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Girls who pay attention to a Scorpio man will find it difficult to build a relationship with him. This water sign is considered not only very mysterious, if not strange, but also with a rather complex character. Rumors and legends about his cruelty, jealousy, and vindictiveness have been circulating among the people for a long time. So, let's tell you in more detail how to behave with a Scorpio man .
Scorpio men
Distinguished by their courage, sometimes bordering on madness, and enviable determination, these representatives of the zodiac diaspora are not devoid of high intelligence.
They are meticulous about their toilet, paying special attention to shoes, and masterfully know how to choose them. By the way, in matters of appearance, you can always turn to them for advice; they are not only able to tell the truth about the look, but also help you choose a completely worthy image.
In many ways, this character trait gives the right to be very demanding of one’s surroundings. To a greater extent this concerns the lady of the heart.
The equanimity of the representative of this sign is deceptive. Beneath the feigned serenity lies unbridled passion and ardor. This manifests itself not only in business and friendship, but most of all in love and intimate relationships. Scorpio will pursue the object of his sympathy and lust with great zeal, and not without imagination.
2% despotism
Family is the highest value; he jealously protects the family hearth and values comfort. He takes all the power in the house for himself, but this should not be perceived as despotism, rather, pleasant family slavery in the position of mistress, because Scorpio will take on the lion's share of family problems and concerns. He does not disdain any work and is capable of repairing a car and weeding beds with great skill.
How to communicate
Such a man attaches great importance to the moment of communication. If you managed to find a common language and topics for conversation with him, then we can assume that the path to his heart has been found. Capable of having intimate conversations, but he will never let you into the wilds of his own soul. Therefore, it is better to talk about abstract topics, even if they relate to intimate moments.
Watch the video. 10 features of the zodiac sign Scorpio.
The main thing in communicating with Scorpio is to voice your thoughts, to be sincere, because even a well-disguised falsehood will not escape his vigilant and distrustful mind. You shouldn’t surprise him with your knowledge, try to seem smarter, or show cunning.
It is important for Scorpio that there is a dialogue with the interlocutor; you should not try to mirror and pretend to be engrossed in the conversation. He will soon get bored with this, and he, not always showing courtesy and consideration, will simply leave. You can forget about further communication after this forever.
In disputes he can be harsh, arrogant, fiercely defending his point of view, capable of slander and inflicting painful insults. Having no desire and opportunity to argue, it is better to let him throw out a flurry of emotions and change the topic to something no less interesting to him.
How to understand a Scorpio man
How to make a Scorpio man fall in love with you
Don't expect him to take the initiative himself. If he liked you, then he Scorpio man will not immediately strive to conquer you. He will think about everything first, although it would seem that there is nothing to think about here. Scorpios are distinguished by the fact that they think a lot and aimlessly. In his thoughts, he can live with you until the end of his days, propose to you, move to a new house, have offspring, but in real life he won’t even give you a date. What for? After all, his whole life with you has already been lived in his head.
How then can you make a Scorpio man fall in love with you? The answer is simple: show interest in him, but do not impose.
A Scorpio man can be demanding and touchy; his requests should not be ignored. Become indispensable to him. Take all his requests seriously and under no circumstances try to train your sense of humor on him. If you accidentally offend or offend him, you may, without knowing it, make an enemy for yourself. He will never show that he is offended, but he can hide and, on occasion, take revenge on you beautifully. And instead of your beloved, you will make an enemy for yourself.
If the Scorpio man himself takes a step towards you and openly declares his sympathy, then you need to seize the moment: he really likes you very much. Don’t go around in circles for a long time, give an answer quickly - there may not be a second time.
How to understand Scorpio: labyrinths of the mind
Scorpios are very different from each other. It is very difficult to understand them, but almost all representatives of this sign have similar character traits.
The Scorpio man loves to be frank and cannot stand falsehood. If he openly talks to you, then you need to answer him in the same way. This man has very developed intuition. It is very difficult to deceive him.
Don't torture him with questions. If he doesn’t want to, then no one will know what’s in his soul, and uncomfortable questions can only cause irritation in a Scorpio man.
You will immediately understand that he does not like you. When communicating, he will literally amaze you with his coldness and aloofness.
The Scorpio man does not buy flattery. He simply does not need anyone's assessments. He is extremely skeptical about other people's opinions, and even more so about criticism. Your compliments may leave him indifferent; moreover, he may suspect you of lying and withdraw into himself.
Sometimes this man feels insecure. He needs to be pushed to take decisive action. However, too much pressure can also scare him away. The most important thing here is to feel that he really likes you.
The Scorpio man is like an impregnable fortress. To melt his heart you need to be patient. It may take years before he begins to trust you, and even then not completely. There should always be an untouched corner in his soul where his deepest desires are safely stored.
The magnetism of the Scorpio man fascinates and attracts the attention of women. Having experienced his gaze, it is no longer possible to remain indifferent. Most Scorpios need to carefully study a woman before starting a serious relationship with her or tying the knot.
One thing is certain: communicating with a Scorpio man will not be easy. You will have to make an effort to get closer to him and become a truly close person to him.
Scorpio man in love
To say that he is jealous is to say nothing. He is capable of frightening an unprepared woman with his jealousy. The Scorpio man is suspicious, but remember, if he is jealous of you, it means he really likes you. His jealousy is such a peculiar manifestation of feelings.
At times he can be cruel and cold, his outbursts of jealousy can sometimes drive you crazy, but living together with a Scorpio man will bring more joy and confidence in the future than resentment and disappointment. The main thing is to understand him and be loyal to his weaknesses.
