In this article, psychologist Anna Evlitskaya answers the question “How to understand that a twin man has fallen out of love?”
Incredibly charming, bright and multifaceted, a holiday person. This is exactly how one can characterize a man born under the sign of Gemini. He is always the life of the party. At the same time, it does not matter at all how long he has been in this company - four years or an hour and a half, because the Gemini man easily finds a common language with people.
Today we propose to talk about the relationship of a Gemini man with the opposite sex. You will find answers to questions about how to interest a representative of this zodiac sign. And also how to understand that a Gemini man is in love with you!
How to get a Gemini man's attention
What should a woman be like to win the affections of a Gemini? She must certainly have an interesting appearance (maybe not even a completely standard one). Grooming, charm and wit are important. By the way, astrologers say: the more men try to court a woman, the more chances she has to win the heart of a representative of the air element.
To conquer a Gemini man, you need to empathize, listen carefully even to what seems complete nonsense, and support any endeavors. You should accept with delight all gifts from a man, signs of attention. And you need to thank for the services provided in such a way that the man gets the feeling that the woman is unable to cope with anything without him.
How to break up with a Gemini guy?
If a woman constantly says in her thoughts: “I want to break up with a Gemini man,” then she should know some behavioral aspects of such a partner. In order to quickly part with a Gemini, it is simply important for a woman to become uninteresting to him. By burdening yourself with difficult-to-explain responsibilities, for example, drinking coffee only from a black cup in the morning and from a red one in the evening, expressing your own dissatisfaction with or without a reason, you will be able to break up best.
Every man is ready to sort things out after this, but the life-loving representative of the Gemini sign follows the path of least resistance. He will simply leave such a woman with a light soul.
How to make a Gemini fall in love with you
It is very easy to win the heart of such a man, because Gemini is one of the most loving signs of the zodiac. At the same time, Gemini loves with all his soul - completely sincerely, with a willingness to make sacrifices. True, there is one nuance: today he loves one woman, and tomorrow he loves another. No, no, when he talks about eternal love, he is not deceiving - he actually experiences this feeling. Astrologers assure you: you can make this man fall in love with you, but remaining the meaning of his whole life is much more difficult.
At the initial stage of a relationship, a woman needs to look good, carefully select outfits, and take care of her hair and manicure. The thing is that Geminis always pay attention to even minor details. How to finally make a man born under this sign fall in love with you? It is necessary to let him know that you do not even think about encroaching on his freedom.
Gestures and speech
The behavior of a Gemini man in love differs significantly from the behavior of a man who does not have a warm and tender feeling in his chest. As soon as the object of his adoration appears nearby, the man becomes clumsy, moves faster, and gesticulates very actively. In an effort to appear more neat to the girl, Gemini only aggravates the situation. By the way, if a man copies your poses and gestures, know that you were able to win his favor! Often, Gemini drops objects or moves something during communication.
Another sign of a Gemini man in love is the raised tones in which he speaks when sharing his experiences or ideas. His speech becomes more refined.
How can you tell when a manly Gemini is in love?
12 signs of falling in love and behavior of a Gemini man
1. We cannot help but notice so much passion and emotions. Tornado, whirlwind. Driven by all the winds. He really, really needs to give vent to his passion. 2. Look into the eyes of this man. Only a Gemini can change the shade of their eye color when they are in love. 3. During this period, there is so much energy in it that could melt the ice of the Arctic and Antarctic combined. 4. A Gemini man in love easily gives up all bad habits. He will throw down the cigarette and refuse the offered glass of wine. He won't even go to a party with friends. But for how long? 5. And where did the swear words and slang, in which he easily explained himself, go from his speech? This is Love. 6. Why in his hole would everything become different, every thing has its own place? This is what feelings do to a person. 7. Clothes, shoes, appearance are unrecognizable. Everything is in perfect condition, a transformation from a bad boy into an ideal man, carefully shaved, tastefully chosen clothes, a new hairstyle. You won't even know. 8. What will be more surprising is the appearance of Gemini in the kitchen; he begins to conjure up the preparation of something tasty. This had not been noticed before. Even if not immediately, but with your help, the process will be successfully completed. And a pleasant dinner together will please both of you. 9. Miracles and nothing more! Gemini has never been so realistic! I began to objectively evaluate reality. 10. Your shortcomings will not spoil his relationship with you. The amazing ability of a Gemini man in love to turn disadvantages into advantages. 11. God forbid someone should say something negative about you, my beloved! With someone who said something like this, Gemini stops communicating forever. 12. How does a man behave if he likes a woman? a manly twin in love behaves .
Secrets and emotions
If a representative of this zodiac sign falls in love, this can be tracked by his talkativeness. And if previously all his thoughts were occupied only by new ideas, now he will start talking only about himself! He will talk about his childhood and family. Will share the saddest and funniest stories. Talkativeness will also extend to telephone conversations - he will call his chosen one not to provide some information, but to simply chat.
