The second wind of love, or harmonization of relationships

The relationship between two people is a combination of a huge number of different aspects of their interaction and the nuances of a particular couple. Only they themselves can achieve harmony between a man and a woman through a long journey of rubbing in, getting to know each other, filled with mutual respect and maximum trust.

Very often people fight among themselves, trying to prove something, to somehow express themselves, to define their “I”, trying to manipulate their partner and convincing him that he is wrong, subjugating his own opinion. This is where the destructive power of human egoism manifests itself. Unfortunately, about fifty percent of modern families are built on it. It is much more difficult and difficult to achieve a harmonious relationship between a man and a woman, in which each of them will respect each other’s opinions.

The key to harmony in relationships

Every man wants to be in charge in everything: in work, in friendship, in family. It is important for a results-oriented careerist to achieve success and occupy a high position in the company where he works. As an adventurer and the life of the party, it is important to maintain leadership among your friends. And an exemplary family man simply needs to be the head and support of the family. Just like women: not everyone is ready to humbly submit to the will of their opponent.

Modern society loves and is accustomed to seeing purposeful, strong-willed, strong-willed ladies. It is precisely on the basis of this desire for primacy, the desire to be better and stronger than others, attempts to surpass not only their rival, but also their neighbor, that people come to a complete lack of harmony in the relationship between a man and a woman.

How to bring love and harmony back into a relationship

Try to imagine a little: imagine your relationship with your loved one in the form of a garden or park. Let go of your imagination and just watch the pictures it draws for you. Wander along the paths and alleys, press your cheek to the bark of a tree, inhale the aroma of a flower, look into the most secluded corners of the park.

What is your love's garden like? Perhaps chaos and desolation reign in it, and the thickets of wild ivy have completely swallowed up the rose bushes? Or perhaps this garden is full of hiding places and ghosts of the past? Or all the lawns and bushes in the park are trimmed perfectly, the flowerbeds are filled with exclusively “pedigreed” specimens – but at the same time, giving in to the impulse and running barefoot on the grass is a little scary: what if you accidentally ruin all this beauty? And most importantly, listen to your feelings: do you feel comfortable in the garden of your love, do you want to stay in this place longer? No matter how harmonious the relationship between lovers is, there is always something that you would like to improve, isn’t it? Start caring for your love like a garden - and reap excellent results! The first tender shoots in the garden. When you put a seed in the ground, you don’t expect to see a lush flowering bush tomorrow, do you? You know: in order for a plant to grow, take root, become stronger and bear fruit, appropriate conditions and a certain period are necessary, so you do not expect the impossible from nature and do not rush things - but at the same time you surround your flower with careful care. In family. At the initial stage of a relationship, a period of adjustment is inevitable - it is impossible, after living together for just a couple of months, to learn to understand another person as oneself. Depth comes with time. At the same time, “living” relationships cannot be static - they grow and develop. And if today you enjoy the flowers of romance, then after some time it will be time to collect the fruits. The key to harmony. Are deep, lasting and trusting relationships what you strive for? It is best to lay the foundation for them at the very beginning. It is important to understand that the grinding-in period a priori cannot be absolutely smooth - some roughness and friction are inevitable.

The question is what will be your reaction when you discover that your beloved is not an exact copy of the ideal you have come up with (and, moreover, does not intend to make any special efforts to become one). A sense of humor allows you to see the positive in discoveries that are not the most pleasant at first glance. Try to take things easier. Are you upset because your loved one stayed up late at the computer again and had to fall asleep alone in a big cold bed?

But in silence, plunging into the arms of Morpheus is much more pleasant than to the accompaniment of a powerful male snoring. Or are you annoyed because on Saturdays your beloved prefers gatherings with friends to your wonderful company? There is nothing stopping you from spending this time with pleasure and benefit: going to a beauty salon or shopping with a friend. Learn to take the positive out of the fact that you and your husband are different, and don’t give too much importance to the little things. At the same time, it is important that your vision of the key issues for a happy marriage - marital fidelity, financial relationships, strategies for raising children - coincides.

