Is your husband on his phone all the time? Does it delete correspondence and received calls? Do you want to know the truth with whom and what he communicates with?
Men, like women, love to “talk” and this need is understandable. But what to do if the husband sits on the phone at night and at breakfast, and even watching programs on TV, always puts his smartphone next to him, and even with the screen down.
No, he doesn’t stay late at work and comes home on time, but he doesn’t let go of his device around the clock. We recently received the following question: “My husband has been sitting on the toilet for a long time with his phone, how can I find out who he is texting with and what he is writing about, please help!”
If you really suspect something is wrong and are seriously thinking about the fact that your husband has someone “on the side,” then you need to first find out the truth, and then draw conclusions and do something. We bring to your attention 3 proven ways to find out the truth.
Method 1. Install a spy on your husband's phone
So, you noticed that your husband is on the phone, what should you do? Pick up his phone and install our VkurSe application . After installation, the spy will begin to collect data and transmit it to your personal account or email. Your account will open as soon as you register.
Attention! The phone must be on the Android operating system.
Warning! We give a 100% guarantee for the safety and non-disclosure of data stored on our website in your account (exactly 1 month, then it is irretrievably deleted to make room for the next one). If you store data at the post office, we do not bear any responsibility for the safety of this data - this is a different service and they have a different privacy policy.
1.Who and what does the husband talk to on the phone – recording conversations
You will receive the following information: call time, call duration, caller number and call recording.
Even if after the call the husband deletes the fact of the call from the phone, the VkurSe application will record this conversation and transfer it to you in your personal account. If you wish, you can configure the application so that the recorded conversation is sent not only to your account, but also to the specified email.
Attention! On Android 9, recording conversations only with root rights (on some devices you cannot hear the interlocutor, on some there is no recording at all) - you need to root, install and check. There may not be a recording of the environment on command, but after a call and by period (if you set these settings) it will be possible to come - you need to check.
2. Where is the husband – 24/7 geolocation
In your office on the map, your husband’s phone number will be visible around the clock. You can set it to transmit the location by interval, you can send a command from the office so that it shows where your husband’s phone is at a given moment in time.
3. See everything your husband does on the phone - screenshots
This unique feature is available without Root rights ! Is your husband on his phone all the time? Screenshots (screenshots) will allow you to see everything he does there. Screenshots will “overshadow” in their importance all other functions - interception of correspondence, interception of photos, browser history, interception of notifications and many other functions that are only available with Root rights.
4. See saved contacts in the phone book
In addition to those contacts that are stored in the phone book, the application will show you those that were established and then deleted after the conversation.
5. Remotely enable recording of the environment and take photos from the camera
You can send a command to turn on the microphone from your office at any time. A recording of the environment will be received after the time you set has expired. For example, turn on the recording of the environment for 20 minutes - the team left - the recording began - after 20 minutes it was transferred to the office.
Attention! There may not be a recording of the environment on Android 9 by command, but after a call and according to the period (if you set these settings) it will be possible to come - you need to check it individually on each device.
You can take photos from the camera remotely with a command. If your husband says that he is at work, and the photo from the camera shows the ceiling of clearly not his office, then... it’s up to you to decide.
6. All features of the VkurSe application
You can view the full functionality, which is available with and without root rights, on the “ Possibilities ” page. Or check them with online consultants.
