Text of the book “The Whole Truth about the Female Orgasm”

We all know that every sexual intercourse should end in orgasm. He is the culmination of the whole action and its integral part. However, sometimes it happens that orgasm never occurs. Of course, sometimes a man’s banal fatigue, worries and some other problems in life can take their toll. But if this happens over and over again, you need to seriously think about it, because when men don’t have an orgasm, this signals serious disruptions in the reproductive system, which are most often the result of sexual pathologies. In order for orgasm to occur at the end of sexual intercourse, the functions of all complexes - the nervous system, the psyche - must be normal. When at least one of these structures fails, the male half develops a disorder called anorgasmia. If you are familiar with this problem, but want to learn about it in more detail, our article is exactly what you need.


When a man does not experience orgasm, big problems arise in his personal life

Introduction

Most descriptions of male orgasms come down to the terse language of stating the physical condition of the subject or literary delights, with epithets to match some kind of writing award, but I will not once again rewrite the truisms. In addition, I do not always agree with much of what is written on this subject, and for me it is not always the truth. You see, I’m used to trusting my own thoughts, feelings, deeds, orgasms and everything connected with them, and if so, then why not take a walk the other way. What do you think, reader, what if it turns out less tortuous and easier? I know that to skeptics and women, male orgasms seem to be the simplest physiology, steamed turnips in comparison with which are the most complex culinary and physical processes, but why not refute such thoughts and let us know how complex and multifaceted male psychophysiology and all the products it produces can be. Here you are, reader, how many types of orgasms can you list offhand? Don’t get carried away, even for women, at best you’ll get a couple of memories; for men, no one has ever written about rubbing the penis against various surfaces in their super-duper-sophisticated medical and near-medical treatises, and you, therefore, had no way to find out. Although I’m lying, the teachings of Tao, Tantra and Kama Sutra allow us to achieve such a high flight, but who would want to devote their life to studying methods, the level of which is centuries higher than ours? Meanwhile, if you scrape the bottom of the barrel and strain the lazy sexual part of the brain, every person who has sex with the stronger sex is able to extract more interesting orgasms from their lives than banal genital frottage.

Personally, I have never denied myself this topic, therefore I speak it better than the bourgeois language that I am studying right now. It’s not that he constantly “came”, pouring ejaculate on everything and everyone, and then wrote down the sensations, it’s just that there were plenty of them in life, and cramming was given without much strain. I warn you right away that everything that is said below is the fruit of my perverted sexuality and does not claim to be the absolute truth and place in any generally accepted encyclopedia of sex, however, those who wanted to try it were not disappointed. I’m sure I won’t be able to amaze you, reader, with abstruse language and extracts from bourgeois research in this area, but why the hell do you need a foreign orgasm when we have enough of our own and they are no worse? Or who really believes that on Russian soil no one can give an analysis of their own sexual discharge? In short, the types of male orgasms, as I said at the beginning of this sub-chapter, are not as many as we would like, but not so few as to attribute them to the primitive instinct of procreation. Yes, orgasm does not affect the quality of conception physiologically, but what positive mental charge do sperm receive with a good orgasm. It is unlikely that a child can be conceived in love and harmony with absent or sluggish orgasms, or am I wrong?

This is what I can offer to history today, since time does not stand still and it is unlikely that my types of orgasms will be the last list. Write down: psychological, mental, physiological and physical. The stump is clear, it is impossible to meet them in their pure form, but I do not pretend to the purity of gradations. Does it really matter how things are “between” if you know the “from” and “to”, beyond which it is impossible?

Physical criteria for normal sperm:

  • Transparency is cloudy, this is due to the presence of sperm;
  • Consistency – jelly-like or creamy depending on ejaculation;
  • The smell is reminiscent of the aroma of chestnut flowers;
  • Color – milky white with signs of opalescence;

Using these criteria, a man can independently evaluate his sperm and suspect pathology. Do not forget that changes in these signs do not always relate to the disease. With short-term, minor changes in the ejaculate and no pain, this condition does not require medical intervention.

Psychological orgasm

A man’s psychological orgasm can be conditionally called his orgastic release caused not through standard contacts, but directly by the brain itself, into which the consciousness and subconsciousness, as irritating impulses, projects various real and unreal images and plots related to sex.