READ ALSO: Types of men you should have affairs with Every vegetable has its own bed In the garden. It would hardly occur to you to plant strawberry bushes, rose bushes, eggplants and potatoes on one tiny patch, would it? In order for plants to fully develop and bear fruit generously, each vegetable and flower needs sufficient space. In family. On the one hand, it is very important that you and your loved one can freely confide in each other all your joys and hardships. On the other hand, happy spouses are not necessarily those who spend 24 hours a day together. The key to harmony. There is no need to contrast the concepts of “love” and “personal independence”. Psychologists assure that each lover needs a certain personal space - the so-called zone of productive loneliness. This is the part of your leisure time that you and your husband spend separately. You can use your “productive solitude” as you wish: if you want, draw, sculpt with clay or embroider, if you want, wander around the city with a camera, or if you want, just lie on the couch with a book. These hours are more than just relaxation. Doing what you love, you are filled with vital energy - so that you can then exchange it with the man you love. Don't let the weeds choke your flower garden! In the garden. If you leave a flower garden unattended, very soon it will be overgrown with nettles and thistles - weeds are stronger than delicate “thoroughbred” roses. Ideally, it is necessary to weed the flower garden regularly in order to prevent the appearance of “imposters” in principle. In family. Like weeds, grievances and complaints are very tenacious. If you don’t deal with them in time, they will soon fill the entire living space in the relationship. This is why it is so important to be able to talk openly about what doesn’t suit you and find compromises together.

The key to harmony. Trying to “drown out” grievances and discontent is not the best solution. Unexpressed emotions and unshed tears tend to accumulate in order to burst into a powerful uncontrollable explosion (hysteria) at one far from perfect moment or direct their destructive force inward (and ultimately lead to various psychosomatic disorders). On the other hand, constantly bringing down all the internal negativity on the heads of others is also not a solution. Who wants to deal with a beech who is always dissatisfied with everything? The most constructive way to resolve a conflict situation is to sit down at the negotiating table. Try to hear what is really behind your spouse's claims. Let's say he reproaches you for spending too much time with your girlfriends - they say, because of the endless "bachelorette parties" the house is abandoned, the child is not well-groomed.

In reality, the essence of these reproaches can be boiled down to the following: your loved one desperately lacks your attention. Find a way to convey to him that he is the best, irreplaceable and sexy. And who knows, maybe the faithful’s complaints will immediately decrease?

Trusting another person with your true feelings and needs can sometimes be very difficult. But it’s still necessary - otherwise how will you know what each of you really wants? Try to use “I messages” - they are much more effective than “you messages” (compare: “I feel hurt when people raise their voice at me” and “You have no right to talk in that tone”). Gentle and daily care in the garden. Without the daily careful attention of a gardener, ornamental flowers will quickly wither. Delicate plants need protection from the cold, regular watering, and high-quality fertilizer. In family. You need to “invest” in relationships not only during the candy-bouquet period. Feelings need daily “feeding” - only then will they be truly strong and happy. The key to harmony. When a man and woman live together for more than one year, an interesting thing happens. The look seems to be “blurred” and we take many of our partner’s advantages for granted, while previously seemingly insignificant shortcomings suddenly acquire threatening proportions in our eyes. We urgently need to change our perspective!

Psychotherapists recommend this technique. Make a “positive list.” Write down on a piece of paper point by point everything for which you are grateful to your beloved. Include in this list some little things like “I like to fall asleep on his shoulder” or “he makes the most delicious coffee in the world for me in the morning,” and truly significant things (for example, “next to this person I feel like behind a stone wall"). Every time you feel a surge of dissatisfaction with your spouse, look at your miracle list - and the desire to make trouble will go away by itself. To feel the completeness of a relationship, daily positive contact between spouses is very important. For example, psychologists say that the “living minimum” of tactile sensations (stroking, kissing, hugging) between people is at least five affectionate touches during the day. Show your feelings! Give your loved one compliments. You can even do it in advance - it is likely that he will be so inspired by your praises that he will make every effort to live up to them in the future. We plant fresh cuttings in the garden. When an apple or pear tree ceases to please with a generous harvest, experienced gardeners graft fresh cuttings of fruit-bearing varieties onto the tree. And after some time, whole baskets of fragrant, ripe fruits are collected.

