controlling the depth of penetration.
By bringing these positions into your intimate life, you will turn your partner into a real gymnastics machine! And most importantly, you will expand the range of sensations by experiencing previously unfamiliar feelings.