Such an ability can be gifted by nature, or can be achieved through many years of training, as is done by adherents of various sexual teachings, sitting in prayer on the tailbone throughout their hypersexuality, and then, catching up on lost time, taking advantage of the opportunity to control the brain. If a person has mastered such a science, he can cause almost any orgasm, and not only those that have already been tested and registered in his subcortex, but also those that the subconscious can throw up from the depths of his bottomless memory. The teachings of Tao, Tantra and Kama Sutra are just from this opera, but there are not as many teachers in them as advertising offers to teach everything in a couple of sessions, with which newspapers are full of even such a level as my small town on the endless expanses of the great river. Personally, I believe that there is no need to sit for hours in one intricate position, singing hits of sex lovers not from our time and not even from our solar system, completely sitting out the nerve nodes in order to achieve greater buzz. But the psychological orgasm as a result of such torture of the body and mind is really impressive (I will describe how this happens in the sub-chapters of the same name). Here I will briefly talk about the most striking implementations of such an orgasm, but I would like to warn you right away that in order to learn this, you will need a lot of time and effort, which you are unlikely to find under normal conditions. And why the hell go into such a jungle if not every man can pass the basics?

- orgasm without ejaculation

Yes, this kind of crap can be achieved by intensive training using certain methods, but this is not the kind of crap that is sold to suckers, urging them to squeeze the base of the penis at the moment of orgasm. The method of self-hypnosis and triggering the orgasm mechanism without external stimuli works here, and in separate phases. Also, one should not confuse such an unusual feature with the absence of sperm after several orgasms in a row. In this case, the prostate has thrown out all the ejaculate and has nothing to give out - in the case of a psychological orgasm without ejaculation, only orgastic sensations are triggered.

- ejaculation without orgasm

It’s not that in this case there is no orgasm at all, but it is much weaker in sensation and much longer in time. Simply put, this is a kind of wet dream with the clear work of consciousness and subconscious. It is necessary in a psychological orgasm, because after free ejaculation there is practically no ejaculate left in the prostate and the powerful orgasm that follows is capable of throwing out all sorts of crap, which does not allow the male second heart to function normally. I figuratively call this technique “cleaning with a bottle brush,” because the sensations left are quite suitable for this procedure.

Sexology: Male orgasm. A topic that is not raised

Both in real life and in sexology, female orgasm is given more attention than male orgasm. There is an opinion that a man who has no problems with potency always experiences orgasm, while for women the absence of it is normal (except in cases of anorgasmia). It is also often believed that ejaculation is a manifestation of orgasm. But, although both processes most often occur simultaneously, ejaculation is the mechanical release of sperm, and orgasm is a whole complex of sensations and changes in the body.

Prolonged sex: male strength or weakness

Half-hour frictions, which are often cited as the best way to satisfy a partner, are by no means the norm to which one should strive. Young, physically healthy men with a strong sexual constitution complete sexual intercourse after 2-4 minutes. This upsets them, but from a sexological point of view this is the norm. A man, as a successor to the family, must pass on the seed as quickly as possible.

So, men who are called “wimps” can be proud of their health. By the way, it is precisely such “weaklings” who are capable of heroic sexual marathons; as a rule, each subsequent sexual intercourse lengthens. But a relatively sharp change in the duration of sexual intercourse may indicate violations:

  • if you notice that sexual intercourse has become consistently short, these may be the first symptoms of prostatitis;
  • an increase in the duration of sexual intercourse, especially sudden and stable, may indicate endocrine disorders.

Sexual marathons are a difficult test for a man

In his youth, a man can have several sexual acts in a row. Such sexual uplifts depend on many components, and they can be called a “special” situation in the life of any man. If a man is consistently ready to perform 5, 6, or even 10 sexual acts in a row every night, he should consult a sex therapist.

Experts in the field of sexology do not believe that such feats are a manifestation of health. But the lack of ejaculation or orgasm during sexual intercourse that is performed without a significant pause between them should not scare you. Often, by the end of the “marathon”, a man only has an erection, but no longer has the strength to complete sexual intercourse. For many, the lack of ejaculation is a serious blow. But in this case, as in many others, a man has the right to weakness. Increased blood pressure, an excessively warm room and many other reasons can make a man “lose desire.” Reconsider the conditions and time for intimacy, and this problem will go away by itself.

If orgasm disappears with consistently good erection and ejaculation, then the main reason, as a rule, is depression and a depressed state, but sometimes this happens with mental and urological diseases or traumatic brain injuries. Some medications may have these side effects.

