What unnecessary things should I get rid of?
You won't wear them again. There is a rule - if you haven’t worn an item for more than a year and a half, feel free to say goodbye to it. There's a 99% chance you won't wear it again. And we don’t need extra things in the closet.
They are out of fashion. No matter how beautiful these clothes are, they will no longer look as fresh as before.
Irrelevant things. Suppose you changed the office with its strict dress code to freelance or went on maternity leave and do not plan to return. In this case, it is unlikely that you will need all these formal suits and black skirts.
Clothes don't fit. If you've had pants and skirts lying around for a long time that are too small or too big for you, get rid of them without regret. Have you noticed how burdensome you feel with the thought “when I return to my previous size, then I’ll wear it again”? Let's make life a little more enjoyable.
Clothes that have lost their appearance. Holes, stains that cannot be washed off, stretched T-shirts and knees - we leave all this in the past. Don't relegate it to loungewear because it's a shame - you'll feel better in neat sets. This category also includes stockings/socks/tights with holes and arrows.
Underwear that you have been wearing for more than 1.5-2 years.
Clothes that remind you of unpleasant events. Think for yourself, if just the sight of it evokes negative emotions, why keep such a burden in your wardrobe? Yes, we get rid of it, even if it is in good condition or cost you a lot.
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Inspection of cabinets
Wardrobes and mezzanines are the most “cluttered” places in the house. How to quickly get rid of unnecessary things and clothes accumulated there? It's quite simple! We take everything out of the closet and begin the “audit”.
Psychologists say, and we will not argue with this obvious fact: clothes that you have not worn for more than a year, you will most likely never wear again! We arm ourselves with this rule and begin to sort through the rubble in the closet, strictly and meticulously inspecting each item. A blouse that was last worn three years ago to a corporate party, jeans that have become noticeably too small, a woolen sweater given by your beloved aunt that you last wore “never”... Let’s put all this away from the closet for a longer time!
But what about things that are almost new or even completely new, but are not the right size? You can’t throw it away, and further storage has lost all meaning. Take another large bag (we already have one for garbage), and put all such things there. Then you can simply give them away to acquaintances and friends, neighbors, colleagues. Or you can take them to a thrift store, fortunately, there are a lot of them now. Let things still serve people, and not accumulate dust in a dark closet!
In your wardrobe we only leave what you wear every day and those things that fit your size. Have you noticed how thin your shelves and hangers are? Well, at least there is a reason to go to the store to update your wardrobe with two or three fashionable items.
Get creative with cleaning! Let the process of decluttering your home stop being a chore and become a little exploration and adventure. Have you noticed how easy it is to breathe in a clean apartment? How much free space does it have? The closet door no longer opens under the pressure of things accumulated in it, and it’s just nice to go out onto the balcony to freshen up, because you are no longer bothered by old cans and a broken chair?
Things that need repair
Needs to be sutured or shortened. A small life hack: clothes will fit better if, after purchase, you customize them to fit yourself in a tailor shop. Don’t skimp on small amounts, because things that fit your body will look more impressive and will justify the cost of modification.
Repair a zipper, clasp, sew on a button. Most often, outerwear requires such repairs - check carefully whether there are items in your wardrobe that need “help.”
The best part is the things we leave behind
Clothes that are in good condition, that you can put on right then and there and that you wear most often. Another life hack: try hanging all the things you use during the week on a separate rail. We should save this part of the wardrobe first (with the exception of damaged items).
Season trends. The item at the height of fashion? Great, let’s leave it and combine it with basic wardrobe items in everyday looks.
Things that combine with each other. It happens that there is a jacket that is beautiful in itself, but does not suit anything. And there are things that go well with most of the wardrobe and harmoniously connect its disparate items with each other.
Energy
Now a few slightly mystical things that, in my opinion, are related to clearing the apartment of trash:
- Things don't always remind you of good things. They can also remind you of bad things. We need to get rid of this.
- They say that old things that are not used carry frozen energy. Therefore, they bring something not very good to your apartment.
- When your home is dirty and cluttered, so is your mind and soul.
- When there is a lot of junk at home, there is no room for something new and good.
- When you cleanse your home, you cleanse your mind.
- The old consumes energy. Sometimes literally. Because removing it makes us tired.
- After hanging a new item in the closet, throw away the oldest one.
- When we leave something for some emergency , we attract it.
- By collecting things that are not needed now, we program ourselves for poverty. Collecting old things is precisely its sign.
- Broken equipment is another source of drainage of your energy.
“Throw out the trash from the house and call old friends” is an excellent chorus from Alexander Ivanov’s song, which is good for getting rid of trash. Listen.
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List of basic things
After we got rid of the unnecessary stuff in our closets and our heads (isn’t it easier?), we make a list of what you need to buy.
Here is a list of the most basic things that it is advisable to have in every wardrobe:
- classic blue jeans
- White shirt
- a pair of T-shirts (white and beige)
- simple black dress for all occasions
- stylish plain home suit made of natural fabric
- nude lingerie set
- sand trench coat
- jumper
Your list should not be limited to the base - play, buy bright items that will match the base. But do it wisely - if you are lost, it is better to seek help from a stylist. At the same time, the basic wardrobe will be the basis on which you can build any images - romantic, daring and trendy.
How to sort out a children's wardrobe?
The same rules apply here as for an adult - divide clothes into three categories and, without regret, say goodbye to things from the “get rid” point, put in order those that require repair, and leave things in good condition.
