Ksenia Sobchak spoke about the reasons for her divorce from Maxim Vitorgan: “It was a union of brakes and lightning”
Ksenia Sobchak
At the beginning of June, Agata Muceniece became the heroine of Ksenia Sobchak’s YouTube show, in which she openly spoke about her divorce from Pavel Priluchny. The TV presenter did not remain in debt: the other day she supported Agatha’s YouTube show “Honest Divorce” and paid her a return visit - this time Sobchak answered questions herself. In a conversation with the actress, 38-year-old Ksenia revealed the true reasons for the divorce from her first husband Maxim Vitorgan, told what she thought about his new lover Nino Ninidze, and remembered how her affair with Konstantin Bogomolov began. SPLETNIK.RU collected the most interesting quotes.
About breaking up with Maxim Vitorgan
Of course it was love. Otherwise, I would not have given birth to a child, I would not have lived with him for so many years. We still had a great marriage: we were together for almost seven years. It was a long process, breaking up doesn't happen overnight. I had some different relationships, and I absolutely understand that there just comes a period when you start going in different directions. Some people see their life this way, others differently. This is neither bad nor good, but people either develop together, or one goes in the other direction. And then, over time, this abyss will destroy you.
Ksenia Sobchak with her son Platon
About the reasons for divorce
You understand that you and the person do not have the same views on something. You want to spend time with some guests, but he doesn’t like these people, and you start staying with these guests until one or two in the morning because you like these conversations. This is a specific example. I have close friends who are indecent people, and it was very interesting for me to communicate with them. These are very smart and interesting people. Maxim said that this was not his company. He liked his pastime: songs with a guitar by the fire, barbecue, remembering some incidents, telling jokes. I liked it there for the first year or two, and then I exhausted it for myself.
This really upset us. At some point I started saying: “Listen, I’m tired of listening to these songs with a guitar, I already know the whole repertoire, and I feel like I’m at the Grushinsky Festival. Here it is impossible to say who is right and who is wrong: different aesthetics, different interests. This gap gradually begins to widen, and at some point you realize that you have separate companies, separate interests, and you begin to feel lonely in some way.
Maxim Vitorgan and Ksenia Sobchak
I can say that I am very grateful to him. Thank God we maintained good relations. Maxim is an absolutely wonderful dad. The decision to divorce was difficult for everyone. This is also a question of the child and responsibility. At some point you realize that this story is over, and this does not mean that it was bad or unnecessary. It was a great time, one of the best of my life. I remember him with great warmth.
Of course I was afraid. Before the divorce, I was in a storm for some time, this happened for the last year. That is, I am absolutely sure that fate would not have brought me together with Kostya if there had not been this difficult period of tossing and turning and the feeling that you are not very happy.
Ksenia Sobchak
About Vitorgan's beloved Nino Ninidze
We met. She seems very sweet and beautiful to me. So God grant that everything works out. If they get married, I will be only happy. It seems to me that they have some real feelings, and, moreover, it seems to me that they are very suitable for each other. After the breakup, both of us - Kostya and Maxim Nino - are exactly similar people.
About meeting Konstantin Bogomolov
Konstantin appeared at the last stage of our problems in marriage with Maxim. We knew each other before this. I found a very funny interview that I interviewed with Konstantin sometime in 2014. I didn’t even really remember it at all, a guest just came and I interviewed him. I even remember that it wasn’t very interesting to me. And then no one clicked. That is, everything has its time.
Konstantin Bogomolov and Ksenia Sobchak
About the beginning of the affair with Bogomolov
He wrote first, I answered, and then we corresponded for a very long time. It was very strange. We talked about different topics, but it was strange because we hadn’t seen each other for a very long time, we just corresponded. Somehow it turned out that we didn’t have a question about whether to meet or not, we just corresponded endlessly with each other. This was very unusual, because I had never done this, but, understanding how Konstantin has a great command of words, now I understand in hindsight that this is not just like that.
The first time we met was in St. Petersburg, Konstantin invited me to the pre-premiere of his play “Glory”. I was hooked by our similarity. Love is a very strange thing. Our relationship with Maxim was built on the fact that we are very different people. It was a union, how we laughed, brakes and lightning. It was very cool and it worked. And then you get a situation where you are absolutely the same in some things, and this also works. And this is an absolute mirror.