In family. At the nth year of family life, you may get the feeling that love has given way to routine, habit. Don’t be afraid to experiment, bring something new into your relationship – and it will blossom with renewed vigor!

The key to harmony. Building a career, household chores, and raising children certainly takes a lot of time and effort. However, with all these obligations, it is very important not to forget about the main thing: your relationship. Make your love your #1 priority, just like you did on your honeymoon long ago. Start acting like a couple of newlyweds head over heels in love again.

Walk holding hands, kiss for no reason, make romantic dates for each other in a cafe. Talk to each other – and not just about how things are going at work for you or your husband, or what’s new with the kids at school. Talk about what excites and inspires each of you, share your innermost dreams.

In general, the presence of a common goal plays an additional “cementing” role in a relationship. Find common ground in your dreams - what you both want, and start implementing your plans! And very soon you will see: all the fun in your relationship is just beginning!

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Characteristics of harmonious relationships

We can talk a lot about individual units of society and their interpersonal connections. After all, every couple has its own moments and nuances: someone welcomes freedom in relationships, the opportunity to have sexual relations with other partners on the side, but does not at all accept lies and insincerity in their couple. For some, even a partner’s flirting with someone else is a fierce taboo, but respect and respect for each other come first. For some, the priority aspect of the financial situation in the family is the common budget, while others prefer to have a separate treasury and spend their funds at their own discretion. In short, each couple has its own characteristics in communicating and building a communication process with each other. But there is a certain general average set of factors that are connecting links in a chain called “harmony of happy relationships.” What can be included in the list of these same factors?

Mutual understanding is the primary factor of mutual agreement and harmonious coexistence.
Love is the beginning of the sensual and emotional microclimate in the family.
Trust is the basis of a strong partnership.
Loyalty is a guarantee of a worthy life together.
Respect is a strong argument in the relationship of a strong couple.
Caring is the ability to appreciate each other and cherish our relationships.
Compromise is a lever for managing discussions.
Conflict-free – as the ability to give in to each other and not provoke scandalous situations.

Here it is - a short list of those aspects that characterize harmony in the relationship between a man and a woman, and are also the foundation of a healthy and strong family. This is the set of priority areas that every couple needs to work on to achieve happiness in their life together.

How to restore harmony in family relationships

Over the years, even in strong families, relationships between spouses lose their former sharpness and brightness. Passion goes away, tender feelings turn into a habit. Psychologists call this phenomenon a loss of emotional appeal. But emotional appeal is one of the most important components of a successful and happy union.

But don’t be upset, our happiness is in our hands!

A little effort - and fading feelings will flare up again.

CONFESS YOUR LOVE!

The closer a person is to us, the less often we tell him about feelings. When was the last time you admired your husband? But a sincere compliment or praise makes a man stronger and opens the way for him to new exploits and achievements. Did your spouse fix the faucet or clean the apartment? Don't take this for granted. Thank him.

DO NOT BE STINGY WITH KIND WORDS.

Say more often: “Thank you for existing! What would I do without you!”, “It’s so good that you’re not like everyone else!”, “How lucky I am to have you! You are a real man!".

TALK!

“Buy milk”, “Pass the salt” - the communication of many married couples often comes down to similar phrases. But once upon a time these people didn’t have enough time to talk to each other! But everyday life and routine absorbed all their free time, and everyone closed themselves in their own cocoon. It's time to get out of it! Show interest in your interlocutor. Learn to actively listen - it is important that your partner understands that he is being listened to, heard and empathized with. Then he will open up and reach out to you.