So, you installed the application and now you know exactly why your husband spends all his time on his phone. But how to do this if your husband won’t let go of his cell phone? Or is it behind a graphic key, and you can only recognize it under terrible torture? Then the second method comes to the rescue
TOP best advice from psychologists
4 pieces of advice received - consultations from psychologists, to the question: My husband constantly plays
Hello Julia! Often games can act as a family symptom, which indicates possible violations in building relationships between family members and closed communication connections - i.e. it is necessary to analyze family relationships in order to identify how you, in particular, contribute to the development and maintenance of this attachment (or already dependence) - to reconsider the distribution of roles and responsibilities (often with such problems, the woman takes on most of the responsibility and the husband is freed from performing any responsibilities - and thus his dependence is formed and maintained - why should he strain if his wife will do everything anyway?) - it is also important to understand what style of relationship between you - in order to find behavioral stereotypes that lead to this behavior and, accordingly change them - so that a man feels responsible for both his family and his life (in particular his own), and to redirect this energy to other activities - for example, computer games give him something (i.e. satisfy some his needs), but in its essence it is this option that destroys both the relationship and the personality of the husband - then, accordingly, the whole family can together find other options for satisfying both his needs (possibly in rest, relaxation, stress relief, etc.) and be together with You – search for common hobbies, hobbies (hobbies, interests).
This kind of problem also indicates the immaturity of the man himself (infantility), which is also supported by you - after all, relationships are the contribution of both partners, and if he goes away from everything into the computer and shows his childish position, then accordingly on your part this is supported or chosen The strategy does NOT bring results! those. he occupies exactly the “children’s position” - and here it is necessary to reconsider the distribution of roles in the family!
In general, you can sort this situation out and find a way out - Yulia, if you really decide to understand what’s going on, you can feel free to contact me - call me - I’ll be only too happy to help you!
The girl has no strength, her husband is playing on his iPhone. I know that there are a million topics that are not on this topic, but it just takes me unrealistic anger. Played all day today - woke up, ate, after shopping. In the evening, I already started expressing my complaints, began to get angry, and began to swear. but she plays, she went to bed now, I turn around and plays again, out of anger she grabbed the phone, threw it and hit her husband in the face, naturally there was a scandal, he went into the kitchen. I'm shaking all over, but I got through it. Honestly(((I don’t know what to do next. He’s been playing for a long time, but lately he’s been playing more and more often. I’ve been married for one year, my husband is 32, I’m 24.
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If your husband constantly plays games...
“Don’t make things up,” I tell my husband into the phone. - I'm without things. I’ll get there just fine... Well, okay, it’s inconvenient to talk... And I’ll tell you... Bye...
A woman is sitting next to me at the airport.
Beautiful, stylish.
At the age that is usually called “aged”, without numbers.
She heard my conversation.
- Why didn’t you let him in? - she asked in the tone of a teacher, slightly dissatisfied with the results of the test.
She has a hoarse, smoky voice.
- Where didn’t you let me go? Whom?
“I didn’t allow my husband to meet me.”
- Oh. Why? I have a light suitcase. And there is always plenty to do at home. There's no point in chasing him.
-Are you taking care of him? - she asked sternly.
- And this too.
- No need. He has a mother, let her take care of him. I also made this mistake at one time. She took care of her husband. I pulled everything myself. And he... At first he admired. Then he thanked me. Then I took it for granted. Then I forgot to say thank you. And then he didn’t even do what was necessary, even after being asked. And then he became an ex-husband.
- Well, it’s different for everyone.
— Do you consider yourself chosen? — the woman grins.
- No. I'm just trying to live by my wits. Sometimes other people's happiness really weighs on me. And someone else’s “better” does not mean “better” for me.
- Wise. But it’s still impossible to live in society and not spy on others. I'm eavesdropping on you now. How can you avoid eavesdropping on someone else’s conversation a meter away? Turn off your hearing?
“I was flying here with paintings and flowers, not heavy, but very voluminous, and asked my husband to meet me. And he, of course, met. Or one day, due to the weather, I arrived home a day late. I met you too, but here simply because we missed you. What I mean is that I don’t have experience when I ask to meet me with my suitcases, and he refuses with the wording: “Have you forgotten the taxi number?” I think it would give me a lot of pause. But so far there is no such fear, because I didn’t get burned. In theory, fear does not work. It’s like shelling the area in anticipation of the enemy, wasting ammunition, but inside you don’t even believe that there is a war going on.
- What interesting youth today are. Somewhat intelligent from infancy. Indigo.