Multiple orgasms are a reason to think

Normally, a man should not experience multiple orgasms. As a rule, this is a symptom of a dysfunction of higher nervous activity, although such a disorder does not always pose a threat to health.

Male orgasm and ejaculation patterns can tell a lot about a man's health. If you experience any of the above symptoms, we recommend that you visit a doctor. The same goes for sudden changes in sensations.

Be healthy!

Psychic orgasm

It would seem that the difference in names for a mere mortal is not fundamental, all the methods of achieving orgasm are similar, but the topics are completely different and you know why - in the first case, a person controls the orgasm, and in the second, vice versa. In life, you often meet people who have an incredibly active psyche, imagination, excitability - these are the ones who easily provoke orgastic processes in their body. The mechanism of mental orgasm is simple to the point of disgrace: a person looks at, for example, porn photos or watches porn on TV, reads a porn novel by some pervert or spies on the girls in the bathhouse... he is overcome by a wave of overexcitation and... you have an orgasm. On the one hand, such an action seems to be for fun, however, its consequences are unpredictable. Having such a powerful supply due to the work of the brain, many “psychics” in this regard are practically unable to lead a normal sex life. Indeed, while they are preparing for partner sex, their arousal will definitely exceed the permissible limits and orgasm completes the preparation long before the start of active actions.

Read more about anorgasmia in men

It is more difficult for a man to notice and track any disturbances in achieving orgasm than for a woman, since ejaculation is always accompanied by a feeling of relief. During normal sexual intercourse, the onset of orgasm always occurs a few seconds before ejaculation. If ejaculation is impaired or there are problems achieving orgasm, ejaculation may occur without a feeling of satisfaction, or orgasm may occur without ejaculation. With a normal erection, a man may not feel pleasure from sexual intercourse at all, or experience orgasm in the form of weak sensations.

Orgasm is closely related to a man’s emotional state. If he makes love to a woman he likes, then the experience of orgasm will be vivid and impressive. But disgust for your partner, fear, depression and depression can lead to dulling of pleasure. Excessive tension, when a man tries to interrupt sexual intercourse early to avoid a woman’s pregnancy, also causes a depressing effect on erotic experiences.

However, the causes of orgasm disorders are not only psychological. Men who have problems with erections or who have impaired ejaculation will also not experience intense emotions during orgasm. Diseases of the reproductive or endocrine system, frequent stress and taking medications to treat them, alcoholism, drug addiction, prolonged depression - these are the most serious causes of sexual dysfunction.

Pollutions

The most common form of psychoorgasm is a wet dream, when the body itself determines the degree of load on its excitation centers and allows itself to “relax” against the person’s wishes.

In this case, the most powerful determining part is the degree of sexual activity. For an ordinary man, it is enough to abstain for a couple of weeks for the brain to decide to reduce his “sperm pressure”; in the case of hypersexuality, this can happen at least every day (see the subchapter “What is a wet dream” in the book). The process proceeds in the following order: thoughts about sex do not allow you to fall asleep, offering more and more new ways of copulation, sometimes going not only beyond the bounds of decency, but generally beyond the scope of common sense, and the moment comes when erotic dreams before bed neatly flow into the dream itself, and things start to happen that porn directors are embarrassed to film. Without a doubt, the intensity of passions goes off scale and a powerful orgasm occurs. I compared it with the most suitable one from this psychoseries - the wet dream is much stronger. Either because the accumulations that precede in time are much longer than the interval between ordinary orgasms, or because it is easier for the consciousness to select images and plots without being distracted by the environment, but most likely the subconscious is involved in the matter. When I look through mine in my spare time, it becomes scary, because if everything unrealized appears on the surface at once...

Pathologies of psychoorgasms

Naturally, such a topic cannot avoid pathologies, that is, when orgasms caused by the brain are not as harmless as in the previous three cases. When for some reason the sending of human codes (impulses) from the brain is disrupted and they pass through the phases of a normal orgasm uncontrollably (diseases related to this topic can be found in any medical encyclopedia), a psychiatrist is needed, although this does not always help. The sleep of the mind gives birth to monsters, but when the mind is awake in sleep... All sexual maniacs, and I will touch on this topic throughout the book, acquired their socially dangerous abilities precisely thanks to such pathologies. All these sexual atrocities incomprehensible to the common man are just part of such dreams of the mind and their uncontrolled wakefulness. So, before you sign up for cutting and sewing courses, in the sense of courses for “extraordinary orgasms according to ancient or modern teachings,” check the guru’s pedigree. Suddenly his diploma is printed on the back of a certificate from a psychiatric hospital or he is wanted by Interpol for a series of ritual suicides based on the search for orgasm through asphyxiophilia.