OUR ADVICE:

Set aside time every day to communicate with each other. For example, introduce (or resume) the tradition of family dinners. No TVs or phones. Enjoy food, share your secrets, make plans for the future!

BE MORE PATIENT!

Each of us has our own pros and cons. Once upon a time you chose this particular man. This means that your husband’s positive qualities significantly outweigh all his minor shortcomings. Believe me, an unwashed plate is not a reason for quarrels and constant reproaches. If you are really not satisfied with something, there is no need to nag or lecture your spouse. Calmly discuss the problem together.

TAKE IT INTO WEAPON.

Excessive irritability and sudden mood swings can be manifestations of overwork. Try talking to your husband about this.

GET BUSY!

The main enemy of relationships is boredom. Most often it occurs when spouses do not have common interests. Find a hobby that you both enjoy. A joint hobby will not only bring variety to family life, but will also help to avoid minor quarrels, troubles and misunderstandings.

I HAVE AN IDEA!

It doesn’t matter what you do, the main thing is to work together. Plant flowers, get an animal, dance, travel. Can't find common ground? Use your imagination. For example, a spouse is interested in fishing. Go outdoors with him. While he is fishing, you are photographing the local beauty. And then together you cook a deliciously delicious fish soup over the fire.

BE CREATIVE AND TAKE CARE OF YOUR LOVE!!!

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Love

The first thing that motivates people who want to reunite their lives into a single whole is, of course, love. An important role in mutual attraction and further spending time together is played by the sensual aspect of the relationship, mental and sexual attraction. It is no coincidence that sexual intercourse is not separately identified as the most important factor in a harmonious relationship between a man and a woman. Undoubtedly, this is a fairly significant moment in the development of any couple, and much depends on how the intimate life of the two partners works. If passion fades, if erogenous perception and attraction fade away, the relationship begins to lose that fire and that zest that connects them at the physiological level. Many notes and articles by qualified sexologists have been written about how to return sexual harmony to a relationship.

A joint visit to a psychologist, the use of new erotic lingerie by a woman, or the purchase of sexual paraphernalia in the appropriate store for the thrill of sensations - all these methods are effective, and they are not news to anyone. But can sex alone become the limiting factor in a falling apart relationship? Not at all. Only a union that is based on emotional and sensual attraction, a passionate perception of each other by a couple, can lead to truly harmonious contact between people. And the basis is love, not sex.

Understanding

But even strong affection and a feeling of love are not capable of, in their unity, ensuring the most calm and balanced climate in the relationship of two opposites. You can love ardently and selflessly, passionately and selflessly, but it is difficult to achieve constancy and coherence if there is no mutual understanding.

Harmonious relationships between a man and a woman take place only when each of them is able to participate in each other’s lives, understand and accept the actions and actions of the partner, and reach consensus. Very often, what men look for in a woman is not good looks or sexual attractiveness. They consider these feminine qualities only as a reason for a relationship for one or several nights.

In search of a lifelong friend, the powers that be are often guided by a sense of self-preservation, the need for a feeling of comfort and the presence of a partner nearby who could listen, support, and help with advice in a given situation. Just as a woman strives to find a man for her husband who would be able to understand her nature and reveal the full range of components of her femininity. This is mutual understanding. Behind it lies the answer to the question of how to achieve harmony in relationships.

Methods of harmonization

The ritual of harmonization is an art, the only method to rid a couple of most of the problems that they face. This includes quarrels on everyday topics, misunderstandings, scandals due to jealousy. The method of conducting it depends on the preferences of the person conducting it. Some people use Christian egregors (letters to an angel, magpies, prayers), while others prefer Buddhist ones. There are also runes and oriental magic. The only difference is the speed at which life changes occur in the partners’ relationships. But the goal of harmonization is always to obtain love, happiness and prosperity of the union.

To carry out serious and thorough rituals, it is better to seek help from a specialist. Typically, he suggests a ritual of harmonization. Its action neutralizes the negativity that has accumulated in the couple and manifests itself in the form of quarrels, scandals, and reproaches. There are a huge number of similar rituals - from elementary and accessible to technically complex and energetically heavy.