- Am I the youth? Thank you. We are simply not shy to reflect. Indigo is a pseudoscientific term. I was googling recently. Indigo is actually a dye for denim, not a human superpower.
- Googled... But we grew up and didn’t Google anything. I Googled something for the first time when I was 45 or 50,” says the woman. “In my eyes, the world has gone a little crazy.” Children from the age of seven earn more than adults - yesterday I watched a program about bloggers. Men play with toys... My daughter and her husband divorced because of games...
- Gambling addiction? This is a very strong addiction...
— I don’t know the word “addiction.” I know the word “idler.”
— Addiction is dependence.
- A, clear. My ex-son-in-law had an addiction to bed and computer games... They got divorced, do you know why? Hochma.
After work, my son-in-law was playing games online somehow. People sit in different houses, in different cities, but play on the same team. He even had an alarm clock, and every half hour he had to go into the game and do something there, fight with someone. He said that it distracts him, he is resting. Shakhtar, damn it. I was terribly furious that my daughter was silent. Like, it’s normal for a grown man to point his finger at a tablet. She told me: “Don’t interfere.” And he said: “I don’t drink in garages. I need to somehow relax.” I didn't climb.
One day he was vacuuming and the alarm went off. He didn’t hear, but his daughter heard. And she reset the alarm clock. Because the vacuum cleaner is more important. And she didn’t tell her husband, she didn’t call him. And as a result, the accumulated result of his game collapsed. Silly toys. There it was important to poke exactly every half hour. And he didn't forgive. He said this was the last straw. I couldn't even believe it. Well, who gets divorced because of a computer toy? I thought maybe there was an extra woman... Well, who gets divorced because of a tablet? Can you imagine this?
- Well, I judge from my own bell tower, and I don’t want to be the devil’s advocate at all. But perhaps the games have nothing to do with it. Maybe the problem is that his daughter reset his result, albeit in a stupid game, because she took it and prioritized someone else’s life herself. In her life, cleaning was more important than playing. And in his case, the game is more important than cleaning. You could take a break, play, and continue.
- Can you hear yourself?
“Well, what I’m trying to say is that this is a story about lack of communication.” About the fact that different things are important to people. Your daughter did not do this because she wanted to offend him. I did because I wanted a clean floor. And he…
“And he said there was no support.” But men often confuse support with approval of their mistakes, the woman noted.
— Doesn’t support mean approval?
- Sometimes yes. And sometimes support is the truth. Tell a fool to his face that he is a fool. Tell the grown man that it’s time to get out of the sandbox.
- More like exposure, not support.
“It hurts, but sometimes you have to hurt to save.” Medicines are usually bitter, but they save.
“It seems to me that someone else’s truth, forcefully poured over your head in an icy shower, is not support.” Even if her goal is to save her, this is your goal. The one you saved did not ask to be saved at all, did not feel in trouble. In his eyes, such a rescue looks abnormal. My uncle was walking through life, my aunts ran up and splashed me with a bucket of cold water... Rescue needs to be done upon request, it seems to me.
- Does your husband offend you? - asks Liliko. Her name is Liliko. What is the name!
“Let’s just say that, of course, he sometimes does things that hurt me.” But I rarely choose to be offended...
- So you are abusing forgiveness?
“I rather withdraw my claims before I have time to express them.” I assume that he did not do anything bad. He just did something. I rate it as bad. And he evaluates his action as normal. Therefore, any reason for offense is essentially an under-compromise.
- Here. They're all so smart. Advanced. It’s both interesting and scary with you. My seven-year-old grandson, do you know what he’s afraid of?
- What?
- That gravity will shorten.
- Whaaat?
— Once there was a short circuit at home, many devices were working at once, and they shorted out. And the food processor burned out. It really amazed him. And then he read about gravity. I realized that people walk on the earth because the Earth attracts them. And now he is afraid that the earth will shorten and all people will pour into space.
- God, what a beauty! Liliko, give me this fear. And the conversation in general. He's just a miracle.
