How to break an unnecessary connection with your ex?

Everyone has situations in life when, having parted with a person, we remember him for several years. An attempt to get him out of our heads and our thoughts ended the same way; we still think about this person. The reason for this is the strong energy connection that has formed between people. In the process of any communication, an energetic connection is formed between people. By communicating, we create energy channels through which energy exchange occurs. A binding is also a channel, but built incorrectly.

This channel is built on a person’s dependence on someone or something (for example, dependence on the egregor of the church). The correct flow of energy is disrupted, a person who has an attachment becomes energetically unfree. In the process of life, we ourselves create attachments to things and events, and this slows down our development, makes us dependent and makes us easily controlled by others.

Getting rid of etheric chains

When our attachments to a person or object are implicated in fear, we tie it to ourselves with etheric chains. They look like hollow tubes. And the longer this relationship lasts, the more massive the chains become. This means that the most massive chains connect us with our relatives, children and those people with whom we have been communicating for a long time.

Along etheric chains, energy can flow in both directions. They are created by fear and are always harmful to humans, they always indicate a violation of some functions of the body. They have nothing to do with harmonious relationships and love that connects body and soul.

Breaking the etheric chains does not mean breaking off a relationship with a person, it means healing those relationships, improving them and filling them with Love. For example, you are connected by an etheric chain to a friend or relative who is experiencing depression. Your energy will flow to this person. You will get tired for no apparent reason. If the energy goes into the etheric pipe, then no auxiliary means will help restore strength. If someone with whom you have an etheric connection is angry, then his negative energy flows through the etheric chains directly into your body and chakras. Then, for no apparent reason, you may experience pain that cannot be treated.

Those people whose profession involves constantly helping others - teachers, educators, healers - are often shrouded in the chains of affection of their students and patients. If a person constantly helps friends or family out of trouble, the same thing happens to him.

It is very important to get rid of etheric chains. If, after breaking up with a person, you begin to communicate with him again, and if there is fear in your relationship, the etheric chains may appear again. The new chains are thinner, but your energy flows through them, and someone else’s energy flows in instead.

WHO IS THE TECHNIQUE FOR CUT OFF BINDERS INTENDED?

It will be useful to psychologists, psychotherapists, teachers, coaches and other “helping” professions..

Energy connections are formed between you and your clients, patients, students, and even colleagues. If you have helped a person once, then on a subconscious level he begins to consider you an assistant for all occasions, a panacea for problems, a person who can help more than once. This is how a connection is formed. Later, being in a state of decline and poor health, the person connected with you will begin, without controlling it or even wanting to, to suck the energy out of you. These are the connections that should be cut off.

For men and women who are at the end of their relationship and who are divorced.

Exes are very tightly bound to each other, and because of this, they cannot immediately feel freedom from the relationship. At some point, someone pulls the string on their part, causing sudden outbursts of passion, sexual desire, aggression or sadness in their ex-partner or themselves. Women, as a rule, are more clearly attached to their partner, and therefore give much more energy than men. So that this does not happen, and you can calmly and harmoniously start a new relationship and build your life further, it is necessary to cut all the threads to the past.

Those who give promises, vows and oaths to people around.

We will not go into detail about the events during which this or that promise was made. You could promise a person eternal love, never leave him or not let him down, achieve joint success in any business. These can also be childish, half-joking vows.

For example, you promised to always protect a person from something - this is an extremely limiting vow. It puts you in the position of an eternal rescuer, and the person being saved in the role of a victim, depriving you of your own power. Every person is protected by a connection with Higher powers, and if you take its place. And it’s a no brainer that this will be incorrect and your strength will not be enough for the “sacrifice” or for your own life. Urgently cut off ties with reckless or stupid promises and oaths.

For those who have not forgiven insults and cannot let go of people from the distant or not so distant past.

Resentments that we cannot forgive, relationships that did not end quite smoothly all the time pull you back, back. This makes you remember your offender over and over again and, in fact, feeds him with energy. On the other hand, he may also be subject to your influence. Emotionally, mentally and physically, you would not want to see him, but by doing so, you only maintain a connection and exchange energy. It's time to start forgiving people from your past if you don't want to degrade and lose your power.

Parents

Children in our time are very capricious and serious beings with fantastic abilities, for whom anything Higher has not yet been explored. Babies are born innocent, sensitive and kind. They tend to take on the negativity and problems of those people who feel emotions. Without saying it, they volunteer to be the rescuer and guardian of their parents, grandparents, brothers and sisters. As a result, there is a lack of energy, they begin to get sick, school performance decreases, and problems with discipline appear. Teach your children the technique of cutting energy threads, and don’t forget about your parents.

