Many people ask questions: are people-energy vampires a myth or reality, how can a person feed on the energy of his own kind, what is the danger of the presence of such a person in a team. Arm yourself with the knowledge to resist when you meet him.
A parasitic person who feeds on the energy of other people is an energy vampire.
In recent times, vampirism is on the verge of an epidemic, which is capturing a huge part of humanity. Yes, vampirism is a disease. Energy vampires are susceptible to various viruses, and when fed with someone else’s energy, they provoke illness in victims. Among people, there are two types of vampires:
A person who is unaware of his own illness. Anyone can become a vampire. But such people do not pose a danger to society. Think about it, have there ever been times when you felt energy starvation - during illness or when you were very tired? This is one of the signs of vampirism. There are those who are fueled by walks in nature and relaxation, while others are fueled by other things.
Someone who consciously consumes someone else's energy. Hatred and aggression constantly live next to such people. Inciting a stormy scandal from scratch, they suck out a huge amount of vital energy from the victim. And then, when they get relief, they become good-natured and smiling.
Vampirism begins in childhood. The baby’s energy field has poor protection; he easily absorbs the emotions of the people around him. A child growing up in a negative environment becomes aggressive and selfish, trying to improve his own internal state through scandalous situations.
Such teenagers form groups full of hatred and destructive power. In search of energy recharge, they destroy everything in their path, mock the weak or animals, set fire and paint everything around them. Adult life makes such children real tyrants in the family and aggressors at work.
Energy vampires around us
In life we constantly have to deal with such people. It is possible that a vampire is also present in the family: a pathological jealous person is the first candidate for the role of an energy parasite. The husband's suspicions, the mother-in-law's reproaches, the mother-in-law's nagging, the children's whims - all these are attacks of vampirism. A professional cluster of vampires is present in bureaucratic services - at the post office, in bank tellers, in public utilities. The vampirism of the crowd, which takes place at rallies and strikes, becomes a destructive force.
Signs of an energy vampire
- To feed himself, he will bring a person out of moral balance. To achieve this, including stupidity and awkwardness, the student vampire pesters the mentor victim with questions and mistakes.
- The vampire starts the barrel organ with wasted talk, which cannot be stopped. All unsuccessful attempts to end the conversation turn into holding the telephone receiver to your ear for hours on end.
- People who feed on other people's energy try to get jobs in accounting departments, banks and social services in order to create situations of expectation of something. A person will suffer for hours under the office, and completely exhausted and irritated will become easy prey for a vampire.
- When they tell the details of terrible incidents, disasters, or deaths, vampires strive to evoke feelings of fear, compassion, or violent indignation in their victims.
- Cats are an indicator that indicates the presence of an energy vampire. The animal does not like such people and will never make friends with them.
- Vampires are honest and frank people. They express their own point of view directly to your face, often negative.
- Such people resort to direct contact - they strive to touch you for any reason or cuddle with you on public transport.
When communication with a certain person causes you irritation, and after the conversation you feel inner emptiness and weakness, the interlocutor is an energy vampire.
Energy vampires - who are they?
In a group of colleagues, among neighbors and acquaintances, and even in the family, there are very often people whose presence is very difficult to tolerate. And the point is not only in their appearance, character or useless conversations, but in the fact that they know how to psychologically exhaust and secretly control those around them, and also simply leave them without vitality. It is these people who are often called energy vampires.
These subjects slowly, drop by drop, take away the life force from a person, sometimes unconsciously, without realizing it. But more often than not, such individuals are deliberately fueled by someone else’s energy.
According to bioenergetics and, all people live and feel relatively well only due to their own vital energy. But often individuals steal it from others. And if generating your own energy or exchanging positive emotions is a normal and useful phenomenon, then their theft is a negative and in some way dangerous situation.
An ordinary person replenishes energy reserves through positive emotions, love, joy, communication with nature and friends, but some people find it easier to steal energy from another person.
Defense against attack
After we learned about this phenomenon and how to identify an energy vampire, it’s time to learn how to protect yourself and your loved ones. Try not to enter into an open and aggressive conflict with a vampire; he deliberately provokes you to display emotional reactions. During a heated discussion, do not look him in the eye - it’s easier to drain the energy.
Reject communication with potential losers, or rather, with those who constantly complain about life and reproach their unfortunate fate. Do not be afraid of being judged that you are ruthless and do not know how to sympathize with others. These eternal whiners need your life energy, and the one who really needs help will never complain and will smile when they meet.