Home rituals

Everyone can perform easier rituals on their own at home. To do this, you only need a few tools: candles, joint photos, an egg. But the most important thing is a strong desire to achieve harmony in an alliance with the chosen one.

One method is prayer. It must be read late in the evening so that no one sees the person performing the ceremony and disturbs him. For the ritual you will need:

two thin church candles;
matches;
plate;
red wine.

The procedure is simple. But it is important not to interrupt your actions:

Intertwine the candles and place them on a plate.
Light each with a separate match.
Clearly imagine your chosen one and the relationship as you want to see it.
Looking at the flame, read the prayer three times: “Day after day, behind a candle there is a candle, so the bright feeling of the servant of God (name) for me, the servant of God (name) will flare up and burn. As these candles burn out without a trace, so will the hostility, resentment, hatred, dislike and all the dark feelings of the servant of God (name) towards me, the servant of God (name), dissolve forever. Amen".

After the last reading, extinguish the candles and put them in a secluded place. The ritual must be repeated every day until the candles burn out completely.

There is another option for performing the ritual yourself. For this you will need:

raw fresh egg;
two white wax candles;
convenient plate;
matches;
joint photo with a partner.

It is best to carry out the ceremony early in the morning. At this time, it’s easier to retire so that no one interrupts:

Sit at the table, place a plate in front of you.
Place the photo face up on it.
Place candles to the right and left of the photo.
Light them, using a separate match for each.
Take the egg in your hands and make sure there are no cracks or dirt on it.
Take the candle with your right hand, the egg with your left.
Roll it out clockwise for 15 minutes, repeating: “The egg is a stronghold of life. Help me, collect misfortune and evil. Absorb the sadness and hatred into yourself. Protect yourself from enemies. Let all the bad things go away, go into the egg and remain in it. The darkness will not return. Let it be so".

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After completing the ritual, put out the candles and put the egg in the bag. Do not touch it with bare hands. Take it, matches and a photograph with you, go into the forest or park away from your home. Burn the photograph there and scatter the ashes to the wind. Then take the egg so that you don’t touch it with your hands, but still have the opportunity to throw it. Break it with all your might against a stone or tree. Throw away the empty bag immediately. When you get home, throw away the plate and the remaining candles.

This is a fairly simple but effective ritual for harmonizing relationships in the family. To carry it out at home, no special skills or knowledge are required.

Magic rituals

Each magician who is involved in the harmonization of relationships has his own arsenal of rituals. Which one will be applied to a given situation depends on how deep the problem is in the relationship.

An effective method is visualization. Only a person who masters this art at the highest level will achieve the maximum effect from the ritual. The essence of the ritual is quite simple. It will require a piece of regular ice and a plate.

The ritual takes place at dawn. Place a plate in front of you and place a piece of ice on it. While it melts, a person should imagine what an ideal relationship between partners looks like. At the same time, you need to visualize how, with the melting process, all psychological or physical barriers that interfere with the development of harmony in relationships disappear.

No spells for melt water are required, because the ritual does not apply to love spells or spell magic. But you will need to visualize all the time until the ice melts completely. This requires enormous concentration. Then pour the water into a bottle of red wine, which the partners will drink together. This ritual will help remove coldness, misunderstanding, and indifference between a man and a woman.

Confidence

Do people often do reckless things? All around. Especially when it comes to love relationships. Couples regularly quarrel, make scandals, have conflicts, and sometimes these conflicts are completely groundless. And it all comes down to the fact that there is no trust between people in these kinds of situations. What kind of harmony can we talk about between a man and a woman if they persistently do not trust each other, control each other, suspect adultery, and are jealous? If a person lives with the subconscious thought that deception awaits him at every step, it will be difficult for him to achieve calmness and balance in his relationship with his other half.