How to break the etheric chain

Archangel Michael holds a sword in his hands that can cut off everything that binds you to negativity.

Just say in your mind:

“I appeal to you, Archangel Michael. Please cut the chains of fear that are draining life and strength from me.”

or..

“Archangel Michael, now I turn to you. Please cut the threads of fear that drains my strength and vitality.”

While he cuts the chains, sit quietly and calmly. When everything is over, Archangel Michael will send healing energy to both you and the other person.

At the moment the chains are broken, susceptible people may feel changes on a physical level or feel a sharp drop in atmospheric pressure. Then they will feel a surge of energy; the pain will disappear or decrease significantly.

To cut the etheric threads in your children, say mentally or out loud:

“Archangel Michael, please cut the threads of fear from (children’s names) as it drains his/her energy and vitality.”

As before, help your children remain silent and maintain deep breathing while Archangel Michael gets to work. Your children's mood and energy levels will almost immediately rise to a normal (not hyperactive!) state.

Keep in mind that Michael will only be able to free you from your chains if you are willing to let go of old grudges that you hold towards the object of your affection. If you continue to be angry with this person or cannot forgive him, you will not be able to cut the chain.

In this case, do everything as described above, but when you think about who you are attached to, add the following:

“I want to exchange pain for peace. I ask for peace - let it take the place of pain.”

Think about each of those people—mother, father, children, former and current lovers—and your desire to break the chains of fear that bind you to them.

During sexual contact between a man and a woman, an intense exchange of energies occurs and an energetic sexual connection is formed, which is naturally eliminated only after seven years.

About the problems of unwanted karmic connection Even if you had only one night, even if he is thousands of kilometers away, and even if he has already died, this sexual connection is still formed and preserved. Through it, your energy leaks to your former sexual partner (even if you forgot about him a long time ago), if he is in a low-energy state.

What is the cause of female diseases? Many women’s diseases, especially those associated with decreased immunity, are associated with a leak of energy from the sex chakra. This is precisely what the value of virgins in marriage is connected with. People have long understood that if a girl is pure, then her energy will go to the prosperity of the family, and not to someone unknown. Because the more men a woman has, the more devastated she is. Such a woman loses her sexual energy, and thereby her attractiveness.

What should you do to regain your lost energy? To do this, you need to get rid of the connection that you had!

How to break the energetic connection with a man: technique

Let's start with the fact that the methods described below will not help you if you have not yet put an end to the relationship for yourself, but continue to remember and regret the breakup. However, they will help in other ways: they will ease your worries, push you to make new acquaintances, and open your heart to today’s impressions and feelings.

But if you have already cooled down and remember the past only with a smile, the proposed techniques will speed up the energy gap with your ex.

Getting rid of the energetic connection with a man

Getting rid of the energetic connection with a man:

• Engage in similar “self-purification” on the nineteenth lunar day, which promotes parting with everything that has become obsolete. And when you’re done, don’t forget to cleanse everything around you – your apartment, your yard, your body.
• On a separate piece of paper, list all your sexual partners over the past seven years. Don’t miss anyone – neither regulars nor “one-time” ones. In addition, you can add to this list those that you really liked, but it never came to a relationship.
• From the list, select those men with whom you still have a grudge. Take the paper again and write down all your thoughts and feelings towards this partner.

Getting rid of the energetic connection with a man: presentation on paper

Describe in detail all his actions and words that hurt you. Having spoken in this way, move on to the positive aspects: good words, gifts, surprises, do not forget to mention what exactly makes him attractive.

• On this wave of positive memories and gratitude for all the good things that happened between you, in turn, admit your mistakes in your relationship and ask for forgiveness for them.
• Now think: maybe this man appeared in your life as a certain stage at which you had to gain experience, develop as a person, and learn something.
• Explain in detail everything that is on your soul, because no one else will read this letter. Be honest with yourself. Feeling that you have said everything you wanted, turn to the man in your thoughts, letting him go from your life. Well, all that remains is to burn the letter along with all the grievances and omissions contained in it.
• It is possible that after such a cleansing, a man will appear on your path again. You shouldn’t hide from such meetings, but making it clear that they mean nothing to you is a must. Do this politely but firmly.

Getting rid of the energetic connection with a man

By the way, a similar technique can be performed several times, especially if you feel that there are still echoes of the past in your soul.