How to understand that a Gemini man is in love? He treats you with special attention and interest. He listens to everything you tell him, without missing even the smallest details. He finds common interests, hobbies - all this helps him determine the degree of intimacy.
Gemini man in love characteristics and tips
There is no way to rely on a man in the sign of Gemini. Even after getting married, he remains free.
- You can't force him to change the job he loves. You won't achieve anything by pressure.
- His meetings with friends are not even discussed.
- He can surround you with love, and a minute later, going to the bakery, disappear for the nth time. Return as if nothing had happened. All you have to do is hide deeply, compress your Self, and pretend that everything is in order and the way it should be.
- Gemini's sociability goes beyond all imaginable boundaries. But even communicating with a million women, he will not forget about you, and will not cross the line.
- There will definitely be no betrayal. There is little pleasure in this.
- If a Gemini man has disappeared, you should not look for him and demand his return. It is practically impossible to control a man in the sign of Gemini. The habit of disappearing and suddenly appearing is normal.
- But you have to accept him for who he is. There are also pleasant things. The positive thing is that in his company, you can never know for sure.
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Touch
If a Gemini man is truly in love, he has a desire to touch the girl. Even during a conversation, a representative of this zodiac sign leans in her direction, touches her things, hugs her shoulders or touches her hands. So if Gemini closes the distance, he will definitely be overwhelmed with feelings!
A Gemini in love notices all the changes in the appearance of his beloved. It is not difficult to understand that a man born under this constellation is in love - his eyes will begin to shine when next to him is a woman in whom he likes everything - gait, facial expressions, gestures! It’s impossible not to notice this!
A clear sign that a Gemini man is in love is manifestations of caring. A callous person suddenly starts calling his chosen one and organizing interesting dates. Gemini will exclude rude jokes, and all his actions will become as delicate as possible. The girl will feel that she is treated like a queen. By the way, the expression of care can also be material: in a difficult situation, the Gemini man will come to the rescue with lightning speed! If everything in a girl’s life is smooth and calm, he will simply give her pleasant gifts.
How to make peace with a Gemini man
The best thing you can do is become his only inspiration and muse. You never know what to expect from him. Therefore, if a Gemini man left for another, then there can be no exact advice. A Gemini man often doesn’t even know how he will react to a given situation. But there are some tips that, in principle, can help make peace with a Gemini man and maintain a relationship with him after a conflict.
Try to provoke the curiosity of a Gemini man. To begin with, become a little detached from him, give him complete freedom in life. At first he will only be happy about all this, and then he will begin to think what motivated you to behave this way. Of course, he will never be able to cope with his curiosity on his own, so he will begin to take the first steps towards you, towards reconciliation with you.
If a Gemini man has left for another, then his curiosity may reveal changes in your appearance. Although the Gemini man is not particularly attentive to such details, if you change your haircut or hair color, he will definitely notice it. And if a Gemini man is interested, then it is quite possible to make peace with him.
If a girl behaves naturally and easily, but at the same time a little detached, then the Gemini man will turn his attention to her and will be able to maintain a relationship with him after a major quarrel or even after a breakup.
Make your life more diverse. As we have already found out, everyday life cannot be in the life of a Gemini man, so your task is to make it more interesting. The slightest changes in your home can attract him, and this is success on the path to strengthening the relationship.
If a Gemini man has left for someone else and stopped making contact altogether, you need to behave differently. A Gemini man won't slam doors or look back when he leaves. Their emotions are important to them, so they physically cannot analyze the whole situation. To begin with, you just need to leave the man alone for a while. Give him a couple of weeks to let go of your failed relationship a little. Then the girl must, so to speak, start hunting, because you will not be able to return your twin man, he needs to be conquered again.
Sacrifice
The ability to sacrifice time, finances, and hobbies will help you understand that a Gemini man is in love. He loves so much that he is ready to make any sacrifice: change his place of residence, change his field of activity. And he doesn’t even need praise for this. His boundless love is enough.
However, one should not demand the impossible from Gemini. Remember: he will not give up his principles and his favorite pastime!
Gemini men are reasonable and calm. But they can’t do anything about jealousy. Therefore, if his beloved is surrounded by a large number of fans, he will do anything! How does a Gemini man in love behave on the warpath? He is relentless, he does not spare anyone’s feelings: he destroys his rivals morally, and demands an explanation from the girl as to what is wrong with him. He sincerely wants to be not just the first, but the only one in the life of his chosen one. Any comparison not in his favor is a serious insult. How long does a Gemini man in love remain offended? After an hour, he will already forget that his feelings were hurt; the main thing is to just leave him alone for a while.