- Help yourself, baby. Someday, Alzheimer's or dementia will gut my brain, take the words with the letters torn out into holes... Until that happens, help yourself...
I treated myself, enjoyed myself, and went to boarding.
I came home and saw my son sitting at the computer.
Liliko has taken possession of me, and I grumpily say to my son:
- How long can you hang around in these games, that’s enough, you’re already an adult, it’s time to do something useful...
But it turns out that my son is learning “keyboard solos” so he can type without looking, and he’s doing great. But I scold him in vain, and I look stupid with my cold shower, saving a person who does not need saving.
Still, everyone needs their own experience.
And your fears.
And my own life.
And that's great.
If only gravity wouldn't shorten the time...
How to wean a guy off computer games
In terms of destructiveness, computer gambling addiction A person goes into an imaginary world, not noticing his real life. Your loved one needs to be helped to get rid of this destructive habit.
Instructions
1. Have a serious conversation with the guy. Don't turn off his computer or talk while he's busy playing. So you will not be able to wean your boyfriend . Wait until he is distracted from the computer. Tell your guy about your fears of losing him if he doesn't stop playing. Let him realize how much you, your parents, your friends need him. Don’t forget to mention how harmful computer gambling addiction is: loneliness, deterioration of vision, physical and psychological condition, loss of a job or expulsion from a university. 2. Find out the reasons for going into an imaginary world. Addiction to computer games can appear due to existing problems at school, work, or in individual life. Ask your boyfriend what worries him, if there are any tasks at work/school. It is acceptable that a young man wants to hide from reality due to difficulties that have arisen. Ask leading questions that ask for a long-form outcome rather than a “yes/no” question, and work through the kinks together. 3. Distract the guy from the computer with other activities that interest him. Meet his friends more often, go to a cafe, a movie, bowling, go to the country for a break on the weekend. At the same time, do not let him be sad. He must realize that the world is much more exciting than computer games. 4. Knock it out with wedge If you live with a guy and you have one computer, then start playing yourself. Don't cook for him, don't buy groceries, don't clean or iron his things. Let him see how connectedness from computer games affects life and how bad it is to lose a loved one in virtual reality. The threat of this method is that you yourself can get drawn into the game. Sit down at the computer only just before he arrives and don’t let him play games. 5. Contact a specialist If you are unable to wean your boyfriend , then take him to a psychologist, to a special center for combating addictions. Of course, visiting an expert once will not be satisfactory. Treatment for the disease computer gambling addiction will be long but effective.
Family life not only brings fun, but can also present a “bouquet of surprises.” One of the troubles that you may encounter is the annoying habits of your loved one, and in particular, your husband’s for computer games . They solve this problem in different ways: some silently endure it, closing their eyes, some even put an end to family relationships, and some may try to wean their husband from this addiction.
You will need
- You, your spouse, a computer with games, a psychologist.
Instructions
1. Be patient: without it, you will not be able to overcome your husband habits. 2. Have a sincere conversation with your spouse. Explain to him that the addiction of computer games has a negative impact on your family relationships. Assure him that you will not leave him alone to fight the habit, but will support him at the right time. 3. Observe your husband’s and analyze exactly when he sits down at the computer to play: in moments of joy or stress? Or maybe out of boredom or inactivity? 4. Contact a psychologist with your spouse because addiction to computer games is a disease. It is called cyber addiction. In some cases, this destructive habit cannot be controlled without the help of an expert. Note! Do not criticize your spouse for his hobby, because this will only worsen the relationship between you, and will also undermine his desire and courage to fight his addiction. That is, criticism will have the opposite effect. Helpful advice Often, addiction to computer games is the result of a person’s indecision within himself, as well as the lack of any other methods of self-expression. In view of this, the wife’s help may consist in helping her husband increase his self-esteem. This can be achieved by praising him for everything, including the most minor furores and achievements in the fight against the habit.
