Tip 1. Fill your husband with love
A man sincerely gives gifts when he is overwhelmed with emotions of happiness. Awaken in him feelings associated with memories of the times when he fell in love with you and looked forward to the development of the relationship. Gift is the language of love. It is very natural for a man not just to say the banal “I love you,” but to put this feeling into material expression. “Provoke” your husband to give gifts by periodically having romantic conversations with memories of how your relationship began, what feats he performed for you, what gifts and surprises he gave. The pleasant emotions evoked by the theme “How it was!” awaken the romance that was present in your life before, and which still has a place in it to this day.
What really works?
Today I want to tell you how you can influence people without suppressing their will. They will happily fulfill your wishes, agree with your point of view, and your lover will generally become the most ideal. You will stop thinking about how to receive gifts. You will be showered with gifts, given attention, respect and love.
People will be drawn to you and open up to you, demonstrating their best qualities. And all this - without a single manipulation on your part!
What's the secret? In the structure of our reality. The fact is that our world is absolutely plastic. Perhaps you are accustomed to thinking that this is not so, and are sure that our reality is material and we cannot influence our lives in any way, not to mention other people - their thoughts, feelings, decisions and actions towards us.
In fact, everything works differently! After all, there is a powerful Law of Attraction that makes the impossible possible. I have talked about him more than once on the pages of this blog. But if you want to know even more, write in the comments and I will prepare a new article for you.
The essence of the Law of Attraction is this: only what is already in our consciousness and subconscious is materialized in reality and attracted to us.
In other words, everything we think about, how we think, what we believe in, what beliefs we “profess” - all this is embodied in our reality. We ourselves create our material world. Each of our attitudes, each of our thoughts finds materialization in reality. It is as if we are watching a reflection in a mirror. Reality is a reflection of our consciousness.
On the subject: The mystery of consciousness - who creates reality?
When you accept this concept and realize that the world is a mirror image of our consciousness, it will become absolutely clear to you that in order to change reality and the attitude of other people towards you, you must first of all work on yourself.
With the power of thought, we can make someone love us, give us an expensive gift, we can control people and control our lives.
But the basis of this approach will not be the idea of “force and receive” in relation to others and not the position of “give”. On the contrary, the focus of attention shifts from other people to oneself. You need to work exclusively on yourself!
For example, if you want to receive a lot of love, then start giving love to yourself and the world for free. After all, the principle of the mirror says: what we have in ourselves, we attract and see in our reality.
Do you want to understand how to get everything you want from people without manipulation? Can't wait to find out how to receive gifts? Then read on.
Denis Baiguzhin will not teach you this!
I want to share with you the story of my student.
Ekaterina, a participant in the course “Marathon on the fulfillment of desires 2.0”, also studied with Denis Baiguzhin. From her own experience, she was convinced that the manipulation method did not suit her and did not help.
Ekaterina came to me to fulfill her dream: to purchase a three-room apartment in the center of Moscow.
Katya, by her own admission, always wondered and tried to understand how to receive gifts from men, and not just cute gifts, but specific, expensive gifts. That is why she took a course with Denis Baiguzhin.
She didn't achieve any results. The manipulations didn't work.
In my course, Ekaterina attracted what she wanted and realized her dream solely with the power of thought. She didn’t ask her man for anything, didn’t put pressure on him, demanding money from him. But one fine day her wish came true. Her lover gave her money to buy a three-room apartment in the center of Moscow. The dream came true, and at the same time Katya did not have to manipulate, demand, or force. She didn’t need the knowledge and skills from Denis Baiguzhin’s course...
On the subject: How to make a man fulfill his wishes
Dreams about the Czech Republic have come true
And here is another story confirming that you can get what you want without manipulation and pressure on men.
Anastasia came to my course “Wish Fulfillment Marathon 2.0” not with one dream, but with several at once.
Here's her story:
During this Marathon I fulfilled my wishes!