The ability to trust is to some extent a gift. Not everyone is able to feel the sincerity of their partner, having once been previously betrayed by someone. But trust can and should be learned, because without it it is quite difficult to build any kind of relationship at all, be it love, friendship or even a career.

Loyalty

How many people - so many opinions. How many couples there are, so many types of relationships with all their nuances and specific moments. There are irrational individuals who prefer acute sensations and passionate impulses. They like to diversify their sex life with various extraordinary elements of behavior in bed, as well as frequent changes of partners, even if they have a permanent one, or swinging. But in any case, such people are a minority. Most of the representatives of an adequate society lead an average lifestyle, while they are characterized by standard human values, among which loyalty plays one of the most important roles.

Many women cannot imagine harmony in their relationship with their husband given the constant reasons for jealousy that the husband gives with his behavior. Just like men: they often have an extremely negative attitude towards their ladies’ communication with the opposite sex. And again, it is important to reach a consensus here: it is one thing when there is a reason, and completely different when jealousy is far-fetched. If you regularly break your vow of fidelity to your partner, even by flirting lightly with someone on the side, if you constantly confuse your other half with this, and sometimes even become furious, then how can you find harmony in your relationship? Only in a couple, the points of contact in which are reflected in mutual respect and mutual fidelity, can one talk about any kind of trust and harmonious coexistence.

Expected effect

The essence of the ritual can be understood by its name. Harmonization brings or restores lost harmony. Every person dreams and sees his personal life in his own way. He may even know how and what can be improved, and most likely tried to do it. But his attempts were unsuccessful. When every new step comes with great difficulty, the magic of harmonizing relationships will help. After it, resentment and jealousy will disappear, reproaches will stop, and complete mutual understanding will return. One partner will stop giving rise to scandals, and the second will begin to be more loyal to the mistakes of a loved one.

Harmonization of relationships will give lovers exactly the kind of union they see in their dreams: full of love, care, affection, attention and understanding. They will be able to relax and enjoy the sensations next to their loved one. Relationships will become a truly safe haven that allows you to gain strength and relax.

Respect

Speaking about mutual respect between a man and a woman, it should be noted that this is an equally weighty argument that affects the development of relationships between a couple. Surprisingly, even love, which faded over time and grew into some semblance of affection, cannot keep a fading relationship afloat as much as mutual respect between people.

When a person sacrifices himself, his principles, and acts at the will of his partner, if the situation really requires it, then this certainly deserves praise. When he goes against his beliefs, realizing how important it is for his loved one, this also says a lot.

An invisible thread of respect acts as a powerful connecting link between a young man and his chosen one, since those relationships that are built on the respect of one of them for the other can carry such a union through the years. And it doesn’t matter at what stage their slightly cooled feelings are or how regular their sex life is. What is important is their own respect for each other's principles. Such relationships can be called truly strong and strong.

Harmonization of relations – effect

The essence is reflected in the name - harmonization gives birth to harmony (or returns lost). You probably have a dream, your own vision of what your personal life should be. You may know what to improve, you could try and probably tried. And if nothing works out, if you are tired of trying to do this, magic will help - harmonization of relationships will fix everything. She will give you exactly what you dreamed of.

Are you tormented by your partner's jealousy (or resentment)? It will disappear. Is your loved one tired of your jealousy (or resentment, something else in you)? This will change and he (or she) will not reproach you even once, will begin to treat this with understanding and will no longer give you a reason.

How do you see your relationship? What could they do better? Harmonization of relationships will give you all this. And when harmony comes, life becomes brighter than any dream. Magic will give you everything that you were deprived of, everything that you were missing. Love, if it has weakened; care, if it has faded away, attention, affection, understanding, participation... You can finally relax and enjoy the relationship. They will become your quiet haven, where you can always relax and gain strength.

Remember your love at the very beginning? Those unforgettable highlights? This thrill, this overwhelming feeling? Over time, it fades and problems begin. Harmonization of relationships will return all the brightest, all the best (or give it to you if you haven’t already had it). And all this will remain, despite any problems. Harmony allows you to playfully cope with them. And you will fall asleep and wake up in loving arms. You will hear tender words. You will see the manifestation of self-love in everything.