Physiological orgasm

Physiological sex includes all types of contact with male genitals through direct or indirect influence on them.

Perhaps the most common way of getting an orgasm, which is used by most of the male population of the planet, and which has not been rejected by society at all times. It comes to the disposal of strong-sex men with the beginning of their meaningful induction of orgasm, that is, from the first masturbation and ends with the last masturbation that the male is capable of before leaving for another form of existence. I attribute such discharges to those provoked by living flesh, that is, bestiality is also a physiological orgasm, despite the fact that it is condemned by many layers of society and even by me, even though I promised to treat everything indifferently.

— monosex

Monosex is not at all banal masturbation or masturbation, it is the art of self-satisfaction that accompanies intelligent males throughout their lives.

There are countless ways to pacify your flesh by influencing it with anything, but the most common to this day is manual. Satisfaction and orgasm are achieved through vigorous movements of the hand in the area of ​​the penis. I have never encountered a case where a man complained about the lack of orgasm from monosex if he had no sexual anomalies, so I consider it the starting point for any type of sexual satisfaction.

- heterosex

Heterosex is any type of manipulation of a man’s genital organ that is performed by a representative of the opposite sex, bringing him to orgasm.

This includes:

Vaginal

– orgasm is achieved through friction, when the penis makes back-and-forth movements while inside the vagina. The denser the female genital organ, the sooner the orgasm occurs and its quality increases and vice versa.

Oral

– orgasm is achieved through fellatio or friction, when the penis is in contact either with the tongue (lips) or makes reciprocating movements while inside the mouth. oral caresses can be superficial, medium and deep, depending on the depth of penetration of the penis, on the basis of which the quality of the satisfaction received is determined. The deeper the penis penetrates the partner’s throat, the faster the orgasm comes and the brighter its color.

Anal

– orgasm is achieved through friction, when the penis makes back-and-forth movements while inside the rectum. The most powerful of all orgasms available to the inexperienced user. The tightness of the anus allows the penis to be squeezed so tightly during intercourse that ejaculation cannot overcome this tension. As a result, the orgasm is extended in time and lasts many times longer. When you add the lack of fear of potential pregnancy, the pleasure of anal orgasm doubles, making it essentially one of the most intense male orgasms.

— homosexual

Along the way, homosexuality is an alternative replacement for heterosex, especially if men, for some reason, have become lovers of this topic.

Judging by the growth of homosexual relationships, these types of male orgasm are quite comparable to heterosexual ones.

Oral.

Due to the larger volume of the male pharynx compared to the female one, as well as the partner’s knowledge of the subtleties inaccessible to partners, the process of homosexual orolasque is considered more effective in achieving orgasm. I haven’t tried it myself, so I rely on the opinion of practitioners in this field, although there are definitely professionals in this field among both sexes.

Anal.

The ingenuity of homosexuals in delivering sexual caresses with the anus is much higher than in a heterosexual environment, since it immediately replaces vaginal and anal coitus. Again, the process itself occurs in a more crude form, which is definitely a powerful aid in enhancing male orgasm. Readers are making fun of me here, they say, until I fucked a man’s ass with self-penis, there’s no need to mislead the readers. Well, now they’ll get a little more, and I’ll go and try...

Types of anorgasmia

Anorgasmia in men can manifest itself in several forms (degrees):

  • There is no orgasm, but the sexual act itself gives pleasant sensations, the man willingly goes for it;
  • Sex is indifferent. For his part, the man does not show initiative and inactively supports the counter;
  • Sexual relations cause hostility. Sexual intercourse is accompanied by painful sensations, even pain, although an erection is present and quite confident.

Anorgasmia can develop from stages 1 to 3 , but in many men it is fixed at one of them. For example, sex was never particularly attractive or pleasant. Some have had an orgasm only a couple of times in their lives - in childhood during nocturnal emissions; its absence in adult life does not bring suffering, and the process of sexual intercourse itself brings pleasure.

Psychotherapist Maxim Goncharov talks about the reasons for the lack of orgasm

Based on the time of occurrence, there are 2 forms of anorgasmia:

  1. Primary ( congenital ), in which a man has never felt an orgasm - neither during sex nor during masturbation.
  2. Secondary ( acquired ), provoked by certain events or pathologies.