How to behave correctly with a Scorpio man
All his mystery, indifference and equanimity is just a mask behind which Scorpio hides his vulnerable and sensual soul. And you shouldn’t be afraid of him - he won’t be able to really sting a girl with his poisonous sting.
True, the girl should not hope that he can be henpecked. His ideal woman is a girl with taste and charm, seductive and feminine. So bitches who are used to going over the heads of others to their goals should not hope for a continuation of the romance.
Advice to all women who are in a relationship with a Scorpio man - be sincere. Thanks to his incredible intuition, he senses any falsehood from a distance.
Also, you should not push him to take active action by flirting with other men - most often such an act by a woman causes the opposite effect, Scorpio simply ends the relationship.
Don't provoke him, don't betray him, and don't point out his weaknesses, especially in the presence of strangers. Despite all his missteps, he may well cede the helm of the family boat to his chosen one, but at the moment of crisis it smoothly passes back into his hands, thereby showing who really is the captain of the family ship.
On the first date
It is recommended to go to it in a somewhat revealing outfit. Remember that the image of a Scorpio wife-mother is not attractive. His ideal is a sensual and passionate person who loves sex no less than he does.
On your first date with him, the main thing is to act sincerely. Show interest in him, but don't throw yourself on his neck. It’s better that he wins you over and not the first time.
At the beginning of a relationship
If a woman, in Scorpio’s opinion, is worthy of his attention, then she needs to wait for active and decisive steps on his part. Signs of a Scorpio in love are a magnetic gaze, original courtship, he wants to spend almost all his time with you, sincerely showing understanding and care for you.
During this period, a woman is advised not to impose herself on him, not to give reasons for jealousy on his part, and not to make a scene with hers.
Scorpio man is offended and silent: what to do
Many ladies are very concerned about this question. Here are some tips if your Scorpio man is offended and you don't know how to behave. After a quarrel with the enigmatic and mysterious Scorpio, it will be difficult to return to his former disposition. Therefore, the advice of astrologers for the chosen one of Scorpio: “try to avoid quarrels, in this case you will not have to look for ways to reconcile.”
If Scorpio is offended, do not try to get hung up on the scandal, do not pretend to be a vindictive bitch. You just need to calmly wait a while, maybe during this period he will forget about the quarrel between you and you won’t have to apologize.
To get an answer to the question of how to behave if he is offended, you need to know the character traits of this sign. Due to his difficult character, there is always a reason for a scandal. Especially if the chosen one’s character is not sugar.
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Scorpio is self-confident, has a strong, unshakable will and is ready to do anything to achieve his goals. A woman, in order to get along with such a difficult man, must show maximum wisdom and understanding.
Before you begin reconciliation, you need to find out from Scorpio the degree of resentment, and only then begin to act. It must be remembered that by nature, representatives of the sign are truth-tellers and never forgive betrayal or lies. If you value the relationship and do not want it to end, then try to meet with him and talk frankly. Remember that he cannot stand lies, so there is not a word of lie in the conversation. Everything is truthful and concise. If you are sincere, then such an act on your part will raise you in his eyes.
100% possessiveness in relationships
It’s not for nothing that they say about Scorpios that they are jealous owners, so if you don’t want him to be offended by you, try not to make him feel jealous on purpose. Don't flirt with his friends - he will consider this a betrayal on his part and on your part.
Again, when trying to improve your relationship, remember that you cannot stand any sign of weakness on the part of your interlocutor. Therefore, do not humiliate yourself, do not call him every minute with apologies and requests to forgive.
Also, do not try to somehow manipulate his feelings for you, and God forbid you put conditions on him. Blackmail will only aggravate his resentment and you will have no chance of reconciliation. None.
How to keep a Scorpio man?
Since it is catastrophically difficult to keep this man, you will always have to be on top - today you are an unapproachable bitch, tomorrow you are a caring housewife (invite him to visit, spoil him with goodies), the day after tomorrow you are a romantic, pampered person. Don't forget about different makeup, and even clothing styles.
Scorpio may be upset by your excessive thoughtfulness. You shouldn’t do this, be easy and carefree in his company. Never talk about marriage, but make it clear that you think the girl should get married, and this is one of your goals.
Don't make the mistake of flirting with others in front of a Scorpio, but make sure others admire you. It is important for Scorpio to know that someone else likes his girlfriend.
When it comes to sex, you will need to do everything in your power to be both innocent and passionate at the same time. However, in the future, Scorpio himself will tell you the rules by which he always plays. This must be taken for granted and this applies not only to intimate life.
The Scorpio man believes that even if he has a girlfriend, he is allowed to flirt with others. He doesn't consider it anything extraordinary. Therefore, creating scenes of jealousy and hysteria is strictly prohibited, otherwise you risk becoming persona non grata.
But you shouldn’t turn a blind eye to this. Just be always irresistible so that he doesn’t want to flirt with anyone anymore. As practice shows, Scorpio can be “tied to you for a long time” with the same unbridled, complex character as his. Don't let him relax. He always needs a hunt and you must arrange it for him. Within normal limits, of course.
I would like to note that men are all similar to each other to some extent. For everyone, you need to be good in public, passionate in bed, mistress of the house. Scorpio has more exaggerated demands - you need to be well-mannered, slightly daring, have taste and style, be competent and liberated where there are only two of you left.
This game is quite interesting, because by conquering a Scorpio man, you yourself re-educate, become different, and, as practice shows, better. So - if you meet a Scorpio man, expect changes for the better!
Scorpio is a creature of the desert. Therefore, his love can burn you with its fiery intensity. If you want to be happy in your relationship with a Scorpio, here is a list of things to keep in mind.
Think of it as sunscreen. You'd use it in the desert to avoid getting burned, right?