Do not spare children's things and allow children to wear beautiful dresses, light shirts and shorts and “going out” clothes at home or on a regular walk. After all, kids grow up so quickly, and the clothes that we so carefully protect go to others. It is important to accustom your child to beauty and style from childhood. Girls who wear clothes at home that “don’t mind” will most likely grow up to wear robes with stains because that’s what they’re used to.
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This doesn't just apply to children. Don't be afraid to wear expensive, high-quality clothes every day. Moreover, it needs to be done. Don't put off life until later. Live fully, easily and beautifully right now. Wearing a nice robe when you get out of the shower, putting on a dressy skirt and an expensive top when you go to the store. Life is in every moment lived, and for a woman it begins with order in her wardrobe!
It is better to burn the deceased's belongings
When a person dies, a piece of his soul remains in the things he used. This is especially true: favorite clothes, jewelry, bed linen. How to properly dispose of them?
Bioenergetics all over the world indicate that the energy of a living person is different from the energy of a deceased person. Many psychics, examining the things of the dead and touching them, can say with certainty that the former owner of the thing is dead.
The energy of death is addictive, it is cold and more viscous than the energy of life. It is quite difficult to get rid of it. After washing an item, it is impossible to erase information about the life and death of its owner. Therefore, it is undesirable to use these items so that negative karma does not pass on to a living person. But what to do if a relative left behind an expensive item that you can’t throw away? Or do you just want to preserve the memory of a loved one?
After the death of a person, it is necessary to restore complete order in his room and home. Throw away all unnecessary things, simply junk. Clean furniture, floors, walls, windows. Wash everything that can be washed. It is better to get rid of furniture that is old and not very valuable. This is especially true for the bed. It is better to burn clothes that the deceased loved and often wore, since they are full of information about his fate, life and emotional state. The same applies to personal hygiene items, underwear and bed linen. For example, if a person died from a serious illness, all these things probably managed to accumulate information about the illness, about the grief and sadness that the dying person experienced. This energy will definitely not have a positive impact on future owners.
Due to the shortage of clothing, especially outer clothing, in the Middle Ages the things of the deceased were happily taken by relatives and friends. Today, the majority do not have such an urgent need, so if it is possible to give the things of the deceased to someone for use, then only a few of them: expensive fur coats and coats; dresses and suits that were not worn on a significant or mournful date, as well as clothes that were used extremely rarely. The distribution process should begin only after 40 days from the date of death.
It happens that the deceased bequeaths his belongings to one of his relatives. Then (after 40 days after death) you can use them without fear.
Jewelry is a separate matter, because few people would agree to throw away an emerald ring or a pearl necklace. If the deceased wore jewelry constantly, and it was with him at the time of death, the energy is stored for a very long time, tens or even hundreds of years. This applies, first of all, to precious stones. For example, an opal quickly forgets its former owner, but a diamond or diamond chooses its owner for centuries, absorbing a piece of his soul. It is also necessary to know for what purposes the deceased used the jewelry. If you simply wore it as decorative jewelry, then the product can be kept for several days in direct sunlight or consecrated in a church. But if you used it for magical rituals, this is a completely different situation. Thoughtlessly appropriating such items can have very serious consequences, and no amount of cleaning will help.
There are cases when, with decoration, a person receives additional abilities that the deceased possessed. It could be a gift, or it could be karma. Therefore, this aspect should be treated with extreme caution, weighing all the pros and cons.
Some people try to sell the things left behind by a person who has passed on to another world. But the money raised in this way should be spent on good deeds that will benefit someone.
Often the relatives of the deceased begin to divide property even before his burial. This sin is also aggravated by the desire for profit. It is believed that the soul that has not yet been put to rest is watching everything that happens in its former home, and punishment for such atrocities of relatives will not be long in coming.
Books, paintings, and notes of the deceased can be stored along with other things in the house. Most often, they do not store or relay any negativity. If the family still wants to get rid of them, then it is better to give them to good people from the bottom of your heart. Such a gift will not bring anything bad.
The beloved mirror of the deceased, which he often admired for a long time during his lifetime, should be buried in the ground, perhaps even at the grave. You can't use it. The remaining mirrors should be removed and wiped well.
When a child dies, suffering, grief, despair and sorrow have no boundaries. This is the worst thing that can happen, especially for a mother. Therefore, some families leave the children's room untouched in memory of the baby. But it's better not to do this! It is believed that in this way the child’s soul becomes attached to this place and finds no peace. Therefore, children's things and toys should not be stored - it is better to burn them. Only the most beloved and expensive items, such as memories, can be carefully folded into a large suitcase or box, tied with tape or ropes and hidden away so that you can look at them only occasionally.
It is better to bury a child’s favorite doll or toy with him, but never give it to another child. Children's energy is much weaker than that of adults; there are often cases when misfortunes happen to children after such gifts. Even if the older child has died, the younger one should not be dressed in the deceased’s clothes.
It is worth noting that modern psychics and bioenergetics offer hundreds of ways to cleanse things of negative energy, including the energy of death. Some use magical rituals for this, others use holy water and prayers, others use spells, etc. However, there is an opinion that it is only worse for the deceased if the living constantly remember them by wearing their clothes or using their things.
What is symbolic is that in the Eastern tradition it is customary to get rid of the deceased’s belongings almost immediately after death, so that nothing holds the soul of the deceased on Earth. So that he can calmly make the transition to reincarnation. Death comes and the soul is free. Who knows, perhaps this approach is optimal in deciding whether it is possible to wear things after a deceased person. But everyone must decide for themselves, choosing what their heart tells them - this will be fair.
Source: Hiromantia.net, Zhenskoe-mnenie.ru