Secondary anorgasmia can be permanent and situational . In the first case, the man stops achieving orgasm under any circumstances. In the second - only under certain conditions. An example is coital anorgasmia, when a man does not receive release during sexual intercourse, but does not experience any problems during masturbation.

There is also sporadic anorgasmia, in which the orgasm is wandering - it periodically appears and disappears under unclear circumstances (idiopathic nature of the problem).

The exotic and most severe type of anorgasmia for the psyche is satiriatic (a similar female problem is called nymphomaniac). In this case, the man constantly experiences strong sexual hunger (satirism, satyriasis - read more about how to reduce increased libido if it interferes with normal life), but cannot satisfy it even with frequent sexual intercourse - orgasm is unattainable.

Physical orgasm

Physical orgasm is an orgasm that a man achieves by rubbing his penis against various surfaces, while its strength and power is proportional to the force of friction and the roughness of the surface with which contact occurs.

The more perverted and sophisticated a man is in this matter, the more advanced his experiments are in this area, and therefore the quality of orgasms. This type can successfully include all male experiments in the field of monosex, as well as partner sex, when fantasies go far beyond ordinary genital contacts into the realm of extreme possibilities.

— mechanosex

Mechanical sex can include any device that allows a man to achieve orgasm. For those who haven’t tried it, I’ll say: you’ve lost a lot. Indeed, thanks to mechanical devices, you can simulate almost any of the orgasms available in sex, if you dare and apply a little imagination. The number of personal items in sex shops is growing every day, and imitations of women in plastic and metal will soon begin to surpass the originals, so mechanosex has firmly established itself in male sex and often begins to dictate fashion for the quality of orgasms obtained.

— vibrosex

If low-power vibrators are used in mechanosex, vibrosex has no restrictions. If women experience orgasm from prolonged vibrations, such as air pockets, all men “cum” in the event of a vibration attack on both the genitals themselves and the perineum. Anyone who has tried to copulate on a vibrating table knows what we are talking about, but even the most ordinary vibrating vagina from a sex shop can cause a powerful orgasm, especially if you adjust the frequency of vibrations to achieve it.

How to make a male orgasm brighter and stronger

The male orgasm, although not as mysterious and complex as the female one, still gives a man incomparable pleasure. The editors of WMJ.ru found out from experts at the Secrets Center for Family and Sexuality Education about how to enhance a partner’s sensations during sex and make his orgasm brighter and stronger.

But first, a few facts about the male orgasm. 98% of men regularly experience orgasm during sex with a partner, and the duration of this pleasure averages from three to ten seconds.

When approaching orgasm, it is very important to continue stimulation, so if you feel that a man is already on the verge and you want him to experience an orgasm, continue to do what you are doing, without changing the tempo (you can only increase it a little), the angle of penetration and type of stimulation. After orgasm in men, the so-called refractory period begins, when arousal subsides and further stimulation of the penis either does not provide arousal or turns out to be unpleasant.

Choosing a pose

The choice of position determines the sensations received during sex not only by a woman, but also by a man. When changing position, a woman can feel a change in the angle of penetration, the degree of its depth, and which zone the penis most actively stimulates.

For a man, the sensations will vary depending on the depth of penetration and the tightness of the vaginal girth of the penis. In order to provide stronger sensations during sex, choose positions in which the man’s penis will be maximally immersed in the vagina and wrapped around its walls.

For greater depth of penetration, positions such as “cowgirl” are suitable (it is also good because you can control the depth of penetration yourself), doggy style, modernized missionary - this version differs from the classic one in that the woman’s pelvis needs to be raised, placed under him a pillow. And in order to strengthen the girth, you need to take a position in which you can cross your legs.

For example, lying on your back with your legs raised up to the ceiling or lying on your stomach with the man on top. Just in case, let us remind you that if you feel discomfort in such positions, you should not go overboard and endure it in order to give a man pleasure.

Not a single member

In order to make a man’s sexual sensations even brighter, you should not pay all your attention exclusively to his penis, although this is, without a doubt, a very sensitive area. No less sensitive to stimulation are the pubis, scrotum, perineum (the area between the scrotum and anus) and the anus itself. Try to caress these areas as well during manual or oral stimulation and you will immediately notice how the man’s pleasure will increase. All men are different, so don’t rush to use all the techniques at once and monitor your partner’s reaction: if he is in a hurry to move away or interrupt contact, you should not insist on stimulating a specific area. How exactly can you caress the areas we listed above?