When it is impossible to avoid contact with an energy vampire, cross your arms and legs when talking to close your own chakras. Mentally build barriers from such people, imagine a high wall that protects you from attack, or imagine that you are moving into a glass flask and communicating with a vampire through thick glass, where he cannot penetrate. Remember, your energy cannot be taken away when you are in a balanced state.
In conclusion, to avoid becoming a vampire or being attacked by one, do not allow negative emotions to fill your life. Constant irritability and anger produce certain chemicals in the body that are addictive. And soon we ourselves will need recharge. Don’t become an eternal irritant, don’t join the gray mass of humanity. Life is beautiful and successful for those people who are filled with positive emotions and optimism.
How do energy vampires behave?
To identify a person who feeds on someone else’s energy, you need to become familiar with their behavior. Most often, it is typical and manifests itself in one way or another in all representatives of vampires.
Energy vampires are very annoying and clingy individuals. Visiting people unannounced is considered their favorite technique. In communication, they always try to piss off other people. Vampires often play music or television loudly, which causes anger and irritation in those around them and gives them the necessary fuel.
They structure their communication in such a way that sooner or later they provoke irritation or a feeling of awkwardness. Vampires can talk for several hours only about their feelings or problems, unpleasant situations in the family or at work, quarrels and numerous illnesses.
Any scandals and quarrels are a favorite topic for a vampire. The negative emotions of the scandal feed these subjects. Tactile contact is also important for them, which helps them better absorb a vital resource. This is especially felt in crowded transport, leaving which an ordinary person feels empty. There is an opinion that in the presence of such vampires, various equipment regularly breaks down, and flowers at home do not survive.
Many hidden vampires acquire large dogs , which are considered strong donors of energy. Representatives of the cat family categorically cannot stand them. A cat will never come close to a person suspected of vampirism.
What do vampires do to steal energy?
They impose themselves. It’s difficult to get away from them: to send you out of the office; they are always ready to run into your home for a cup of tea and stay until late in the evening. Irritation of the owners is a reward for the vampire.
They provoke. They need strong emotions. To get them, vampires provoke the victim into scandals, rude statements or tears.
They are rude. They are ready to insult and publicly humiliate. Massive scandals fuel the vampire’s inner strength for a long time.
They irritate others. They play loud music that disturbs others. During work meetings, they drum their fingers on the table or crack their knuckles - everything to attract attention.
They evoke pity and sympathy. These are their favorite emotions. Crying at fate so that they will regret it is a favorite technique.
They are jealous. Vampires are jealous not only of their wives/husbands, but also of family members, friends, colleagues and business partners.
They don't complete tasks and miss deadlines. Not keeping a promise, “forgetting” about a task, ignoring agreements are typical tricks of vampires.
They are trying to touch you. It is easier to take energy through touch. Vampires are fans of “accidentally” bumping into each other in the corridor, jostling in public transport, grabbing hands in conversation, and invading a person’s personal space.
How do I know if I'm a vampire?
A vampire is a person who is emotionally dependent on people and events. Vampirism awakens in you if:
- you begin to experience withdrawal symptoms due to the absence of certain emotions in life;
- you feel empty and have an irresistible desire to call your friend and tell her how bad you feel;
- a lack of energy appears and the thought comes that you need to start a relationship with someone;
- a lack of vitality appears, and you provoke scandals out of the blue, causing strong negative emotions in loved ones;
- I want to tell someone the “truth”;
- it seems important to you to discuss someone, to speak negatively about his activities.
Strong scandals and a storm of negative emotions from surrounding people give the vampire a wonderful mood and well-being. Stressful situations do not exhaust the vampire, but, on the contrary, cheer him up and he begins to help everyone. You can easily track your vampirism.
For example, if you are about to tell an important “truth” about someone, and your interlocutor replies that he does not want to discuss it because it is undignified. The vampire will certainly become worse, because he was not allowed to be filled with negativity. Or if you are talking about difficult events, but your interlocutor does not react at all. The vampire will definitely go berserk, because his next manipulation has failed. At the same time, he himself will not understand what irritates him so much.
Why do vampires steal energy?
Energy vampires have low energy levels and try to “fill themselves up” at the expense of others. Such people do not realize that they are vampires, but simply look for sources of energy as best they can.
They are unhappy people who do not know how to get joy from life . They do not enjoy the success of others, they do not know how to empathize.
Deep down, vampires believe they cannot get the love and energy they crave on their own. And they believe that the only way to get what they need is to take it from others.