Some girls are faced with such an unpleasant phenomenon: their lovers are lying! And it would be nice if we were talking about some harmless fantasies. Lies and insincerity concern such prophetic things that are very significant for a girl. A guy can swear his love for her, at the same time promising that preparations for the wedding are about to begin. And then more and more “respectful reasons” are found for postponing this event. There can be a lot of situations. How to wean a young man from lying? And is it even worth maintaining relationships with liars?
Instructions
1. In any given case, you should behave differently, depending on many factors: the duration of your romance, the depth and sincerity of feelings for the young man, disposition, character, and, of course, upbringing. There are no multifunctional “recipes” for behavior here. 2. Try to understand why the young man lied to you. This is very important! Let’s say, the “curator of a huge plan” openly loves you, values your relationship, but either he was embarrassed to admit that he occupies a very modest position, or he was afraid that you would lose interest in him and would not want to meet. So he “promoted” himself. 3. In the above case, of course, lying does not do a man any honor, but there is no special offense here either. You are the best person to seriously, but kindly explain to your loved one, saying that you were very upset by his insincerity, and by the fact that he thought so badly about you that he could imagine that his rank plays a decisive role! If he wants your relationship to continue, let him forget about the lie. And then remind him that everything is in his hands. He wants to make a career - for the sake of the Almighty. Let him put in the effort and perseverance. 4. If the guy is again, and even more so repeatedly, caught in insincerity, you should either overcome yourself and break off such a relationship, or resort to a strong, tough, but effective technique: threaten that you will expose him to ridicule in front of everyone’s friends, acquaintances, colleagues. Let everyone know what a liar and braggart he is. As usual, this danger works. Few young men would want to appear in such a light. 5. Well, even if this didn’t help, then you should run away from such a guy ! Why do you need a pathological liar? There are quite a few loyal, conscientious men in the world, one of whom you will definitely meet.
It often happens that a girl really likes a young man, but she cannot understand how he treats her. The unbearable uncertainty is driving her crazy. Meanwhile, it is not so difficult to understand a guy’s attitude towards a girl; it is enough to pay closer attention to his words and actions.
Instructions
1. There are several signs by which you can determine how much a girl worries a young man. For example, he constantly strives to capture her attention: he sends SMS with wishes for a good morning or a peaceful night, during the day he always finds time to call in order to inquire about the girl’s affairs or mood. 2. The guy invariably tries to help. At the same time, it is not so important what the task is. He simply cannot throw a girl, whom he already considers a close person, into misfortune. In addition, the young man can tell her about his dreams. Perhaps this contains a hint that she is his most basic dream. 3. The guy is constantly trying to show the girl some small signs of attention: he hands her his coat, gives way to his seat, opens the door for her. True, if he is well-mannered, then all this may turn out to be an elementary manifestation of politeness. 4. If a girl truly worries a young man, he is constantly interested in her judgment. Thus, he gives her the chance to enter his life, believing that if a girl gives him advice, it means she is not indifferent to him. 5. There are other signs of love that appear when a guy realizes that the girl is truly dear to him. Before everyone, at the sight of her, the young man’s well-being invisibly changes. When meeting the object of his affection, the guy becomes much more cheerful and open. 6. If, when meeting a girl, a young man straightens his clothes or hairstyle, smoothes his hair, or, on the contrary, tries to ruffle it, this means that he is not indifferent to how he looks in her eyes. 7. The young man perceives every tender glance of a girl as a reason to approach her, start a casual conversation, and finally touch her. We should not forget that it is very important for men to touch the girl they like. If a guy, during a conversation, suddenly takes a girl by the hand or touches her hair, she is absolutely right to disturb him. 8. If a guy really likes a girl, he is very afraid of upsetting her. For this reason, the young man continuously apologizes for every careless word or deed. 9. Finally, we should not forget that all people are different: some try to hide their feelings and emotions, while others, on the contrary, show them too obviously. And yet, in most cases, the listed signs give a fairly accurate result on the question of whether a girl is bothering the guy she likes.