Pubis

You can stroke it with your palms and thereby tease a man without touching the penis, but inflaming it with touches very close. Note that there may be hair on his pubic area that can be gently pulled back to provide additional blood flow to the groin.

Scrotum

The testicles are a very sensitive and delicate area on a man’s body, so stimulation of this area should be as gentle as possible. You can caress the testicles with your tongue or lips, suck lightly and slightly pull the scrotum down and barely noticeably squeeze both testicles in your palm. Attention: do not squeeze, twist, pinch, pull, or bite! By the way, you can caress the scrotum even during sex, for example, in the “reverse cowgirl” position (when the girl sits with her back to her partner).

Perineum

An incredibly sensitive area between the scrotum and anus, caressing which can stimulate the prostate from the outside. To do this, place your thumb or index finger and caress her with circular pressing movements at the same time as stimulating the penis - this will increase blood flow, semen release and, of course, sensations.

Anal hole

There are a lot of nerve endings around the anus, the stimulation of which can be very pleasant. In order to give a man pleasure, it is not at all necessary to penetrate the anus with a finger or a toy - at first you can limit yourself to caresses around the anus. Be careful with your nails: the skin in this area is very delicate.

Vaginal frictions

The art of vaginal friction is what will help make a man’s sensations during penile-vaginal sex incredibly strong and unlike anything else. The technique of vaginal friction is that a woman, tensing her intimate muscles, stimulates the entire length of the penis with them. In order to master this art, you need to regularly train your intimate muscles with a special trainer or vaginal balls for six months. It is worth saying that trained intimate muscles can not only give a man unforgettable sensations during sex, but also reveal a range of sensations for a woman, because the tight girth of the penis provides the strongest stimulation of the vaginal walls, and the general tone contributes to faster arousal and vivid orgasms.

Also read:

  • Orgasm is not a sign of good sex
  • Erogenous mirror: The mystery of touching during sex solved
  • Horoscope for all zodiac signs for March 2020
  • Why does a woman need an orgasm?

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Unconventional orgasms

I didn’t add this look to the general pile, but you can’t erase the words from the song, even if someone completely rejects such delights among men. Where to go if, in addition to the usual well-known manipulations with the penis and subsequent orgasms, there are methods that lead to the same thing, but as if through the ass, and sometimes not only figuratively, but also in the most literal sense. Just don’t take this close to the genitals, reader – just an introductory excursion.

- prostate massage

Prostate massage is veiled anal sex in order to preserve the reputation of heterosexuals, but we must pay tribute - such a massage is really associated with therapeutic purposes.

Due to the fact that only through the rectum you can put pressure on this vital organ and squeeze out the remnants of stagnant secretion by activating the gland, massage has become firmly established in medical practice. A side effect of this treatment is a real orgasm, which is provoked from within. Its color is completely different and this is what once gave rise to homosexual relationships, in which the penis of the active partner is used as a “massager”.

- urethral irritation

Excitation is achieved through penetration of any objects, water, air, medical instruments, etc. into the urethra. As a result of the urethral impact, its internal part is activated, which leads to rapid arousal and a powerful orgasm. It is used only by extremists, since it can actually cause harm to the body as a whole and the genitourinary canal in particular. Apparently, the brain does not know how to react to such searches for pleasure, so it fights off with orgasms so that they will leave it alone.

- experimental

BDSM is the search for the most effective orgasms through pain.

I myself am not an obvious fan of these sexual trends, but I have an idea of ​​what it’s like to experience an orgasm during a bandage, but not be able to complete it until your partner allows it. Exploding a stick of dynamite in the crotch looks like a mere trifle in comparison. So, through various experiments, BDSM participants actually find new sources of orgasm, even where they should not exist by definition. I will cover this topic, but in a more appropriate place in the book, here I will say one thing: the ways of orgasm are inscrutable, you just need to look for the right ones...

What we don't know about the male orgasm?

It is generally accepted that male sexuality is simpler than female sexuality: according to statistics, 95% of heterosexual men regularly experience orgasm - much more often than women (65%). We have already talked about female orgasm: we cited research results and advice from a sexologist. It's time to talk about men's. Wonderzine magazine author Natasha Fedorenko collected the facts.