— I entered the university of my dreams in Prague.
— Moved to the country of my dreams in Europe. Now I live and study in Prague. And all this without the help of parents.
— I married a Czech without knowing the Czech language.
— I have my own apartment in the center of Prague! My husband gave me an apartment!
I didn’t think that I wanted to buy an apartment, I thought that I wanted to have an apartment. For our marriage, he gave me a gift - an apartment. It is three-room and in the center of Prague! This was my dream!
As you can see, in order for your loved one to give gifts and love endlessly, it is not necessary to manipulate or force someone to fulfill your desires.
Having convinced herself of this from her own experience, Anastasia recommends to everyone:
I advise you from the bottom of my heart to simply love life, love yourself, love this world.
These are the words of a student who understood how the Law of Attraction works and realized the essence of the principle of mirror reflection. Now she knows how to receive gifts from the world, from the Universe and from her man. Love, give love, and the world will reciprocate you!
How easy is it to receive gifts?
Another student of the “Wish Fulfillment Marathon 2.0” course knows the answer to this question.
Irina says:
My thinking changed to such an extent that I realized that I can afford everything, I can do everything, I can have everything I want! I wanted the most expensive vacuum cleaner as a gift, and my wish came true in seven days. I come home and see that my husband bought me a very expensive vacuum cleaner. I am delighted!
I think in this review you clearly saw the result of working on yourself and your thinking, and not at all the use of manipulation techniques or insidious methods of psychology.
Tip 2: Give a choice...no choice
When a man is imbued with an atmosphere of love, and he has a renewed feeling that there is a woman next to him whom he wants to give gifts again and again, consolidate the effect with specifics, even if you are a supporter of surprises. To make a gift please you, create a situation of choice without choice. Few men understand too transparent hints or poetic associations. Select several options for the desired gift, for example, three beautiful rings, three scents of perfume or three models of underwear, and tell your husband: “Darling, I liked everything so much, I can’t choose! Help me decide on the best option." Or go on a shopping promenade with him and go to a shoe store and try on a pair of boots. Walk in front of your husband with a flying gait, show that you have already found a gift for yourself and are madly in love with him. If you do everything right, he will want to look at you in these boots forever!
An example from my practice
One client shared the story of her friend, whose ex-husband gives luxurious lingerie for every birthday.
His friend was surprised and asked: “Why are you doing this, because you broke up a long time ago.” And one day the young man offered to go with him. And only then did the friend see a picture that was unusual for him.
Immediately upon arrival, the ex-husband presented a surprise. And the woman, like a real lady, began to react emotionally to the sign of attention. She repeated: “Oh. Is this all for me? How lovely". Together with the words, I immediately unwrapped the gift and tried everything on.
A friend looked and said that next time he would also bring her something.
Tip 3. Allow yourself to be showered with gifts
Allow yourself to become a woman who wants not just to give gifts, but to give the best. Very often, men do not give gifts to those women who know how to be content with little - a bouquet of lilies of the valley instead of their favorite roses, a shopping bag instead of an Armani bag, a set of pots instead of a new dress. If we translate the relationship into a material plane, then a man is able to value only the “project” in which he invests his most expensive resources - money, time, attention. Therefore, if you consider yourself a diamond, let your husband choose a worthy “frame” for you, even if for this he has to sacrifice part of your family budget. Be a dear woman to him in every sense!
Tip 4. Anticipate the gift by taking the necessary pause
An important part of the strategy for teaching your husband the art of giving you gifts is the anticipation of the gift. You did everything in your power - you eloquently hinted about your desires and indicated where and how these desires could be fulfilled. Now it's important to relax. Don’t remind, don’t ask for more and don’t ask again: “Well, when is it already?!” Let him develop a “surprise” plan. After all, this is exactly what you wanted. Therefore, anticipate the coveted gift in silence, without giving the appearance that you are already mentally its rightful owner. But if your husband has frequent memory lapses, then it’s better to “take him while he’s warm” and lead him shopping as soon as he’s ready.