Many parents constantly nurse and rock their baby if he begins to be wayward. The future poses a number of challenges. Weaning a baby off your hands is not so easy. Over time, the child understands that with the support of screaming and roaring, he achieves his goal. We need to wean ourselves off this habit.
Instructions
1. Let your child feel his daily routine. Set aside specific times to spend time together and play. At other times, if the baby begins to show his whims, forcing the parents to take him in their arms , the child must be made to realize that while the mother is busy with business and cannot approach him. The main thing is not to give in to children's whims. 2. Have great patience. Your child, feeling that tears will not achieve the result, begins to do more independently. The baby will learn to play without the help of mother and father. If you can’t wean your child off your hands , then seek the help of a child psychologist. 3. Play with your baby, say, on the sofa or rug. If mom indulges his every whim, then it will be difficult to tame him to independent play. Parents who have made a firm decision to wean their child from rocking in their arms are obliged to put him to bed in advance. By falling asleep in its place, the baby will become calmer and will stop crying a lot and throwing tantrums. 4. Teach your child to fall asleep in a crib, and not in your arms . Make your baby comfortable and comfortable for a peaceful sleep. If your baby sleeps during the day, cover the windows with curtains and turn off the lights at night. By getting used to the darkness, the baby will understand that it is time to sleep. In an unlit room it will calm down much more quickly. 5. Bathe your child before bed, give him a special massage using baby cream or oil, this will help him quickly fall asleep and calm down. Try reading something out loud to your baby while he lies next to you. This method is suitable for children who are not very fussy at night. After the baby falls asleep, he needs to be transferred to a stroller or crib; on the contrary, the baby will have a desire to continuously sleep with mom and dad.
Often, parents, trying to calm a roaring child, take him in their arms and carry him, rocking him and entertaining him. While the child is small, this method is justified - the baby should feel the warmth and care of loved ones. But if a grown-up baby demands to be picked up, this is a lack of autonomy.
Instructions
1. Do not give in to children's whims and hysterics. The child must learn to have fun on his own, cope with emotions and experiences. Establish a certain daily routine and strictly follow it - the baby must understand that at certain hours his mother or father invariably plays with him, pays attention to him, can cuddle him and do something exciting. He must also clearly accept the need for daytime and evening sleep, bathing, eating, etc. If a child requires attention, and you are busy at the time, then you should tell him about it, and not rush to the first cry, grabbing him in your arms and entertaining him. The baby learns to lead you through his whims, so try not to give in to his actions. 2. Try to rock him less often. If a child falls asleep in your arms, then when he wakes up, he may be frightened by the fact that he is in a different place, in a different atmosphere. Accustom your baby to the fact that from birth he sleeps in his own crib - you can sit next to him, rock the crib, hold the child by the hand. 3. Make your child's sleeping conditions as comfortable as possible. If there is a night light in his room, it should be dim. But it’s better to teach your child to sleep without light. Then during the day, by closing the curtains, you will give the baby a signal that it is time to go to bed. Moreover, in a dark room, children calm down more quickly and fall asleep. 4. Know how to distinguish truthful crying from whims. A child may cry when he is hungry, something hurts, he is scared, he has wet his pants, etc. In these cases, you are obliged, before anyone else, to satisfy the baby’s , while you are allowed to pick him up . Stop whims immediately - if the child is sad, then offer him a toy, rock the crib, turn him over on the other side, etc. Learn to communicate without constantly carrying your baby in your arms - put him on a developmental mat, turn on musical toys, and carry him around the house in a stroller. If you are in the kitchen, then place a baby chair or chaise longue in the room - the baby will see you, feel that you are nearby, and you will be able to go about your business. Accustom your child to independent games little by little, so that he does not feel deprived and rejected. Video on the topic
From a medical point of view, alcoholism is a disease that belongs to substance abuse. The psychophysical connection from alcohol is its characterizing specificity. From a social point of view, alcoholism is characterized by excessive consumption of alcohol, which leads to violations of behavioral norms, life and social well-being.