About what made Konstantin fall in love with him
He is very smart and charming. He's much smarter than me. In general, I don’t know many such smart people in real life. He is a man of rare intelligence. But the problem is that he thinks about himself that way.
Agata Muceniece and Ksenia Sobchak
Video. Honest divorce. Ksenia Sobchak about breaking up with Maxim Vitorgan
About breaking up with Maxim Vitorgan
Of course it was love. Otherwise, I would not have given birth to a child, I would not have lived with him for so many years. We still had a great marriage: we were together for almost seven years. It was a long process, breaking up doesn't happen overnight. I had some different relationships, and I absolutely understand that there just comes a period when you just start going in different directions. Some people see their life this way, others differently. This is neither bad nor good, but people either develop together, or one goes in the other direction. And then, over time, this abyss will destroy you.
About the reasons for divorce
You understand that you and the person do not have the same views on something. You want to spend time with some guests, but he doesn’t like these people, and you start staying with these guests until one or two in the morning because you like these conversations. This is a specific example. I have close friends who are indecent people, and it was very interesting for me to communicate with them. These are very smart and interesting people. Maxim said that this was not his company. He liked his pastime: songs with a guitar by the fire, barbecue, remembering some incidents, telling jokes. I liked it there for the first year or two, and then I exhausted it for myself.
This really upset us. At some point I started saying: “Listen, I’m tired of listening to these songs with a guitar, I already know the whole repertoire and I feel like I’m at the Grushinsky Festival.” Here it is impossible to say who is right and who is wrong: different aesthetics, different interests. This gap gradually begins to widen, and at some point you realize that you have separate companies, separate interests, and you begin to feel lonely in some way.
I can say that I am very grateful to him. Thank God we maintained good relations. Maxim is an absolutely wonderful dad. The decision to divorce was difficult for everyone. This is also a question of the child and responsibility. At some point you realize that this story is over, and this does not mean that it was bad or unnecessary. It was a great time, one of the best of my life. I remember him with great warmth.
Of course I was afraid. Before the divorce, I was in a storm for some time, this happened for the last year. That is, I am absolutely sure that fate would not have brought me together with Kostya if there had not been this difficult period of tossing and turning and the feeling that you are not very happy.
About Vitorgan's beloved Nino Ninidze
We met. I think she is very sweet and beautiful. So, God grant that everything works out. If they get married, I will only be happy. It seems to me that they have some real feelings, and, moreover, it seems to me that they are very suitable for each other. After the breakup, both of us - Kostya and Maxim Nino - are exactly similar people.
About meeting Konstantin Bogomolov
Konstantin appeared at the last stage of our problems in marriage with Maxim. We knew each other before this. I found a very funny interview that I interviewed with Konstantin sometime in 2014. I didn’t even really remember it at all, a guest just came and I interviewed him. I even remember that it wasn’t very interesting to me. And then no one clicked. That is, everything has its time.
About the beginning of the affair with Bogomolov
He wrote first, I answered, and then we corresponded for a very long time. It was very strange. We talked about different topics, but it was strange because we hadn’t seen each other for a very long time, we just corresponded. Somehow it turned out that we didn’t have a question about whether to meet or not, we just corresponded endlessly with each other. This was very unusual, because I had never done this, but, understanding how Konstantin has a great command of words, now I understand in hindsight that this is not just like that.
The first time we met was in St. Petersburg, Konstantin invited me to the pre-premiere of his play “Glory”. I was hooked by our similarity. Love is a very strange thing. Our relationship with Maxim was built on the fact that we are very different people. It was a union, how we laughed, brakes and lightning. It was very cool and it worked. And then you get a situation where you are absolutely the same in some things, and this also works. And this is an absolute mirror.
About what made Konstantin fall in love with him
He is very smart and charming. He's much smarter than me. In general, I don’t know many such smart people in real life. He is a man of rare intelligence. But the problem is that he thinks about himself that way.
Source: https://m.spletnik.ru/buzz/interview1/98259-sobchak-o-razvode-s-vitorganom-i-romane-s-bogomolovym.html