The desire to seduce someone in both sexes is provided by testosterone. Men have more of it, since the hormone is responsible not only for libido, but also for the puberty of boys and the development of sexual characteristics.

Men have the highest level of testosterone around the age of 25; after 30, it declines, and this is a normal part of growing up.

Men and women describe the sensations of orgasm very similarly. In both, the pulse and breathing quicken, blood pressure rises, and the level of the “happiness hormone” oxytocin creeps up.

Stereotypes about post-coital behavior may also be based on “chemistry”: people with high testosterone levels (mostly men, but also some women) are in no hurry to cuddle after sex.

Testosterone can distort the effect of oxytocin, which gives a feeling of calm and emotional closeness with a partner.

After ejaculation, a man enters an inevitable refractory phase: he needs rest between sexual acts. The recovery period is individual and can last from several minutes to several hours, on average it takes about half an hour.

An erection does not always indicate sexual arousal; it is divided into three types: spontaneous, reflex and psychogenic. Spontaneous most often occurs in sleep (a man can have 5-6 erections during the night) and in the morning, reflex is a physiological response to touch.

Psychogenic erection, which is controlled by the limbic system of the brain, is responsible for sexual desire. She is influenced by sounds, smells, visual images and everything related to the sexual imagination.

Male orgasm is shorter than female orgasm: on average it lasts about 6-10 seconds, while female orgasm can last more than 20 seconds. “A man’s orgasm consists of two phases. The first occurs when sperm travel through the vas deferens into the urethra. The second is when the prostate and smooth muscles contract, which leads to the release of ejaculate,” explains urologist-andrologist Andrey Gerich. He also notes that it is practically impossible for men to experience multiple orgasms, which occur in women.

Men have excessive demands on the duration of the process. This is an individual indicator, but the norm starts from two to three minutes, says the andrologist.

Another problem in the perception of male sexuality is phallocentrism: for many years the penis was considered the only erogenous zone of men. The body is more complex and sensitive, and the male “G-spot” is not a penis at all, but a prostate. Pleasure is undeservedly simplified and reduced to the same set of movements. Read more about this in Wonderzine.

Conclusion:

The number of cockroaches in each male head is different, but everyone has them.

As a result, many people have their own methods of achieving orgasm, ranging from electric shocks to an electric meat grinder or vacuum cleaner.
All this crap is undoubtedly dangerous in execution, but it is unlikely that anyone will be able to reason with a man in search of a new high. Have you tried fucking a woman in a steam room at a temperature of 90 degrees? No? And the buzz, I’ll tell you, is definitely superior to the usual one, especially if you “drive” into her anus for a short time, and there are a countless number of such examples. If you have read this far, reader, you can be envied, because your search system in this matter has previously worked as it should, and now it has received an incentive to work even better. And don’t believe those who consider your curiosity a perversion; perversion is the trampling of one’s own psychophysiology for the sake of socially approved sexuality.

What does sperm look like in a healthy man?

Healthy human sperm is a transparent, stretchy gray-white substance, sometimes with yellowish lumps. Or they also say that she is milky white. High-quality seminal fluid comes from the male urogenital opening at the end of sexual intercourse. The basis of ejaculate is a special substance that plays a protective role and prevents sperm from dying. Also, germ cells receive nutrients from this substance. Typically the number of these cells is between 15 and 100 million.

White and yellowish color of ejaculate is considered normal.

At the end of sexual intercourse, the male semen will be thick, but then within 5-40 minutes it will become liquefied. The volume of human ejaculate usually ranges from 2-6 ml. Its volume depends on the amount of prostatic secretion and fluid produced in the seminal vesicles.

Normal sperm has a slightly alkaline reaction of 7.2-8 pH. This level allows you to neutralize the vaginal environment that is harmful to the male substance and allow fertilization to occur.

In addition to all of the above, this life-giving liquid includes enzymes, minerals, vitamins, citric acid, amino acids, fructose, prostaglandin, hormones, and proteins.

How many grams of sperm does a person have?

When a man ejaculates, about 3 grams of semen is released. But depending on individual characteristics, this indicator may differ. Sometimes this value can be increased to 6 or even 10 grams. Every day the weight of sperm increases by 0.5 grams. The longer you abstain, the heavier your seed and eggs become.

During sexual intercourse, only 10% of the semen is released. As a result, a person with strong potency is capable of several copulations during the day.

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