Instructions
1. Adequate and competent treatment and weaning from alcohol is not permissible without a full examination of the patient’s body. In this case, the core goal is to determine the stage of development of the disease. 2. Modern methods of weaning a person off alcohol are based on the use of effective drugs to relieve binge drinking and withdrawal states. The prescription of such drugs is carried out only by a competent psychiatrist-narcologist. Taking such drugs independently is fraught with quite serious problems. 3. Treatment begins with the end of a drunken state and suppression of withdrawal symptoms. This needs to be done very carefully, because a sudden interruption of alcohol intake can lead to a sharp exacerbation of chronic diseases. With independent treatment, the origin of the so-called “delirium tremens” is acceptable. 4. In parallel with this, medications are taken that block the effect of alcohol on the body. They are taken over a long period of time. 5. As an additional therapy, the doctor prescribes psychotherapeutic drugs. In addition to drug treatment, it is advisable to conduct several sessions of psychotherapeutic treatment with an appropriate expert. 6. As an addition, “coding” is often used using “Torpedo” or the Dovzhenko method. You need to understand that coding itself is not a method of treatment, but is only an auxiliary tool, and does not have a separate therapeutic property. 7. When preparing to begin specialized treatment, you need to understand that the healing process itself is quite long, and the correct outcome is one hundred percent with the full cooperation of the patient himself. Video on the topic Please note! In medicine, alcoholism and drug addiction (depending on the type of drug used) have one common name - addiction diseases. From what? We will try to answer this question. From a medical point of view, alcoholism is a chronic, progressive (developing) disease caused by the effect of alcohol as a narcotic substance. Helpful advice From a medical point of view, alcoholism is a chronic disease characterized by an invincible desire for alcoholic beverages. From a social perspective, alcoholism is a form of deviant behavior characterized by a pathological desire for alcohol and further social degradation of the figure.
Infants are fed within a few hours. And until the baby is several months old, parents do not have any thoughts about how to wean their child from eating at night . But months pass without peaceful sleep, and then the task of night feeding becomes necessary. your baby's diet is difficult, but possible.
Instructions
1. Before you stop night feedings, you need to remember that they are indispensable during breastfeeding. On the contrary, the hormone prolactin, which maintains lactation, will not be produced primitively. 2. If your baby eats every few hours, first try to stretch the intervals between feedings. Thus their number will be reduced. 3. When a child eats at night , it can be assumed that he does not eat enough during the day. In this case, increase the volume of the last evening feeding or make it more dense. The latter is suitable for children who are already receiving complementary foods. 4. Children often manage to eat without even waking up. Therefore, in order to break the cycle of night feedings, you need to wake up the baby every time he begs for milk. In this case, brawling is virtually inevitable and you need to be prepared for a roar, but the likelihood that next time the child will simply not wake up is quite huge. 5. For children who have crossed the threshold of the first year of life and have not lost the habit of eating at night , it is allowed to offer the mixture not from a bottle, but from a mug. Drinking like this also requires awakening and concentration. In the case when the baby does not need food, but calm from the sucking reflex, a similar method can be quite effective. 6. Another option is to reduce the amount of night feedings. Reduce the amount of mixture little by little, minimizing it, which you will later replace with traditional water. The baby gets used to the fact that there is no more appetizing milk and stops waking up. Note! Don't count on your child to show conscientiousness and heroically endure limitations. Parents will have to endure crying and whims for some time, or abandon their idea. Every baby needs a personal approach, and not a single pediatrician can fully guarantee the effectiveness of one or another method of weaning from night feedings. Helpful advice Do not try to replace milk with sugary juices and compotes. Their child will drink with no less pleasure than milk, while the load on the digestive tract will be almost greater. Consequently, such a replacement does not lead to the abandonment of night feedings and has no special meaning.
Are you having trouble keeping your household appliances safe from your pet and are constantly expecting a short circuit? There are several methods to stop a cat from chewing wires, which are often out of sight of the owner.