What could be better when a relationship stops being a problem and becomes a pleasure? You can live this life! If you dream about this, if this is exactly what you need, write and the harmonization of relationships will make this your reality. Don’t put up with your pain, don’t wait for the mercy of a non-existent fate - ask for help right now! My address

Care

It is important not to forget about the attention that should be present in any interpersonal communications in a couple. After all, how to maintain harmony in relationships in which people are indifferent to each other? In which the wife does not care about her husband’s appearance and sends him to work in dirty, unironed clothes, and without food? In which a young man does not cover his frozen lady with a warm blanket on a cold winter evening and does not rush to the pharmacy for medicine when he sees that she has a cold? The manifestation of sincere love, and with it - comprehensive care and immeasurable tenderness - makes relationships incredibly strong and warm. This is the fundamental basis that identifies the warmth and comfort of a family hearth. In a home where attention reigns and caring for each other is encouraged, the apocalypse in the form of divorce is unlikely to ever occur. And all because a reverent attitude towards each other and courteous caring help young people learn the truth about how to create harmony in relationships.

Difference from love spells

The main difference between the rituals is that a love spell is hard magic and does not provide the help that can be expected from harmonization. In problematic relationships in which the breakup occurred due to misunderstanding, a love spell will not correct the situation. Yes, he will return his partner, but his loved one will not become more attentive and understanding. This means that the destruction of relationships will continue. A love spell will bring the relationship back, but it won’t get better.

We can say that the main difference between harmonization and love spell is the broader impact of the former. It will become a reliable support and basis for newfound happiness. A love spell will not replace it.

Harmonization may well become an alternative to divination for love. The actions here are similar, but the basis of influence is fundamentally different. When performing a harmonization ritual, feelings are strengthened not due to direct influence, but due to the elimination of negativity that interferes with the manifestation of tender feelings and love.

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A love spell works even in situations where a person is driven not by love and a bright feeling, but by passion, falling in love or a thirst for possession. Such divination is often used with malicious intent. At the same time, harmonization reflects the emotion of the person who carries it out. The ritual works if the partner sincerely and strongly wants to be with his loved one.

Compromise coexistence

People should take a closer look at the animal world: these silent creatures never create scandalous scenes or long fights with each other, being in a biological reproductive couple. With the exception, of course, of praying mantises, where the female, after the act of procreation, literally eliminates her partner. In fact, a compromise is that island of land in the endless ocean of everyday troubles, worries and civil strife, which brings people out of a scandalous situation as a lifeline.

If a discussion is brewing between young people in a couple, a compromise can miraculously stop the brewing showdown due to existing disagreements. It will be possible to comprehend the harmony of human relations only if the husband and wife in their active disputes come to a common denominator, without leading to discord or a serious scandal. This skill - to find consensus - can prevent any impending storm.

Non-conflict

Non-conflict is synonymous with compromise. How to learn to build relationships in such a way as not to succumb to the tricks of life and karma putting spokes in the wheels of a young, budding family? The lessons of fate are presented to humanity in any form, sometimes this is a test of the strength of relationships. In such difficult situations, it is important to withstand the pressure of a coincidence of circumstances, which provokes an imminent conflict to explode at the climax with a storm of emotions and a subsequent loud scandal.

Non-conflict is a significant condition that can nip in the bud demagoguery and any disputes that may arise in the lives of two. This is a rather valuable quality that ideally all young people who are starting to build their relationships should have. By being able to stop the flow of their emotional speeches, thoughtlessly thrown in a fit of argument, offensive words, many people could avoid divorce. But, unfortunately, the generation of chaotic youth and extraordinary individuals with a arrogant, arrogant character in the overwhelming majority dooms themselves to constant clarification of relationships, proof of their rightness and an endless desire to establish their dominance in a couple.