How to properly hint to a man about a holiday gift? Advice from a psychologist.
Tomorrow, March 8, women will be presented with gifts. Some will be delighted, others will realize with disappointment that they dreamed of something completely different. So, so that on a wonderful women’s day everyone, both men and women, is absolutely happy - you can agree on a gift in advance.
Psychologist Svetlana Kravchenko believes that a man can be told directly about his desires: “When I work with married couples and begin to unravel the tangle of women’s grievances, it turns out that misunderstanding and irritation have accumulated due to the fact that the woman wanted something, but she didn’t given. And when I ask the question “did you talk about what you wanted?”, the answer is often “no”
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Svetlana explains that men’s brain systems work differently, and they don’t hear hints like “my husband gave Natasha earrings.” And then the woman who made the hint expects earrings for the holiday, but gets something completely different, along with a feeling of disappointment. But just at that moment when she convincingly from her point of view said “look what set of underwear is sold in this store,” the man did not look at the display window at all and thought about his work processes.
“You need to talk about your desires. Even when a couple lives together for several decades, a man cannot predict in advance what the woman wants to receive from him as a gift this time. And men, by nature, are not able to notice such details as a half-empty bottle of perfume on a shelf, or the fact that, walking past a display case with a handbag, you exclaimed “what a beautiful handbag!” There are very few men who can remember once and for all what smells you like and what flowers you like most.”
,” Svetlana gives an example.
And what happens? A man gives a gift that is suitable from his point of view and expects a wow effect, but receives a disappointed look that is difficult to hide. The situation when an unnecessary gift is sent to gather dust on a shelf is uncomfortable for both.
There is a type of woman who welcomes any gift as a sign of attention. If the chocolate really makes them happy, that’s good. At the same time, the option “give me at least something” may indicate low self-esteem, and then, in fact, it will cause discomfort. “If a woman loves herself and knows what suits her, she can well afford to tell her chosen one about this: “if you decide to give me perfume, choose this scent.”
, the expert is sure.
If a woman knows what she wants to get, but because of embarrassment she cannot say it directly, there is an option to unobtrusively convey the information through someone. And then she will not be embarrassed because she “begged”, and at the same time, she will get what she needs.
There is a way out even if a woman is ready to directly say about the desired gift, but is afraid that the man did not want to spend that amount. As a rule, people who have been in relationships for a long time have ideas about each other’s financial capabilities, and there is no risk of asking for a gift that a man cannot afford. Or you can choose an item that can be found in different price categories, and then the man will be able to please him with a gift, spending an amount that is comfortable for himself.
Tip 5. Return emotions
Don’t forget to express joyful emotions when your husband gave you exactly what you dreamed of. If you accept gifts as a queen does from her subjects, then it is unlikely that you will receive them often and from the heart. It is very important for men to take payment for a gift in the form of your sincere happiness. Therefore, like a child, rejoice at even the smallest gift, kiss it and say words of gratitude. The best compliment for a long-awaited gift will be your casually thrown phrase like: “Darling, did you notice how gorgeous my new fur coat looked on me? All your friends are jealous of your gift!” Unobtrusively show off your spouse's gifts to others in his presence. This way you will not only raise your husband’s self-esteem, but also motivate him to buy new gifts.
Tip 6. Give your husband gifts
Show your husband your own example of skillful gift giving. Conduct investigative activities to find what thing, service or experience will make him happy. Introduce a tradition of mutual pleasant gifts with or without an occasion. Actions like this are the perfect motivator. They provoke a reciprocal gift of equal emotional value. However, never give a man something that is worth more than the price tag of the gift he gave you. You can either humiliate him by hurting his male pride, or turn him into a gigolo. A woman is always allowed to give non-material gifts in the form of a song, a dance, a romantic date, or a man’s favorite dish prepared with her own hands.