Instructions
1. Go to a veterinary pharmacy or pet store and purchase a special “Anti-gryzin” product (for cats). Treat wires and other vulnerable parts of household appliances with it. It would be good to protect against a cat (exclusively an uncastrated one) by spraying “Anti-gnat” and interior items that he might, if not “encroach” on, then raise his paw. This product has a citrus scent. The smell of lemons, so unpleasant to cats , will scare away animals. 2. Instead of Anti-Grozin, you can use natural lemon (use it once every two days). Aloe juice can also act as a deterrent. Cut a leaf from a houseplant and make a longitudinal cut on it. Treat the wires with the juice that appears. It is possible that a cat that has again tried the wires may begin to drool. To help your unlucky pet, rinse his mouth with warm running water. 3. If you are not expecting guests in the near future, process the wires , etc. pepper or garlic. The smell will certainly be unpleasant not only to the cat’s nose, but also to the human nose. But if you are a lover of hot and spicy dishes, then, perhaps, you won’t even feel it. However, do not overdo it with these spices, so that the cat does not lose his sense of smell once and for all. 4. Scare the animal the moment you notice that it is confidently walking towards the wire . Just do not spray water on it under any circumstances, otherwise a short circuit cannot be avoided. Better yet, lightly click him on the nose with a rubber band (but not too tight, so as not to injure his face). Or attach a closed plastic cup with small nuts to the wire so that the cat, frightened by the unknown noise, retreats there. In this capacity, you can also use an old baby rattle, if you have one. 5. If none of the repellent methods work, move the fixed wires as far up the wall as possible. Do not let the cat into the room where there is a computer or a mobile phone is charging. other wires so that the animal does not have access to them.
Dogs, exclusively young, explore the world, tasting everything: linoleum, furniture, wallpaper . If the dog from this activity in a timely manner, it can develop into a “hobby”. By simply punishing your pet, you may not achieve any results. In your presence, the dog will behave decently, and when left alone, it will continue to spoil the interior. It’s better to try to understand the animal’s motives, find out the reasons for its crappy habits and gently but assertively engage in education.
You will need
- – toys, dog bones and other items that you don’t mind spoiling;
- - a treat for reward.
Instructions
1. Provide your pet with items that you can spoil with impunity. The fact is that the desire to chew something is inherent in dogs at the instinctive level. The passion for wallpaper can be replaced with toys or special bones sold in a pet store. Buy a few different items and let your dog know that they are allowed to chew. If she turns her attention to the necessary items, praise her and reward her with a treat. 2. Buy your dog nutritional supplements if he is concerned not so much about the wallpaper as about the lime under it. Dogs, especially puppies, can chew lime in order to compensate for the lack of vitamins and microelements in the body. The purchase of vitamins should be agreed with a veterinarian; tea, if you make a mistake with the composition of the drug, this can lead to hypervitaminosis. 3. Spread the wallpaper with mustard, hot pepper, or apply a special colorless mixture sold at a pet store. This method is canceled in that the punishment will not come from you, but, as it were, from the thing itself. 4. Communicate more with your dog: walk, run, play. Animal tea can gnaw wallpaper , primitively trying to entertain itself if it is not given enough attention. 5. Take your dog to the veterinarian if it starts chewing wallpaper as a result of stress or neurosis. It is necessary to eliminate the cause of the disorder so that the dog’s behavior returns to normal. 6. Move on to punishments if the dog is in good health, has toys, but continues to chew the wallpaper , despite your protests. It is possible that the dog is confident that it is the main one in the house and deliberately ignores all your efforts in order to demonstrate its dominance. According to the laws of wolf packs, the leader has the right to do whatever he pleases. In this case, the dog needs to be convinced. Punishment must be severe, but not cruel. And not only under the influence of an outburst of anger, but whenever the dog begins his destructive action. Note! Do not give your dog old clothes or shoes as distractions. If your pet enjoys chewing on an old shoe, he may switch to new shoes. You should scold a dog only at the moment of committing an “offense”; on the contrary, it may simply not realize that it did something wrong.