Getting rid of the energy connection with a man: annealing the threads

• The all-consuming energy of the flame will help you burn everything unnecessary, including old connections.
• Relax as if for meditation, get into a contemplative mood, throw everything bad out of your head. Imagine in your mind the image of the man who was your sexual partner. Let him stand right in front of you. Now draw between you rays of different colors emanating from all seven chakras.
• When these threads connecting you become “visible” to you, light a match or strike a lighter and burn them, imagining this complete break and letting the man go with the fire.
• Let go of everything and look at both of you as an outside observer, carefully noticing whether all the threads are burned. Well, now nothing binds you, except, perhaps, some of his things or gifts that remain with you - they need to be mercilessly thrown away.

Energy connection
And again, if one of your exes appears on the way again, he is that same energy vampire. These rituals do not require material costs, but you will have to make mental efforts, because everything you do must be sincere, with faith in a positive result, with the awareness that each meeting is not a coincidence.

In addition, do not forget that you may have to firmly refuse those who reappear in your destiny. Be confident in yourself and you will succeed.

Method of liberation from sexual attachment

It is necessary to remember everyone with whom you have had sexual contact over the past 7 years. For this, it is best to choose the 19th lunar day. Connect the thumb and index finger of your right hand into a ring. Place the ring on the lower abdomen, where the uterus is located. The womb stores feminine energy, it is the center of feminine power, it is there that the threads are located that connect you to all the men you have had. Imagine the dial in this place, put the ring at 12 o'clock (as if the dial is looking down). Turn your head to the left (this is our past).

As you inhale, imagine the man with whom you once spent the night. Then turn your head to the present (forward). And with spiral movements towards the center, begin to collect the energy thread counterclockwise. You begin to collect the energy thread in small spiral movements towards the center. Movements are made counterclockwise. Do three such circles. Then turn your head to the right (to the future) and release this connection as you exhale. Repeat for each ex-partner.

I also highly recommend performing forgiveness meditation regularly.

How to recognize an energetic attachment to a man?

• You find it difficult to concentrate on work or school because you are constantly thinking about your loved one. Every minute you wait for him to make himself known: you check your email, don’t let go of your phone.

• Your partner is a favorite topic of conversation with friends. You constantly praise him, and if you talk about something else, you still involuntarily reduce the conversation to this topic.

• You put the interests and desires of your loved one above your own. You are ready to make sacrifices for him, although he sacredly protects his personal space and is not going to endure any hardships for your sake.

• You are tormented by chronic jealousy. Every day you look at his pages on social networks, check SMS and calls on your phone.

• You turn your life into serving your loved one or, on the contrary, fill his whole life with yourself. You become a slave to his desires or take away his freedom.

• You impose your life views on your partner or abandon your own beliefs in favor of your loved one.

If you notice at least one of these signs in yourself, we can say that an energetic connection has begun to form. Both partners should bring something new and fresh to the relationship and harmoniously complement each other. Love is a union of free individuals, not a painful dependence.

How to understand that your man is an energy vampire?

It's not that difficult. Here are the surest signs:

• He demands increased attention and obedience from you, but he himself gives love and care only in small and rare portions;
• He violates your personal space, controls you;
• In addition, he alternates affection and tenderness with coldness and even rudeness;
• And also not to worry about your health and well-being; his own comfort is more important to him;
• He criticizes and teaches you, but does not accept comments in his direction;
• You miss him madly, but being around him is also torture;
• Any change in his mood bothers you; you are dependent on his opinion.

Any relationship is first and foremost work on yourself. It is necessary to change for the better, but not to sacrifice oneself, to compromise, but not to give in to the detriment of one’s interests. Self-analysis and working on mistakes will help you improve your relationship or decide to break off a union that does not have a happy future.

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How to get rid of an energetic attachment to a man?

If you suspect an energy connection, you need to do the following:

• Don't show any initiative in the relationship for a while, take a short break.
• Focus your attention on something new, interesting and useful. Engage in self-development, find a hobby, start exploring a new field of activity.
• Direct your energy towards something pleasant and positive. Go on an excursion, go on a hike, or just relax while listening to fun music.
• Try to get all bad thoughts out of your head, don’t stress yourself out.
• Try spiritual practices, treat yourself to aromatherapy.
• Change your image, get a new hairstyle, replenish your wardrobe, experiment with your appearance.

If you continue your relationship, but the energy connection appears again and again, carefully monitor your partner’s behavior. Perhaps he himself deliberately strengthens it, using you and not giving back energy.

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