Gemini men
Gemini men are not intimidated by smart and educated women like others. On the contrary, they prefer that a woman shine not so much with her appearance and outfits, but with her wit, broad outlook, and erudition.
Geminis often change friends and hobbies, doing this not out of unscrupulousness or heartlessness, but because of constantly changing interests. In addition, Gemini is very sociable and cannot stand loneliness - this trait should be taken into account by his spouse.
Does he remain faithful? In his understanding, yes, since he sincerely values preserving the family, but allows flirting and “frivolous” hobbies of the opposite sex. Geminis have developed intuition, are artistic and persuasive in words and actions, so they usually have no scandals in the family and are exemplary in appearance.
We should not forget that Gemini’s extra-family hobbies are temporary, and often love affairs end in failure. Unfortunately, not all chosen ones understand their Gemini and are reasonable about his shortcomings. Therefore, Geminis often marry more than once. But each subsequent marriage lasts longer than the previous one.
Geminis have an urgent need to feel intimate connection, care, and to be loved. Therefore, after a divorce, given their sociability, Geminis quickly start a new family. The feeling of fear of loneliness can explain the fact that suicide is not uncommon among lonely Geminis, like none of the zodiac signs (L.V. Gumun et al.).
Gemini men and women. Gemini men are very sensitive in intimate terms, but this trait is not a parallel reflection of their sexual talent.
Gemini's emotionality, romance and fantasy often prevent him from realistically assessing the merits of women and balancing his capabilities. Women often have disappointments after a love meeting with him, because, given his grief, she expects the same unusual sex.
In intimacy and sex, Gemini men are characterized by selfishness; they care little about the satisfaction of their chosen one. There is always a woman who sacrifices herself for the sake of his business tact, realizing that creating a normal family with a Gemini is a problem. It is better to be content with the role of his inspirer and homemaker.
Meeting parents and friends
Geminis rarely think about marriage, because they are pragmatic and calculating. But, having fallen in love, such a man will certainly introduce the woman of his dreams to his parents. This meeting is a sign that he wants to be with you always. Family approval means a lot to Gemini, and therefore astrologers recommend preparing for the meeting in advance.
Meeting friends is another sign that a Gemini man is in love. And since he has a lot of acquaintances and friends, he will definitely introduce his chosen one to everyone at once!
How to quickly get back into a relationship with a Gemini man
Under no circumstances should you start ignoring a Gemini man if he was the first to meet you halfway to restore the relationship. In all other situations, distance yourself for a while, and then confidently begin to act.
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Behave with him as friendly as possible, but a little coldly. The girl must make it clear to the Gemini man that she is glad to see him again and has only warm feelings for him, but at the same time her independent life is very bright and interesting to wait for the first steps from the Gemini man.
It is worth paying attention to your appearance. A Gemini man will appreciate your originality and showiness. Therefore, the girl in his eyes should look exactly like this. Indulge in your interests and hobbies. A Gemini man loves to learn new things, so if a girl can attract his attention with such changes in life, then half the success is already on her side.
If a Gemini man has left for another, then after such a conflict you still need to be energetic and optimistic in order to establish contact with him. However, you don’t need to show him how hard it is for you without him and how much you suffer. If a Gemini man sees negativity in your emotions, he will abruptly stop communicating with you.
Some Gemini men may begin to think about restoring the relationship if they become jealous of their ex with another man. But here you need to respect boundaries and not overact. Frank flirting will definitely not work in your favor.
If a Gemini man falls out of love
He used to be a lot of fun, but now he’s not? A wake-up call, unfortunately. The fact is that your darling never made you laugh on purpose, this mechanism worked completely independently. The easiest way to make a girl happy here and now is to make her laugh. This is an element of courtship, characteristic not only of people, but also of animals: turn on a documentary about wolves, for example, and watch how a male courtes a female. The male has 80 kilograms of steel muscles and a complex facial expression. But when he is courting a female, he rolls on the ground with his paws up, his tongue hanging out, with the most idiotic look. And the female looks at this and laughs. Laughs naturally, almost like a person. This is a natural mechanism that allows a couple to connect: if you are funny, you are suitable for him. And if he doesn’t make you laugh, then that’s it, finita. He doesn’t need any wolf talk from you.
If a man for some reason is not going to end the relationship right now, he will hug and kiss you as if nothing happened. Especially in public. But physicality is the very matter that is beyond our control. His body will send very obvious signals that you can catch if you take the trouble to look closely. You walk down the street together, and he tries to stay half a step ahead? You take his hand, he immediately pulls it away and hugs you by the shoulders? You are sitting next to him on the sofa, you throw your legs on his lap, and then he feels the urge to get up and go to the toilet? It doesn't mean anything until it becomes a system. If it does, alas, he doesn’t love you anymore.
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