Vampires live in perpetual despair and lack. Their beliefs reduce their vital energy. They are spiritually weak, out of harmony with themselves.
In fact, they need help. But in order to accept this help, they must realize that they are “vampiring” those around them. And it’s difficult to perceive yourself as a problem person.
How to recognize a vampire: 13 signs
1. They love to evoke compassion and pity from others - this gives them great nourishment 2. They feed through negative attention to themselves: they like to provoke quarrels and fights around themselves 3. They are deceitful and insincere with people 4. They hit at the most unexpected moment, when you are weak and not ready to answer
5. Creating a feeling of guilt in us is their favorite form of attack (this is how they feel their power) 6. Whatever you reveal to them, then they will turn it against you 7. They do not trust anyone, they are always very suspicious 8. They are always in need to feel something, and because of this they are looking for extreme sports and adrenaline rushes 9. They want to win everywhere and at any cost, thinking: “Only I am always right, and you are wrong” 10. Most of them live in fear that supposedly everything want to take away their energy 11. Many skillfully hide their aggression 12. They like to manipulate people in order to feel needed and loved 13. They are attracted to open people and those who have no personal boundaries
How do we steal energy?
First level
The most common way to steal someone else's energy is to cause negative emotions in another person. To do this, it is enough to report about the crisis, the difficult situation in the country, tell a friend that she looks bad, or a man that he is behaving unworthily, in a word, load the person with negativity.
Second level
It is necessary to bring the work started to the end in order to evoke strong emotions in the opponent in the form of fear, tears, anger, breakdown, psychosis and unbridled aggression. And then calmly ask: “Why are you so nervous?” There are vampires who cannot imagine life without provocations and contradictions; they often quarrel with loved ones, since there is a lot of energy there. All sorts of intrigues, dirty gossip, and hints are used. Women who like to break up other people's families have come to me for consultation more than once.
How we give away our life force: types of psychological vampires around us
Moreover, the vampire’s actions are unconscious. As soon as a woman destroys someone else’s family, creating pain, scandals and difficult emotions there, she loses interest in her partner and understands that “this is not mine.” For some time she feeds on the received negativity, then again looks for the next victim.
Typical vampirism
In this case, for the most part, sporting interest is at play. A vampire makes the opposite sex fall in love with him, then breaks up with his partner. As a result, the vampire is saturated with strong feelings, bitterness and pain caused to the other half for a long time. And there are more than enough such emotions here.
Provocative appearance, behavior
The vampire provokes people around him to display negative emotions through defiant appearance or actions. This is a kind of narcissistic vampire who feeds on other people's energy through his appearance and behavior. This could be bright clothes, excessive makeup, indecent speech, causing laughter, or looking from under your brows. I saw such women, and they were quite adequate individuals from decent families, with a good profession. At the same time, they fed on someone else’s energy; for this they only had to dress brightly and somewhat vulgarly.
Provoking self-pity
Vampires constantly complain about life, dramatizing the situation. If you begin to feel sorry for them, they will begin to shamelessly become saturated with your energy. Empathy and sympathy are good qualities, but don't let them develop into pity, as this way you feed their weakness, not their strength.
Guilt
This feeling is familiar to each of us. If a vampire makes another person feel guilty, he will thus create an energy bridge through which he will feed on energy.
Rescuer syndrome
Although this is a very noble method in appearance, it actually causes no less damage than other types of vampires. In this case, a person always tries to help someone, although he himself has a large burden of emotional trauma and resentment on his shoulders. The vampire diligently teaches his acquaintances and friends about how to live, gives out advice, and gives lectures. If the victim listens to the vampire’s advice and begins to actively work on himself, then the rescuer will receive part of the embodied energy.
The role of the rescuer
When we save someone, we get a lot of energy. Some people get so carried away by this that they become obsessed with the idea of doing a good deed, but in the worst possible sense. Energy vampires are not always aware of their actions; they carry out most manipulations on an unconscious level. Vampires think: “Masha must find out the truth about how she gained weight!” They don’t think at all: “Now I’ll upset Masha and feel better!”
Psychological reasons: why a man drinks
Why do we become vampires?
Often we absorb the energy of those around us unconsciously. And this happens because we have powerful energy holes that take away our own vital energy. There are many sinkholes that absorb energy. Each of them is destructive: constant stress, judgment, categoricalness, idle talk, excessive haste, worry, living in the past, living in the future, trying to adapt to everyone. All this pumps energy out of us and forces us to attend trainings or suck energy out of others.
